Waiziva here kuti kuenda kwekuberekwa kwekuzvarwa muSweden ndeimwe yezvakakura kudarika nyika? Saka, kugara nemwana achangoberekwa kunogona kunge kune mazuva mazana mana, "kutora" iyo muzvikamu - nemwedzi, vhiki, mazuva uye kunyange neawa.
Uye vane masimba vacharipa muhuwandu hwe80% yemari, uye kana iwe uri mushandi wehurumende, iwe uchagamuchira 100% yezvose. Asi gadzirira kudzidza chokwadi chinonakidza-kubva pama 480 mazuva 60 pamwe nemwana anofanira kugara baba, uye kana iye akaramba, kuti mazuva ano anoderedzwa uye asingabhadharwi!
Zvaifungidzirwa kuti chiyero ichi chakamanikidzwa chichatibatsira vabereki kuti vanzwisisane zvakanaka, dzidza kugovera mabasa uye funga nezvemhuri dzavo uye mabasa pahutano hwakakwana.
Asi, hongu, chaizvoizvo zvakazoitika kuti 12% chete yemapapa matsva akagadzirira kushandisa mahonasi kubva kuhurumende uye kupa mwedzi miviri yekuchengetwa nekurerwa kwevana vavo. Uye munyori wemifananidzo Johan Bävman ndomumwe wavo:
"Ndakatanga basa iri pandakanga ndava pamba nemwanakomana wangu muduku. Zvadaro zvakaratidza kwandiri kuti mune bhizinesi iri ndiri ndoga uye ndisina kutsigirwa. Uye ndakakwira nemafungiro ekutora uye kuunganidza nyaya dzepapapa avo, saivo, vasina kurega mugove wavo wekusiya vabereki, vanoona kuti sei vakatora danho iri uye chidzidzo chei chavakadzidza ... "
Ngationei kuti chii chakaitika pane izvi?
1. Johan Ekengård, 38, mushambadziri wezvibereko kuSandvik naPapa Ebby (makore manomwe), Taira (makore mashanu) uye Steen ane makore rimwe:
"Ndakamanikidzwa kuita kuti mari inokanganisa muzororo, asi semugumisiro ndakakunda kaviri - Ndine chokwadi chokuti ndakaitika sababa uye ndakatanga kunzwisisa mudzimai wangu zviri nani. Uye kushamwaridzana kwedu kwakasimba nevana kwakakosha zvikuru pakukura kwavo ... "
2. Muguta reNorth, 32, mutungamiri wezvivako zvehupfumi uye baba vane mwedzi gumi Holger baba:
"Muhupenyu hwezuva nezuva ini nomudzimai wangu tinoedza kuva nechitsiko chakaenzana zvakaringana. Mumwedzi yekutanga zvakanga zvakaoma kwatiri, asi nhasi ndinozvikudza pamusoro penguva iyi. Mwana wedu akaramba dampers mumwedzi mina! Uye zuva rangu remazuva ano rinosanganisira kuti ndinofanira kubika Holger zvokudya uye kutamba naye. "
3. Loui Kuhlau, makore 28, mutambi uye baba veElling mwanakomana:
"Mhuri yedu imomo haina kumbobvira yakurukura - ndiani achafanira kugara nemwana. Zviri pachena kuti vabereki vose vanofanira kutora chikamu! Asi dai ndisina kuwana mukana wokuva naElling kwegore, ndingadai ndisina kumbofungidzira zvaaiva uye zvaaida. Zvinoshamisa, nokuti mumurairo vanobhadhara zuva rose rekushanda, saka nei vanhu vasingadi kuva pamba nemwana wavo? "
4. Samad Kohigoltapeh, 32, muongorori wehurumende uye baba vaviri veParis naLeia:
"Iwe wakapa nyika vanhu vatsva uye ibasa renyu kuvatsigira muupenyu hwako hwose! Asi ini ndakatotaurirana nemudzimai wangu, kuitira kuti ndikunde "mwedzi" wangu! "
5. Ola Larsson, 41, mutengesi uye baba vemwanakomana waGustav:
"Icho chipo chaicho-kukwanisa kuva pedyo nemwana uye kusimbisa kushamwaridzana kwakasimba! Baba havazivi kunyange kuti vari kurasikirwa kana vakasarudza basa panzvimbo yezororo. "
6. Tjeerd van Waijenburg, 34, mugadziri wezvigadzirwa muIkea uye baba vaTim:
"Kunyange ikozvino, kana mazuva angu makumi matanhatu apfuura, ndinomanikidza kupfupisa vhiki inoshanda kuti ndipedze nguva yakawanda nemwanakomana wangu. Kunyadziswa kune avo vana vasingaoni chero zvakakosha mumamiriro ekuenzanisa! "
7. Andreas Bergström, 39, mushumiri wehurumende uye baba vevanakomana vaviri:
"Mushure mokuberekwa komwanakomana wangu muduku, mudzimai wangu aiva nematambudziko. Ndakatora chikamu chikamu mumudzidzisi wechecheche uye ndainzwa kubatana kwababa kuburikidza nekudya kwekuita kwevaduku. Iye zvino vana vangu vanovimba neni zvakanyanya saamai vangu, uye izvi zvinokosha kwandiri! "
8. Marcus Bergqvist, 33, nyanzvi yehurumende uye baba vevanakomana vaTed naSigge:
"Vakadzi vanogadzirira amai kubva pamazuva ekutanga ekudzivirira, uye mapapa anoerekana aita, mushure mokuberekwa. Asi ndinofunga kuti kudai ndakanga ndisina kutarisana nemabasa angu pazororo, bhari yekuzviremekedza ingadai isina kubviswa! "
9. Marcus Pranter, makore makumi maviri nemashanu, mutengesi wewaini uye baba vane mwedzi 8:
"Iyi mitemo yeupenzi! Madzitateguru anofanira kuenda kumutemo, kana vachida, uye kwete pane zvaanotungamirira. Uye iyo yakareba iyo mapapa anonoka kupera iyi, zvakanyanya kuoma kutanga kugarisana nemwana. Mhuri yedu, ini nemudzimai wangu takagovana basa rekudzidzisa zvakaenzana. "
10. Göran Sevelin, 27, mudzidzi uye baba vemwanasikana waLibhu:
"Kunyange kana iwe uchingorasikirwa nemari, kuva nemwana ndicho chinhu chinonyanya kukosha! Amai vanosangana panguva yekuyamwisa, saka vanababa vanofanirawo kutarisira ukama hwavo hwepfungwa nemwana munguva iyi. "
11. Jonas Feldt, ane makore 31, mutungamiri panzvimbo yekushandira uye baba vevanasikana veSiriya (1 gore) naLovis (makore matatu):
"Chiratidzo kwandiri chaiva musarudzo mumagazini yechidiki. Izvozvo zvakaitika kuti vazhinji vevana, pavanenge vachirwara kana vasinganzwisisiki, tsvaka kudzivirirwa kubva kuna amai vavo. Uye ndinoda kuti vasikana vangu vagone kuvimba neni! "
12. Ingemar Olsen, 37, muongorori weET uye baba vevanakomana vaLinus naJoel:
"Kwandiri kwaiva chisarudzo chakaoma, nokuti mumashandiro andinoshanda, varume vanotonga. Asi mushandi wangu aiva murume akanaka mumhuri, izvo zvakafuridzira ini. Nhasi ndinofara kuti ndinopedza nguva nevana uye ndinonzwisisa zvido zvavo zvakanaka. "
13. Martin Gagner, 35, mutungamiriri weYunivhesiti yeMalmo naPapa Matilda (makore mana) uye Valdemara (1 gore):
"Nomwanasikana wangu ndakanga ndisiri pazororo, uye ndinonzwa ndine mhosva. Ndinofunga kuti ndarasikirwa zvikuru, uye pedyo nekusagona kwandingava nemwanakomana wangu ... "
14. Juan Cardenal, makore 34, mudzidzi nababa Ivo (1 gore) naAlma (makore mana):
"Vabereki vanosiya zvachose hupenyu hwangu - Ndine nguva yokufunga nezvechinhu chikuru, ndakakwanisa kuchinja basa rangu, uye iniwo ndakava nomukana wokuona matanho ekutanga evana!"
15. Michael Winblad, 35, baba vasina Matisse (makore maviri) uye Vivian (mwedzi 5):
"Ndaiva nerombo nemudzimai wangu. Munguva dzakaoma, mari yake inogona kuvhara mari yekushandisa mhuri yedu. Uye ini, zvakare, ndakaedza kuva baba vakanaka kubva kunababa vose "!
Kusvika iye zvino, ma heroes emufananidzo wemufananidzo Johan Bävman atova mapapa makumi matatu nemapfumbamwe pazororo rekuberekwa, asi chinangwa ndechokuunganidza nhau 60 (maererano nehuwandu hwemazuva aripo), saka-kuti ienderere mberi ...