Ukama hwevana-mubereki

Unhu hwemunhu, unhu hwake nemafungiro kune vamwe zvinowanikwa muhutano hwakadzama. Izvo zvinoenderana nekutsi vabereki vanorera mwana wavo sei, nekukurumidza uye nyore sei iye achakwanisa kushamwaridzana munzanga, uye kuti hupenyu hwake hunoramba huchierera sei.

Uyewo, ukama hwehukama hwevabereki-mwana hunokonzerwa netsika dzakagamuchirwa mumhuri, uyewo mararamiro ekurerwa. Tichaedza kunzwisisa nyaya iyi muchidimbu.

Mhando dzehukama hwevabereki nevabereki

Iko kune zvakasiyana siyana zvehukama hunogona kusimuka pakati pevabereki nevana vemakore akasiyana. Kunyange zvakadaro, nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzepfungwa dzinoshandisa dhizinesi reDiemen Bombrind, iyo inongoratidzira mararamiro mana chete ehukama hwemubereki, iyo imwe neimwe ine zvayanayo:

1. Nzira yekuremekedza ndiyo inonyanya kufarirwa, sezvo vana vakakurira mumhuri dzine rudzi urwu rwehutano hwevabereki vanoita nyore nyore kuchinja, vakadzidza zvakanaka, vane kuzvikudza kwakakwana uye kazhinji vanoita zvikwiriso zvinooneka. Muchiitiko ichi, mhuri ine hutano hwepamusoro hwevabereki, izvo, zvisinei, zvinosanganiswa nekudziya uye ushamwari hwemaonero kurudzi rwechidiki. Mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, vana vanonyatsoziva miganhu uye zvinorambidzwa ivo uye havafungi zvavari kuita nevabereki vavo.
2. Chimiro chechiremera chinoratidzirwa nepamusoro kusinganzwisisiki yehutano hwevabereki uye kutonhora kwakanyanya kwamai nababa kumwana. Munyaya iyi, vabereki havabvumiri kukurukurirana kana kuregererwa kwezvavanoda, havabvumi vana kuzvisarudzira ivo pachavo uye muhuwandu hwemhosva dzavanosvika pakuwana zvakakwana kuvana pane zvavanofunga. Vana vanorerwa mumhuri dzakadaro, kazhinji vanokura vasingatauri, vanonyadzisa uye kunyange nechisimba. Nehutano hwehutano hwevabereki muhucheche, kazhinji zvinetso zvakakomba zvinomuka nekuda kwekuti mwana wacho akaparadzaniswa zvachose kubva kuvanhu vakuru, anova asingagoni kudzora uye anowanzopinda mumamiriro ezvinhu asingafadzi.
3. Rusununguko rwakasiyana rwakasiyana nemamwe marudzi ekukurukurirana pakati pevabereki nevana vane mafungiro asingagumi uye rudo rusingaverengeki. Kunyange zvazvo izvi, zvichiita sezviri, hazvisi zvakaipa, muchokwadi, munyaya iyi, inowanzowanzovhiringidzika, iyo inotungamirira mukunyanya kudarika uye kutadza kwakakwana kwevana.
4. Pakupedzisira, kusava nehanya kwehukama hwevabereki-mubereki kunoratidzirwa kusakwana kwekutonga uye kufarira muhupenyu hwemwana kubva kuvabereki. Kazhinji kacho izvi zvinoitika mumhuri umo amai nababa vari kunyanya kubatanidzwa mubasa uye havagoni kuwana nguva yevana vavo.

Ichokwadi kuti vabereki vose vanofarira zvavanoda zvekudzidzisa zviri pedyo navo. Panguva ino, kuitira kuti hukama hwevabereki-mwana huve hwakavimbika, kunyange pamakore ekuchikoro, zvakakosha kuzvisarudzira pachavo kukwana kwakakwana kwevabereki uye panguva imwe chete kusakanganwa nezvekudiwa kwekukurudzira nekurumbidza mwana, uyewo nguva dzose anomuratidza rudo rwake. Chero bedzi mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro mwana achanzwa akadikanwa, nekuda kwekuti acharonga mafungiro akanaka kuvabereki nevamwe vehama dzepedyo.