Nhamba yakashata yevashandi

Nhamba yakasviba haisi kungova mashoko asina chinhu kana kuti chisingadikanwi chevashandi. Kana munhu achibiridzira kune waanoshandira, anenge aita zvekubiridzira muzvivako zvesangano, kana kuti haadi hake kuita basa rake rekuita nehupamhizha, iye ari kunyanya kune vanyori vevashandi.

Vasingatendi vashandi havawanzochinja mabasa avo, uye zvavanotenda pamusoro pekudiwa kwekushanda nehutano kuitira kuti sangano ravo rirambe riri rakafanana. Mumwe mushandi wakaipa mushure mekudzingwa, zvichida, achagara ari oga, uye munzvimbo itsva marobhoti achati anorega kusaruramisira, nokuti akazadzikisa zvose zvaanofanira kuita mune izvo chaizvo. Urongwa hwevashandi vasina unyengeri huchabatsira mubatsiri kugadzirisa dambudziko iri.

Urongwa hwevashandi vakaipa hunogona kuumbwa sesangano rimwe chete, kana nehuwandu hwemagariro emunharaunda yekambani imwechete kana nemakambani akasiyana mukati memunharaunda kana munharaunda.

Zviratidzo zvemushandi akaipa

Mifananidzo kubva panzvimbo yebhobhoti kune chinhu chavashandi inokosha uye inogona kubatsira mumamiriro akasiyana akaenzana nebasa rake rebasa.

Kana iwe uri mushandirwi uye usingazivi nzira yekunyatsorongedza maratidziro evashandi vakaipa, ipapo unozoenderera mberi iwe uchaiswa nechitemwa-nhanho-mirairo yekuinyora.

1. Tsanangura zita rakazara re patronymic uye zita romushandi, wezera rake.
2. Zita rekambani yaanoshanda, inzvimbo ipi yaanoita uye nguva yakareba sei.
3. Ipa ruzivo pamusoro pehutano hwemushandi uye unyanzvi mumamiriro ezvinhu echigaro chake.
4. Kana iwe une chido kana iwe uchifunga kuti zvakakosha, ipapo paunogona iwe unogona kutsanangura kukwanisa kwake kuita zvakanaka kuita mabasa ake.
5. Ipa ruzivo pamusoro pehukama hwemushandi pamwe neboka, chiyero chekupesana kwayo.
6. Rondedzera dhesiro pamusoro pemedzidzo yepamusoro nekuvandudza zvidzidzo, kana pane.
7. Tarisa tsanangudzo yakanyorwa nechisimbiso chako uye zvisimbiso zvinodiwa.

Zvakakosha kuyeuka kuti paunonyora chimiro chemushandi wakaipa, usashandise mazwi anofungidzirwa akadai se: asina kufanira, ane usimbe, akaipa, anosemesa, nezvimwewo. Muhutano hwehutano, kushandiswa kwekutonga kwekutonga hakubvumirwi, sezvo kunogona kuonekwa nenzira mbiri.

Kushandiswa kwemashoko akanyorwa pamusoro apa chimiro chomushandi ane usimbe chinogona kumupa mukana wokukupa iwe maziso evamwe vashandisi mupfungwa kusanzwisisiki, saka taura chete izvo zvisingambopikiswi. Unhu hwakaipa hwevashandi hunogona kuratidza pachedu kuongororwa kweunyanzvi hwake uye ruzivo, saka usapotsa zviratidzo zvechisimba, usimbe kana kukakavara nekucherechedza uye pakarepo ita mhedziso yakakodzera pamusoro pokuti iwe unoda mushandi akadaro.

Kana uchibvuma munhu akakodzera kuti ave nechinzvimbo musangano rako, bvunza kana pane dhesi yevashandi vasingateereri. Tsvakurudzo dzakadaro dziripo muhutano hwemawebsite, unogona kuwana ruzivo rwese runodikanwa paInternet.

Nzira yekudzivisa mushandi akaipa?

Chokutanga pane zvose, zvakakosha kuziva kuti zvakakosha kutanga kutarisa unyanzvi hwemhizha hwebasa raakashandira, kune zvakawanda zvezviyo zvino iye zvino. Kana iwe wakatove wakashandira mukoti pasina cheki pane chimwe chikonzero, iwe uchava wakagadzirira kuti mushandi wako mutsva angave asingakwanise kurarama zvakanaka nemabasa akanzi apiwe. Kuti azviyevere pachake nezvekusimudzirwa kwezviitiko, nekuita kuti zvigone kuitwa nekudzingwa kwake munguva yemberi, inofanira kutevedzera mamwe mitemo.

1. Kunyangwe padanho rekupedzisa chibvumirano chebasa nemushandi mushandi, funga kuti iwe unogona kubviswa, usarega kutaura pamusoro pezviitiko zvisingafadzi zvakadaro.
2. Hazvisiko kugumisa chibvumirano chebasa nemuedzo, sezvo munguva inotevera mushandi anogona kukwira kudare remhosva, migumisiro yechipimo isingagutsikanisi mumaonero ako uye chisarudzo chemudare chekudzoka munzvimbo yekare.
3. Mamiriro ezvinhu emabasa pasina chekutanga chekuongorora maitiro ebhizimisi, imwe inonyanya kusarudzwa ingadai iri bhizimisi rebhizimisi rinokurumidza.