Mhedzisiro yechipu inodzokera kune dzimwe nguva dzakare apo vakadzi vakanyengerwa naDon Juan, Giacomo Casanova. Mazuva ano pikaper - ndiani uyu? Mutsvakurudzi wemhando yemadzimai kana murume ane zvekuvaraidza zvepabonde chete, uye vasikana vanotamba mumusikana wake anofadza?
Ndiani ari muchengeti-up artist?
PaIndaneti, mufananidzo wepikicha unofadza uye unokonzera kutsamwa mune zvepabonde rakanaka. Ndiani ari murume anotora-up? Uyu munhu anoshandisa nzira dzakanyengera dzokunyengedza vasikana kuitira kuti vaite zvepabonde uye vanyangarika kubva pakatarisana navo kuti vatevere zvinotevera. Iyo pikicha inogona kuenzaniswa nechifananidzo chechifusi chinoputika kubva pamaruva kusvika pamaruva.
Mifananidzo iri mumapepeti - chii ichocho?
Chii chiri chimiro - muna 1992 munyori weAmerica Paul Jeffrey mubhuku rake "Nzira yekudhonza sei mukadzi wezviroto zvako muhope" akadana nzira iyi yakasvibisa seduction mutungamiri wevarume vakaneta kuva vakanaka, asi kukundikana nevakomana vakasiyana. Shandisa mukushandura kubva kuChirungu. slang kutora - "kutora", "kubvisa" - unyanzvi hwokunyengedzera nokukurumidza, hwakabva kuWest. Musangano mumutambo wepikicha unoramba uri pamusoro pekutonga kwe "3 kushanyira":
- Chirongwa chekutanga - kuziva. Kutsvaga musikana munzvimbo dzevanhu: metro, mapaki, makira. Chinangwa ndechokuti uwane nhamba yefoni (pasina maminitsi gumi nemashanu).
- Zuva rokutanga - chikwata chinogadzira chivimbo, chinoshandisa chiedza, chitarisiko chinopenya. Zvose zvakasimbiswa ndezvekukurukurirana kwemusikana pamusoro pake, nguva dzose inomutungamirira mumugwagwa uyu. Chinangwa ndechokutsvaga kufarira (zvinotora kwete kupfuura awa), uye kuti musangano unoitika.
- Kugadzwa kwechipiri kunonyengedzwa nemaoko: kukumbatira, kugadzika, kupindira, kuedza kuratidza kuti akatakurwa nemusikana. Nguva inongopera maawa 4-5. Chinangwa chemusangano ndechekushandura kunononoka kusvika kumusangano wechitatu uye kuguma kunonzwisisika kwepabonde rake, kana kana musikana wacho asina kugadzirira, kumumikidza kune wechitatu.
- Zuva rechitatu . Chinangwa chacho ndepabonde. Nokuda kweizvi, kusarudzwa "nenzira isina ngozi" inoyeuka kuti pane imwe nzvimbo yakanaka iyo imba yake, kana imba yevamwe shamwari.
Chii chinonzi pic pic yakanaka?
Chero nzira ipi neipi yakaipa uye yakanaka. Mifananidzo iri mukududzirwa kwemazuva ano yakakamurwa kuva mhirizhonga: pikisi isina tsvina uye kunyengedza nemaune. Hasi vanhu vose vanoziva nzira yekuziva uye kuzvibata vakasununguka nevakadzi. Mumwe munhu ane izvi kunyara kwepanyama, vamwe vane zvakawanda zvakaoma pamatambudziko avo, asi vakabatana nechido chekuziva musikana wacho nehukama hurefu. Zvimwe zvemotokari yakagadzirwa:
- kuti aone mumukadzi munhu ane nyika yakafuma yepakati;
- chidzidzo chemuviri wemuviri nekuda kwekucherechedza zviratidzo, apo musikana wacho asingatendi kuti azive;
- humwe shanduko;
- shanda nekuzviremekedza;
- kudzidza kwekutya kunobva pakuziva
Chii chakakanganisika nemotokari?
The psychology of pickup yakagadzirwa pamagadzirirwo emhando ye nzira yeurourolinguistic programming (NLP) yakatangwa naRichard Bendler. Kushandiswa kwemaitiro kunobatanidza miitiro yekutarisa: kinesthetic, inzwi, inoonekwa, uyo akabatwa nepikicha inowanikwa mumhando yemutambo, kunyengedza ruvara. Dirty pikaper - ndiani uyu? Icho chikwata chevarume avo mweya wekukwikwidza uye hukuru hunouya pakutanga. Nzira dzinoshandisa zvigadziro:
- Zvinopesana nemitemo yemitemo.
- Izvo zvinotarisirwa kuisa pasi kuzvidzora kwomusikana wacho. Mune zviitiko izvi, shandisa bhenji, majee akasiyana-siyana (asina kupfekedzwa mufashoni, bvudzi rakanyorova, etc.).
- Fadza manzwiro, manzwiro. Unogona kuuya nemasina matema: rudo rwemhuka, chido chekufambisa uye kufarira kutaura pamusoro paro. Vasikana vanopindura nemanzwiro akadaro, izvo zvinoreva - kusarudzwa kwave kuchizadzisa chinangwa chayo.
Nzira yekuziva sei pickup artist?
Vakadzi vazhinji vanotarisana nemutambo wevanhu vasina kutendeseka vakabvunza mubvunzo: kuti ungaziva sei mapikicha muhupenyu, kuitira kuti urege kunzwa kurwadziwa kwe "kushandiswa" zvakare. Ziva izvi "maziso" anogona kunge akavakirwa pa:
- Ikoko kwakanga kusina kunaka pakutaurirana.
- Kwete-congruent state: zviito, manzwiro, maziso, chiso, manzwiro anopesana. Inoratidza mufaro - nemapfudzi uye makona emuromo wacho achiderera, maoko akayambuka pamberi pebhokisi.
- Kunyanya kubhadharwa kune chimiro: hairstyle isina kunaka, mafuta anodhura.
- Kutanga pikaper kunoedza kutora foni kubva kumusikana uye kuvanza, ne "chiitiko" ichapa hurukuro imwe nguva.
- Kukurukurirana kunotanga nemishandisirwo isiri iyo yakazara isingasanganisi shamwari.
- Nzira yekusiyanisa pikicha yemufananidzo kubva kune unofarira chaizvo: mapikicha pachawo anoratidza nzvimbo dzekushanyira apo pasina chikonzero chekubhadhara musikana.
Munguva ichangopfuura, baton yekusarudza-yakasarudzwa nevamiriri vevakadzi vasina simba. Pikaper-mukadzi - ndiani uyu uye chii chiri chikadzi chechikadzi chakasiyana nemurume? Vasikana vanoshandisa nzira dzakadaro dzekufambidzana, asi chinangwa chikuru chinogona kuva chakasiyana: kurambana kwemari, kuunganidza varume, kana kunyange kuroora. Mukadzi anokwanisa kusangana nevarume vanoverengeka kamwechete, uye munhu wose achava nechokwadi chokuti ndiye oga.
Nzira yekukurukurirana sei ne pick-up artist?
Pikaper munhu anoenda kune chinangwa chake, munyaya iyi nekunyengera uye zvepabonde. Musikana chinhu chaasingadi kuziva, asi chinotora semubairo wekuita zvimwe. Kana mukadzi anonzwisisa izvo zvisati zvaitika kumunyengeri iye zvino mukukurukurirana nemutengi wevatora iwe unogona kushandisa maitiro:
- Isa pfungwa dzake kubva kwaari, bvunza mibvunzo yakawanda pamusoro pehupenyu hwake, mhuri yake.
- Rega kubata kumeso uye kukurudzira kwekero yako: mhinduro "Hongu, ndinoziva kuti akanaka sei (akachenjera, mutambi").
- Kutungamirirwa nekudzikama uye mukati mumiririro, pakarepo kana paine manzwiro okusagadzikana muhurukuro-kumisa hurukuro, achitaura nezvebasa.
Nzira yekuwira sei mukudanana nemutengi-nyanzvi?
Murume - munyengeri - munhuwo zvake ane matambudziko ake uye iye, zvakare, haagoni kurara murudo ne "chibayiro" chake. Ukama pamwe chete nevanotora-nyanzvi vanogona kuita uye, kwenguva yakati, achabatana nemusikana uyo akadzora manzwiro ake, asi zvakakosha kunzwisisa kuti hukama hwakasimba mune ramangwana hahufananidzi kumirira. Varume vanobatanidzwa mukukunda-kutora uye ruzivo rwekukunda mumwe nemumwe vanobva vachitevedzera mararamiro aya.
Nzira yekugadzira pepi?
Nzira dzekusarudza-vanyori vanogonawo kushandiswa kurwisana nevanyengedzi pachavo:
- kukonzera maari manzwiro okusachengeteka (rhete rakaputika, ruvara rwekare ruyeredzi);
- sarudza nzvimbo yemusangano pachake: cinema, cafe (iyo pickup haina kubvumirana, ane "yega" nzira);
- kumubvunze kuti ataure pamusoro pake uye atungamirire hurukuro pamusoro pake (haafariri, sezvo kutonga kwake kurasikirwa).
Dzimwe nzira:
- kusava nehanya: usapindura mafonera, emaimeri. Iwe unogona kupindura, asi udzokezve musangano weimwe zuva revhiki, uye famba zvakare. Kwenguva yakareba izvi hazvizopfuuri, mupiki achasiya ari oga otora imwe.
- Kuvhiringidzwa kwekubatana kwepanyama, iyo inofarira kushandisa vanyengeri.
Nzira yekudzidzisa sei chidzidzo kumunhu anonyora-nyanzvi?
Nzira yekutora-inokonzera kutsamwa kuvasikana vakatarisana nechiitiko ichi kwekutanga. Maforamu emadzimai anonyatsokurukurirana nyaya dzakabatana nemusoro wepikicha uye vakagumbusa vasikana kurota kwechitsva. Kuti udzidzise chidzidzo kune mumwe munhu, iwe unogona kuwira murudo naye ozorega, kunyangarika kubva muupenyu hwake-ndizvo zvinofungidzirwa nevakadzi. Kune munhu-zvinorwadza zvikuru, asi hazvigoneki kuti zvichaita kuti achinje.