Zvinonyanya kukosha zvekudzidzisa tsika dzevana vepakutanga-vana vanoiswa panguva apo vana vanodzidza kutaura nevezera ravo, maitiro emabasa avo ari kukura zvikuru, uye ruzivo rwepasi rwakapoteredza runogara ruchizadza zvakare. Kana vana vane makore maviri vasati vachinzwa vane mhosva nokuda kwekusazvibata, vane makore matatu vakatokwanisa kuziva kuti vakaita chimwe chinhu chakaipa. Saka vabereki vanoona sei chiitiko ichocho, apo vana vepachikoro vasati vagara vakagadzirira kuisa tsika dzetsika uye kuzvicherechedza? Pane kuedza kwakajeka: kumbira mwana kuti arege kutendeuka, iwe uri shure kwake kusunungura chiitiko chitsva chinodhaka, pamusoro pekufanirwa kuziviswa. Ndakamurwisa? Hauna kutendeuka here? Kana mwana akadzidza kugadzirisa zvishuvo zvake uye mafungiro ake, akagadzirira kwazvo kuzadzisa zvinodiwa nemitemo yakadzika.
Mwana uye vabereki
Pfungwa dzekutanga pamusoro pevakanaka nevakaipa dzinodzidza pazera remakore kubva kunhau dzevabereki dzakataurwa nevabereki. Idzo pfungwa dzezvakanaka nezvakaipa zvinoumbwa mumutambo unobtrusive. Basa guru mukugadzirisa hukama hwevanhu nderokudzidziswa kwetsika mumhuri, iyo inobva paukama hwemhengo dzayo. Mwana anoramba achizvinzwa kuti munhu anofanira kuremekedza vakuru, kugovana ma teyi nemukoma kana hanzvadzi yake, musagumbusa mhuka, musanyengera. Asi muenzaniso unonyanya kukosha ndewekuita kwevanhu vakuru. Mwana anoona kushorwa, udyire, kusaremekedza vabereki kune mumwe nemumwe, haagoni kungozvibata zvakasiyana. Ndokusaka dzidzo yepamusoro yevadzidzi vekuchikoro isingabviri kunze kwemhuri.
Dzidzo yezvinangwa zvetsika
Imwe yemabasa makuru ekudzidzira tsika dzepakutanga vana inokurudzira kuve nechokwadi chokuti vana havana kungoziva chete nezvehupo hwemimwe mitemo, asiwo vaida kuzvicherechedza. Ichokwadi, ndicho chiri nyore kukumanikidza. Asi iwe unogona kuita zvakasiyana. Nzira dzakasiyana-siyana dzekudzidzisa tsika dzepakutanga vana dzinopedzisira dzichipa zvipo uye kukurudzira. Ndakanga ndakatendeseka - ndinotarisira mibayiro, kunyengerwa - kuva akagadzirira kurangwa. Kune vekuchikoro, kubvumirwa kwevakuru, kunyanya mubereki, kunokosha zvikuru. Mwana anoedza kusimbisa nekuchengetedza ukama hwakanaka nevabereki vake. Izvi ndizvo zvinoita kuti chinangwa chikuru chivepo, chinotungamirirwa kune zvinonzi social social control.
Migumisiro yakanaka inoratidzwa nemitambo pamusoro pekudzidzisa tsika dzevana vepakutanga, avo vanofara nenzira inofara vachivaudza kukosha kwekucherechedza mitemo yetsika.
Basa rekurangwa
Zvinhu zvekunamata uye tsika dzezvidzidzo zvevana vepakutanga vana havakubvumi kuti muparidze nekuranga kunofanirwa kutevera kwete kusachengeta mitemo yetsika. Mashoko anorwadza, kurwadziwa mumuviri - nzira dzinokwanisa kukuvadza kusagadzikana pamweya wechicheche wechidiki. Chimiro uye kuyerwa kwechirango chiri nguva dzose, uye kukwanisa kuvashandisa ndiko unyanzvi hunokosha. Chinhu chikuru ndechekuti chirango hachina hanya nehutano hwemweya hwekutendwa kunosangana mwana nevabereki. Human dignity,
Chirango chinongova kunze kwekutonga. Mwana paanokura, kutonga kwevabereki kuchave kusisina simba, uye pakupedzisira kunonyangarika zvachose, saka iwe haugoni kutarisira "kunze kwevarindi". Mwana wacho anofanira kuziva kuti zvakakodzera, kutanga kune zvose, kwaari. Nzira dziripo dzekudzidzisa tsika dzepakutanga vana dzinobvumira kusarudza zvakasiyana-siyana zvemwana chaiye anokurudzira, mubairo uye kurangwa.
Mamiriro ezvinhu apo dzidzo yehutsika maitiro muzvidzidzo zvevana inobva mukusafarira uye kusika kwechimiro chakanaka chemukati mukana mukana wakanaka wekupa mwana pfungwa yekukosha kwake. Asi chifananidzo ichi hachiparadzanisi kubva pamabasa emuitiro.