Munguva yerudo, vashandi pamwe chete vane shungu kune mumwe nemumwe zvokuti havaoni chero zvakapoteredza. Upenyu hwavo hwepabonde hwakasiyana uye hunogara huripo, husingagoni kutaurwa pamusoro pehukama hukama hwemazuva mazhinji huri pasi pedenga revanhu. Zvikonzero nei murume asingadi mudzimai, pane zvakawanda uye zvinonzwisisika kusvika pakuvaziva zviri nani.
Monotony uye nguva dzose
Kutaura zvazviri, ichi ndicho chikonzero chinowanzovhiringidza kusava nechido chevanhu. Apo vasikana vanosarudza kugara pamwe chete, murume wacho anofunga kuti iye zvino achaita zvepabonde kakawanda pazuva, asi zvinoshanduka zvakasiyana. Mhuri haisi kupa chete kodzero, asi inobvumirawo. Mukadzi anoita chikamu chechikadzi chebasa reimba, murume mukomana, uye zvakadaro vaviri vachiri kushanda, uye kana mwana achionekwa mumhuri, nguva inova yakaderera kune mumwe nemumwe. Kuita zvepabonde uye nechishuwo kunogona kungorota-kunobva purogiramu yemwana uye unova "basa" rechokwadi, iro rinogara richiita kuti kuderera kwechido.
Kana tikawedzera pano kusava nenguva yekuti mukadzi azvichengetedze, kukwegura kwechisikirwo, pamwe nekushaya nguva dzose kwekurara, inosvika apo inosvika. Mumwe murume anorega kutorwa kune shamwari isina kukodzera - ndicho chikonzero murume asingadi kurara nemudzimai wake. Angave asingazivi kuti ane hasha uye ane godo kumudzimai wake kumucheche, nokuti izvi zvinowanzoitika, kunyanya kana mwana ari mukomana. Zvechokwadi, chido chacho chinonyangarika kwete kubva kune mumwe chete. Mukadzi akabatanidzwa zvikuru mukuchengeta mwana anenge asingakwanisi kufunga chimwe chinhu. Anotsamwiswa ne "kuedza" kwemurume wake, uye haanzwisisi kuti ungada sei zvepabonde nekuneta kwakadaro.
Kutaurirana pamwe chete uye kusanzwisisana mumaonero emuongorori wepfungwa ndizvo zvikonzero zvinowanzoitika kuti mudzimai haadi murume, uye pamwe chete. Mukuwedzera, vashandi vatove vashandiswa kune mumwe nemumwe, vakaongorora zvose predilections, kuti havatarisiri chinhu chitsva uye kuita rudo "pamushini". Mukuwedzera, zvinowanzoitika kuti kana mushure mokutanga kwehupenyu hwemhuri, avo vanobvumirana vanoziva kuti vane zvakasiyana zvebiorhythms . Mumwe munhu "chirwere", uye mumwe munhu "owl". Nokudaro, chido chechisikigo chekuita rudo mangwanani-ngwanani, chinomhanyira mumadziro okusanzwisisika uye kutsamwirwa nekuda kwekuti ivo havamupi iye pasi.
Kutuka
Ndiyo migumisiro yezvikonzero izvi zvose zvepfungwa zvinotsanangura kuti nei murume asingadi kuti mudzimai ave nechisimba. Mudiwa wacho ari kutsvaga uye kuwana kune rumwe rutivi zvose zvakaguma kugamuchirwa mumhuri-kutarisirwa, kutarisa, kuyemura uye kusavapo kwezvirevo. Mukuwedzera, tenzikadzi anoedza kutaridzika zvakanaka kune waanoita naye, uye mune zvepabonde haikwanisiki uye nguva dzose akagadzirira kuedza. Zviri pachena kuti kudzokera kumusha, murume haadi mudzimai wake mushure mokunge atengesa, nokuti iye atogutsa zvido zvake, asi mudzimai asingabatsiri haasangane nehanya, asi nechinotyisa. Iro zano rechiremba wezvemagariro pamusoro pekugadzirisa nechokuti murume haadi kuti mudzimai ave asina hanya: kuongororazve mafungiro ake nemafambiro, nokuti mumamiriro ezvinhu aya ose ari oga.
Kutanga iwe unoda kugara pasi uye wakadzikama usingatauri mose kukurukura, tsvaga kuti munhu wese anotarisira kubva kune mumwe. Zvingangodaro, mudzimai achapindura kumubatsiro wemurume kumusha kumba ne caress uye mazwi ane mutsa. Achava nenguva yakawanda yega, kutarisira chitarisiko chake. Zvinonzwisisika kushandura mhirizhonga uye kuita rudo kwete mumubhedha wechirume, asi kune imwe nzvimbo, somuenzaniso, pabhangi. Hazvirevi kutenga chimwe chinhu kubva pane zvekuita zvepabonde uye kuronga mutambo wekuita. Kana shamwari dzacho dzisina kurasikirwa kune mumwe kune imwe nyika isati yasvika, uye ivo vanoda kuva pamwe chete, zvinhu zvose zvinogadziriswa uye zvose zvinogadziriswa, chinhu chikuru ndechokuzadzisa zvinangwa zvemwe rutivi uye nomwoyo wose unoda kuita kuti mudikanwi afare.