Rudo rwakashata uye, zvinosuruvarisa, psychopaths rinoshandisa iyo. Zvakakosha kuziva pane imwe nguva kuti pane chimwe chinhu chakashata nemurume, uye kubva kune "hutano" hwakadaro.
Chimbofungidzira, munyika inenge 4% yevanhu inotambura nekufungisisa, izvi zvinoreva kuti mumwechete pakati pevanhu makumi maviri nevashanu ari munjodzi. Chimiro chezvikamu zvehupfungwa chinosanganisira rudo rukuru rwezvako, ruzivo rwekunyengera, kusava nehana uye tsitsi. Wakamboona zviratidzo zvakafanana mukomana wako here? Nditendei, izvi hazvina kunaka.
1. Ukama hwakanaka, sezvinotaurwa munhau.
Wemumwe wako akakukomberedza norudo, anoratidza unyoro, anozadzisa zvese zvese, kazhinji, pane manzwiro ekuti apa iye mutongi akareba kwenguva refu, uye hupenyu hwava nhau. Zvinosuruvarisa, mazano ake anokunda-kukunda, nokuti zvakaoma zvikuru kurwisa kukurudzirwa, kutarisirwa uye unyoro. Kana iyo isiri nguva refu, uye achitotaurira pamusoro pesimba rakasimba, funga pamusoro paro, nokuti inoratidzika seimwe kunyungira.
2. Mira, mira, chimwe chinhu chinokurumidza.
Psychopaths dzakaoma, uye hazvidi kuti, kupfeka masikiti e "changamire mutungamiri" kwenguva yakareba, saka anosarudza mutambo maererano nemamiriro ekukurumidza. Anotaura nezve rudo husingaperi, vana, muchato uye anodana "chikamu chechipiri" kubva panguva yekuziva? Bhura, nokuti kukurumidza kwakadaro kunogona kutungamirira kumagumo anosuruvara.
3. Anongova nyeredzi huru.
Paanoona kuti munhu wacho ari "pachigamba," unhu hwepachipati hunotanga kuratidza zvishoma nezvishoma. Anoda kunge ari pakati pekucherechedza, kuti munhu wose anomuremekedza kana kuti akazvidemba. Kuti aite izvi, achabatanidza mafungiro ake asingagumi uye anotaura kuti akabvisa sei mwana kunze kweimba inopisa, kuti akakunda sei chirwere chakakomba nezvimwe zvakadaro. Nenguva imwe neimwe zvinyorwa zvichange zvisinganyanyi kuitika uye zvicharatidzika kuti Superman anotevera.
4. Handina kuita izvi uye handina kutaura izvozvo!
Kana iwe psychopath inodiwa, nokukurumidza iwe uchava neshamwari itsva ye "shamwari" yakatendeka yekusuruvara uye kunyange kutadza. Zvose izvi - mazano akanaka ekuita, nokuti mukomana anokwanisa kubva kune chero mamiriro ezvinhu, semuchenjeri wemhizha. Funga nezvekuti kakawanda sei mutsara unoti "iwe unomuka" unonzwika? Uye chakanyanya kusuruvara ndechokuti mushure mechinguva iwe unobvumirana neizvi.
5. Upenyu hwakafanana nekuputika.
Kusvikira munguva pfupi yapfuura, iwe wakanga uri wekufananidzira kwengirozi, yakanakisisa uye yakasiyana, uye nhasi haafungi kudaro, uye kazhinji unogona kunzwa hurukuro dzakanyadzisa dzakasiyana. Iko kunyadziswa, handizvo here? Kunyangwe kurasikirwa kwenguva pfupi kune chiratidzo chiratidzo chokuti hazvizove zviri nani, uye kuguma hakusi kure.
6. Iva negodo, kuchema, kupopota ...
A psycho is a provocator real who likes to feed on the emotions of other people. Anoratidzika kutamba mutambo, chinangwa chekugogodza pasi kubva pasi petsoka dzake. Zvinosuruvarisa, asi nguva dzose dzinonetsa uye hysteria dzinofanirwa kuve nedzivo dzega, nokuti tsitsi dziri mutorwa kwaari.
7. Chinangwa chayo ndechekuita zvinorwadza zvikuru.
Mukomana wechipfungwa anoedza kunyatsoongorora mhuka yake yekuona kusava nesimba kwekubudirira kushandiswa. Anoda kutungamirira "kuongororwa", achiona zvose zvese, achicherechedza nyaya dzinokosha kwaari. Mukusangana kupi zvako, anonongedza pamashoko anorwadza zvikuru. Somuenzaniso, kana iwe ukararama mumhuri isina kukwana, nditende ini, iye anowanzomanikidzira.
8. Upenyu hwakatendeuka pasi?
Endai kuchionioni uye tarisa paunofungidzira. Iwe warega kuzviziva iwe, iwe unonzwisisa kuti hupenyu huri kuwira mugomba rakadzikadzika, uye usakanganwa pawakanga uchangonzwa kunzwa kufara? Ichi chiratidzo chakakomba chokuti ukama hwako inzira inosvika kune imwe nzvimbo, uye unoda kuchinja chimwe chinhu nokukurumidza.