Kuparadzaniswa nemurume

Pakati pehuwandu hwemashiripiti emashiripiti, mukurumbira mukuru kunofadzwa nekushopera nemurume. Achitenda kwaari, mukadzi ane mukana wekuwana kunyatsoziva kuti mudiwa wake akabatana sei, vavariro dzake chaiyo uye mamwe mashoko anokosha zvikuru.

Kurambidzwa nemakadhi kumunhu

Kune zvakawanda zvakasiyana-siyana zvakasiyana zvekuuka uku, asi tichagara zvakadzama pane imwe yadzo. Iyi sarudzo yakakodzera kune avo vakadzi vasingagoni kusarudza nevarume kuti varambe vachiita hukama hwakakomba, kana pane vateveri vakawanda. Kutanga, iwe unoda kutenga 4 jacks, fungidzira munhu mumwe nomumwe uye fungisisa zvakazara. Pavari imwe neimwe, ita mamwe makadhi ose. Iye zvino fungai murwi wemurume mumwe nomumwe uye ona kuti sutu yei inowanikwa:

• minye - munhu anokuda;
• makandira - uyu munhu achakupa hupenyu husina hanya, maererano nemari;
• makirabhu - kubva kune uyu akasarudzwa iwe unogona kungotarisira misodzi uye kuora mwoyo;
• peji - kubva kumurume uyu iwe uchava nevana.

Mamwe kuuka neukama nemurume

Izvi zvakasiyana-siyana zvekuuka zvichakubatsira kuti uwane kuti rudzi rwehukama hwemunhu hupi huchange huine munhu chaiye. Kwaari, iwe unoda kutora nheyo mbiri, dzinofanirwa kuvezwa, somuenzaniso, shandisa kirimu kana maorivhi. Ivaise mumudziyo wemvura uye tarisai maitiro:

• kana nheyo dzikanyudzwa, ipapo pachava nekukanganiswa kwakasimba uye kukakavara muhukama;
• kana nheyo dzakabatana, ipapo hukama hwako huchava hwakasimba uye hunogara;
• kana nheyo dzakapararira nenzira dzakasiyana, zvinoreva kuti mumwe munhu anopesana nehukama hwako.

Kufungidzira manzwiro evanhu

Kuburitsa kwakadaro kwakanyanya kare, ivo vaishandiswa nemadzitateguru edu kure kuti vazive nezvemanzwiro emumwe wavo. Ndinotenda nekuda kwehuwandu hunoti iwe unogona kudzidza kutendeseka kwemanzwiro emudiwa. Unofanirwa kuripedza paunenge uchikura mwedzi pakati peusiku. Usati wanyora, fungisisa uye funga nezvomuda wako. Zvino iwe unoda kutora makese 2 echechi uye kunyora pamusoro pavo: mumwe achati iwe, mumwe wacho. Makese anofanira kuiswa pamwe nechemberi, uye pakati pavo vanoisa ringiro ipi yechato. Vhenekera makenduru nekucherechedza maitiro avo:

• kana ivo vachida kune mumwe nemumwe, manzwiro ako ndeawirirana;
• kana ivo pane zvinopesana zvakatsauka kubva kune mumwe, zvino hukama uhwu hunofanira kumira;
• kana imwe kenduru yakanyatsonaka, uye imwe ndeyokubatisisa, ipapo izvi hazvina kukwana rudo.

Iwe haufaniri kuvhara makenduru, ivo vanofanira kupisa vari voga. Iwe unokwanisa kukandira kunze kwekudzivirira matanda kubva kumakendeni, nokuti watotogamuchira imwe yaunoda.