Vakadzi vakawanda vari mu "chinakidza" nzvimbo, nhasi vanoda kutenga zvigadziro zvose zvinodiwa vasati vaberekwa, saka vanogara vachiine mubvunzo kana vachibhadhara mari yekuberekwa, vasati vasvika kana mushure mekubereka. Muchikamu chino, tichaedza kunzwisisa nyaya iyi.
Ndeipi inobhadharwa kuberekwa kwekuberekwa kubasa - asati aberekwa kana shure?
Vose vakadzi vanoenda pavanenge vachienda kuberekwa panguva yekutakura uye kuuya kwekuzvarwa kunozopedzisira vawana mari yakasiyana-siyana yekubhadhara, iyo yakawanda iyo inowanikwa pamusana pemari yemwedzi yemakore ekutanga yemakarani. Pasinei neizvi, mhinduro kumubvunzo, apo mushandi anofanira kubhadhara zororo rekuberekwa, akafanana kune vose uye anorongerwa nemutemo wehurumende umo mukadzi ane pamuviri anogara uye anoshanda.
Saka, vanorwara vanoenda mubhokisi, iyo inobhadharwa, inobudiswa kwaari pamusi we30 wevhiki yekumirira kwehupenyu hutsva. Iyi nyanzvi inoratidza huwandu hwezororo rekuberekwa - zvose muRussia neUkraine inotanga mazuva makumi manomwe musati yasvika zuva rinotarisirwa rokutengeswa, uye rinoguma mazuva makumi manomwe pashure payo kuRussia nemazuva makumi mashanu gare gare kuUkraine. Vakadzi vechiRussia vanotarisira kuberekwa kwevana vaduku vaviri kana kupfuura panguva imwe chete kugamuchira hosha yezororo kwemazuva makumi masere nemakumi mana panguva imwechete - mazuva makumi matanhatu nemaviri asati apfuura uye pashure pemakore gumi nemana. Izvi ndezvenguva iyi mubasa revashandi veanoshandira kuti zororo iroro rakagadzirwa.
Maererano nemutemo, kuberekwa kunofanira kubhadharwa apo amai vanouya vanouya nehope yekurwara yakagamuchira kune dhipatimendi rebazi revanoshandisa uye vanonyora zvinyorwa zvake zvakanyorwa. Zuva chaiyo, kana izvi zvichiitika, mutemo hauna kurondedzerwa. Mumwe nomumwe mushandi anozvisarudzira, paanobhadhara zororo rekuberekwa, pane zuva rinotarisirwa rebhadharo kana rimwe zuva, zvakasiyana nezvimwe zvikwereti, asi, nenzira imwe neimwe, achafanira kuzviita pashure megumi kwemazuva ekurenda, kubva panguva yekuwana shanduro yakanyorwa.
Anenge nguva dzose vakadzi vane pamuviri vanowana mari inonakidza kunyange vasati vaberekwa uye vanogona kuzvirambidza ivo pachavo. Munguva iyi, mamiriro ehumai evanamangwana angave akasiyana, uye inofanira kusimbiswazve zvakare kuti kubhadharwa kwakaverengwa kwehuwandu hwose hwezororo rekuberekwa kunobhadharwa chete apo chikumbiro chinotumirwa kumudhipatimendi wekugadzirisa zvemari.
Mune mamwe mamiriro ezvinhu, kusiya kunopiwa kumukadzi nekuda kwekudzivirira uye kuberekwa kunogona kuwedzerwa kwemazuva mashomanana mushure mekuguma kwenguva inotaurwa muurwere urongwa. Kunyanya, iyi ndiyo mamiriro ekuberekwa kwakaoma kana kuti asati azvarwa. Mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, chipatimendi chechipatara chakabudiswa pamusi we30 wevhiki yekumirira mwana anowedzera.
Panguva imwechete muUkraine, mushure mekunge pave nenguva yekuberekwa kwechirwere chechirwere chepaiti, kana zvakakodzera, inowedzera mazuva makumi manomwe, uye muRussia - kusvika kumazuva 86. Muchiitiko ichi, musikana wechidiki anogonawo kuva nemubvunzo paanenge akasungirwa kubhadhara mwana akaberekwa.
Kana pane zvikonzero zvekuwedzera nguva yekudzingwa kubva kubasa, mukadzi anofanira kuverenga uye kubhadhara nguva yekusununguka kwekuberekwa panguva imwe chete, uye apo iyo huru yepamusoro - pasati yapera mazuva gumi mushure mekuchengetwa muzvipatara mune dhipatimendi rezvinyorwa zvepamusoro kana kushanda kwevashandi vemushandi.
Mune zvimwe zviitiko mutero uyu unonziwo sekuenda kwekuberekwa, asi, yakasiyana neyo yapfuura pakuti haasi mushandirwi ndiye ane basa rekutumirwa kwaro, asi hurumende inoshandiswa munzvimbo yekugara kweamai vaduku.