Kushamwaridzana kwevanhu kune imwe pfungwa mupfungwa yepfungwa, iyo inosarudza tsitsi, kushamwaridzana, ukama pakati pevanhu. Sezvo mutemo, hatisi kungoona vamwe chete, tinoitawo maonero edu kune umwe neumwe wavo. Kufarira muhukama hwevanhu vanoita basa rinokosha, uye rinoumbwa nezvimwe zvinhu.
Zviitiko zvekunakidzwa nevamwe: kunze
Tinokoshesa munhu kakawanda kwete nekuda kweunhu hwake, asi nekuda kwekugona kwake kuzviisa pasi. Pane zvinhu zvekunze zvinokwezva, izvo, kunyange zvisingabatanidzi nekutaurirana pakutanga, zvinoita basa rinokosha:
- Mano ekutsigira kukurukurirana, kushamwaridzana, kukwanisa kukwezva, kutarisira kufadza. Uku kuratidzwa kwechido chekuumba maonero akanaka pamusoro pako kubva kune vamwe vanhu. Kunyanya kunzwira tsitsi vanhu vanokonzera nenzira dzakadaro, dzakanyanya kunaka kune vamwe.
- Mamiriro omunhu wemunhu. Kana munhu ari kuderera kana kuora mwoyo, haazove anofadza kune vamwe seanofara, anofara, munhu anofara.
- Spatial proximity. Apo vanhu vari pedyo kune mumwe nemumwe, zvinokonzera kuvimba kwakanyanya. Zvisinei, hazvidi kuti uyambuke rutivi rwemamiriyoni mashanu - iyi inzvimbo yepedyo uye chero kuiswa mukati mayo kunogona kuonekwa sekumapedza miganhu.
Nokudaro, vanhu vane mafungiro emunhu kunyange asati atanga kutaura. Vanhu avo vanofanirwa kukwezva tsitsi kune vamwe, semuenzaniso, vatengesi vashandi, vanofanira kutarisira izvi zvisati zvaitika.
Zvimwe zvekutsvaga kune vamwe: mukati
Kunewo zvinhu zvemukati zvekukwezva, izvo zvakasikwa panguva chaiyo yekukurukurirana:
- Nzira yekukurukurirana ndiyo chinhu chikuru. Iko mafambiro muhurukuro yakakosha zvikuru uye inokwezva kana kuti inodzosera vatauriri. Kunyengera, kusaziva, unyengeri kunogona kuparadza zvachose mafungiro kuvanhu.
- Kukwezva muviri. Kana munhu akanaka, ane zvakawanda zvokukurukurirana kupfuura kusakanganisika.
- Kufanana. Kunyanya munhu akafanana newe ane chimiro, mararamiro ehupenyu, zvinokuvaraidza, kunyanya tsitsi kunokonzera.
- Support. Kana wako interlocutor akurumbidza kana kukuvongai pane chimwe chinhu, iwe uchange uine zvimwe zvaunoda kwaari.
Zvinhu izvi zvinogona kushandiswa uye nemaune, kunyange kana zvinosvika pakukanganiswa mumitambo yekutaurirana. Hazvina mhosva kuti tsika ndeipi munhu, mune dzimwe nguva, tsitsi dzinobvumidza chinhu chimwe chete kuvanhu vose.