Kubatana, kusina matchmaking, hakusi tsika yakasakara. Zvisinei, munguva pfupi yapfuura iri kuwedzera kukudzwa pakati pevechidiki.
Nzira yekupa mwenga mhete haisi yeSlavic. Nyika yekwakabva tsika iyi ndiyo nyika dzeEurope. Iye zvino nhamba yakawanda yemadzimai emazuva ano inoronga kubatanidzwa, panguva iyo murume anopa muchero wake unodikanwa wekubatanidza, kunze kwekusimbisa chisarudzo chake chomuendesa kumukadzi. Pawakagamuchira chipo chakadaro, musikana anogona kufunga nezvemumwe mupi kuti apfeke rin'i yekubatanidza. Zvisinei, dambudziko ringangodaro kuti mukomana uyu aisagona kuziva pamunwe uye ruoko rwavo vanopfeka bhiri rekubatanidza. Munyaya iyi, unofanirwa kupfeka chindori pamunwe mairi. Tsika ndiyo tsika , asi humwe humwe hupenyu hunogadzirisa humwe, uye usatya. Chinhu chikuru ndechokuti muwani anzwisise kuti iwe uri kupfeka ring ringobatanidzwa inobvumirana nemagumo ekupedzisira ewanano naye.
Kana zvichibvira, rin'i rinogona kugadziriswa kusvika kuhukuru hwei jeweler.
Ndeipi ruoko rwavo vanopfekedza bhandi rekubatanidza?
Mhemberero yekubatana ndiyo chiratidzo chekubvumirwa kwevanhu vaviri kubatanidza zvido zvavo munguva yemberi iri pedyo. Havasi vose vakaroorana vakaronga mazororo anobatanidzwa. Dzimwe nguva vanoda vanoda kupedza nguva yekutaurirana manheru oga. Ndiko manheru ano muwani anopa mudiwa wake chipo chakanakisisa, icho chikomba hachifaniri kusiya kusvikira zuva remuchato.
Iko rinosungirirwa, rinopesana nesimbi yekubatanidza, chiratidzo chisingabatsiri. Ndiko kuti, rin'i inopiwa chete nemukomba. Kana musikana achibvumirana kuroora, anogamuchira chipo. Kana, kunyange zvakadaro, munguva yepakati, anoshandura zvirongwa zvake, anofanirwa kudzorera chindori kumukwenga wake wekare. Kana murume wacho akashandura pfungwa dzake kuti aroore, saka chindori chinofanira kugara nemusikana.
Dzimwe nguva vakaroorana vacharamba vachikakavadzana, paruoko rwomumwe munhu anofanira kupfekedza rin'i yekubatanidza. Pane maonero akasiyana panyaya iyi, iyo inobatanidza netsika dzevanhu vakasiyana. MuGermany, chindori chakadaro chakapfekedzwa kuruoko rworuboshwe, uye muPoland nemaSlavic nyika - kurudyi. Izvi zvinokonzerwa nekuti iyo mhemberero yekubatanidza ndiyo inotenderera yechindori chemuchato. Iko ndiko kuti, paruoko ruoko rwonzi rwechato rukapfekwa, kubatanidzwa kwakapfekedzwa paruoko rwakadaro.
Munyika dzakawanda dzeSlavic, kusanganisira Russia, Ukraine, Belarus, rin'i riri kuruboshwe rwunopfeka chirikadzi uye vakadzi vakarambana. Nokudaro, kusarudza paruoko rwokuti ufukidze chindori chekubatana, zviri nani kupa ruvoko rworudyi.
Pamunwei iwoo vanopfeka bhadha yekubatana?
Chimwe chisungo chekubatanidza chiratidzo chechisarudzo chakakomba chechiduku vakaroorana kuti vagare pamwechete, ivai nemazano pamwe chete uye murerere vana. Nokudaro, chindori chinofanira kuva chakanaka, chisingakanganwiki, chematombo anokosha nematombo. Mwenga anofanira kuchengeta chindori,
Kusarudza waunoda, muwani anofanirwa kuziva mberi kwechipi icho chaanopfeka chisungo chekubatana kuitira kuti asarudze chipo muhukuru. Sezvo bhandi rekubatanidza ichinyorwa chenguva yekubatanidza, yakapfeka pamunwechete. Haikwanise kubviswa kubva munhete yeminwe yoruoko rworudyi kusvikira pazuva rewanano. Pazuva remuchato, rinofanira kubviswa, sezvose zvishongo, uye kutorwa newe. Mhemberero yekubatanidza inofanira kunge yakasakarazve pamin'i yechirudyi cheko mushure mokunge mhemberero dzomuchato dzapfuura. Zvinotendwa kuti kana izvi zvisati zvaitwa, muchato hauzobudiriri kana kuti hupfupi.
Mune ramangwana, bhandi rekubatanidza rinogona kupfekedzwa chete nekuda kwemahombekombe emhuri makuru pamusoro pemuchato wechikwata.