Iwe unoda kuti amai vose vamuone mwanasikana wavo muduku mune ramangwana mudzimai chaiye, uyo vanhu vose vakavapoteredza vachayemura! Vakadzidza, vakadzidza, vakanaka, vanyoro, vanoteerera, vakagadzirirwa zvakanaka - izvozvi zvinosanganiswa nevanhu vazhinji vane shoko rokuti "lady". Uye izvi pasinei nokuti zvechokwadi pakutanga kwaishandiswa kune vakadzi vaingoziva chete kubika chingwa! Zvinosuruvarisa, nhasi tsika dzakanaka, kunyanya pakati pevasikana vechidiki, haisi nguva dzose dzinofungidzirwa sechinhu chinowanzoitika. Asi kunyange kana mwana wako wepachikoro achida kuva neshamwari nevakomana, anozvibata semutombo chaiye, kuchine nguva yekurera mudzimai chaiye kubva kwaari.
Mukadzi kubva kumubhedha
Nzira yakanakisisa uye yakajeka yekusimudzira mukomana muduku kubva kumusikana muduku ndiyo muenzaniso wega. Mumakore ekutanga ehupenyu, amai ndivo simba iro mwana akaenzana naro. Psychology yemucheche yakadai kuti zvinhu zvose zvakapoteredza, zvinosara zvinyorwa pamunhu wacho, mufambiro wehutano uye kunyange kutaridzika. Kana amai vachifunga kuti zvakakosha kutarisa zvakanaka uye vakagadzirirwa kunze kunze kweimba, zvichange zvakaoma kutsanangurira mwana, sei achicherechedza mitemo yehutsanana, kutarisa mamiriro ekufuka, shangu, misumari. Kakawanda vabereki vanofunga kuti zvinhu zvakanaka zvinofanira kunge zvakasakara, uye neimba yekare yepenhose ine masango, raglan nemavara kubva mujisi kana chokoti ichauya. Aiwa, izvi hazvirevi kuti pamusha unofanira kupfeka musikana mukupfeka kwakanaka, asi zvipfeko zvinogadziriswa zvinofanira kuva zvakachena, zvakanaka.
Kubvira achiri muduku, akajaira kuzvipfeko zvevakadzi, hachisi chakavanzika chokuti nhasi vakadzi vakawanda havakwanisi kubuda mumabhuruku avo, vachifunga kuti zvipfeko nemapfekete hazvishamisi. Mumwe musikiristiki angave achifara kuratidzira mumapfekete akanaka, uye tsika yacho ichararama hupenyu hwose. Zakolochki, mapoka emakumbo akanaka, hoops, pigtails - musikana anongoda kufarira!
Zvechokwadi, kuonekwa kunokosha, asi pane zvinhu zvishoma zvisingakoshi. Semuenzaniso, kutaura kwemusikana. Uye hazvisi zvemashoko anonyadzisa, ayo asingatenderwi zvachose! Kuongorora kwakashata kwevamwe vanhu, makuhwa, makuhwa - izvi ndizvo izvo mudzimai chaiye haazombozvibvumi. Ndicho chikonzero musikana haafaniri kunzwa mazwi akadaro kubva kuna amai, mbuya, hanzvadzi. Muhuduku, tsika ipi neipi inowanikwa nokukurumidza, saka vabereki vanofanira kutevera zvavanotaura.
Mukadzi - ndiko kuzvimiririra, hukadzi, kuzvidzora, nyasha, charm, nyasha. Asi hazvibviri kuputsa unhu hwomusikana! Kana iye akashinga uye ari kushambadzira, zvino basa reamai nderokubatsira musikana kuwana mitsara inomubvumira kuti arambe ari musikana, asi panguva imwechete azvinzwe. Tsanangura kune muduku kuti chitarisiko chinotapira uye chinokwezva nechinonyangadza hazvireve chinhu! Runako huchaenda husingaoneki!
Ngationei mhinduro
Iwe unoziva mwana wako zviri nani kupfuura ani zvake! Hapana mitemo yakawanda inogona kubatsira kudzidzisa mudzimai chaiye kubva pamucheche, asi kutevera mazano anotevera, uchaita kuti basa rako rive nyore:
- muenzaniso wega;
- kukurudzira chero kuratidzwa kwevakadzi;
- kushanda nguva dzose pamararamiro emwana;
- kutevedza mitemo yehutsanana (mune zvipfeko, pakati pevamwe);
- kuwedzera kukwirira kwemwana;
- kubatanidza tsika dzakanaka.
Uye usateerera kune avo vanotaura kuti nguva dzevashandi vakashinga uye vakadzi vanoyevedza vakagara kare! Mutsa, kurera zvakanaka, kuterera, kuremekedza vamwe, kunaka mukati kunogara kuchikosheswa zvikuru. Uye rudo rwevabereki, kutarisirwa uye kutarisirwa zvakanaka mubatsiri mune dzidzo yemukadzi akanaka chaizvo.
Kuoma kwakafanana ndeyevabereki uye kurera kwemudiki muduku.