Kufungidzira kwevana kunoratidzika kusina miganhu uye hakumire kushamisika. Saka, vamwe vana vanofungidzira shamwari. Kuita kwakasimba kunowanzovhundutsa vabereki uye kunoita kuti vazvidye mwoyo. Chinyiko, kutamba kwemwana asina mhosva kana chirwere chepfungwa?
Kuda kune shamwari dzenhema kunonzi Carlson's syndrome, apo mwana achiumba mumusoro wake chimwe chifananidzo, chinyengeri, uye anotenda kuti chiripo. Kazhinji izvi zvinowanikwa muvana mumakore mashanu. Penguva yakajeka, vanhu vashomanana vanoshandisa kutaura kwakadaro. Zvisinei, usakanganwa izvi.
Kazhinji kacho, mhedzisiro yemamiriro aya ndiwo matambudziko emanzwiro aripo. Uye muzviitiko zvizhinji, vana varikufunga kuti vangaita sei shamwari inofungidzira kusurukirwa, kusanzwisisana kana kusakwanisa kusangana nevezera rako. Semuenzaniso, mwana anowanzogara ari oga kumba kana vabereki vari kubasa, uye vana vaunogona kutamba navo mujare havazipo kana kuti kunevo kune mhirizhonga. Kunyange zvazvo shamwari yakagadzirwa nguva dzose "inoteerera uye inonzwisisa" uye, kusiyana nevamwe, ichagara iine ushamwari uye iri nyore kuwirirana.
Dzimwe nguva mwana anotanga shamwari yave yakagadzirwa kuti irege kudzivirira uye kunzwa manzwiro kune imwe pfumo. Pashure pezvose, kutaura kuti hausi iwe iwe wakazviita, ndicho chiri nyore kukupa mhosva. Saka anoedza kuzvidzivirira kubva pakurangwa.
Pane chimwe chikonzero chekufunganya here?
Vabereki vanoita sei mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro? Chinhu chikuru hachisi chokuenderera mberi nechechecheche, asi kwete kuregeredza mamiriro acho ezvinhu. Tsvaga kubvumirana. Bvunza mibvunzo pamusoro peiyo shamwari. Teererai nyaya yechecheche, ipai zvishomanana, mazadzikisa chero chikumbiro cheshamwari. Usaseka mwana wacho zvachose, saka achaenda zvakadzika mukati mehupenyu hwake. Asi panguva imwe chete, usakanda mapfumo pasi pamabasa aunoisa kumwana uye zvinotaurwa.
Kana vabereki vemwana vakanyanyisa, shamwari inofunga inogona kuva iyo inobvuma mwana sezvaari, nguva dzose
Kana mwana akarasikirwa neshamwari dzekare nekuda kwekufamba, kumubatsira kuwana zvitsva, kupa mukana wekuona kana kuramba uchikurukurirana nevekambani vekare.
Uye zvinonyanya kukosha, ipa mwana nguva yakawanda, famba mupaki, ita chimwe chinhu pamwe chete, tora navo kune zviitiko zvakasiyana-siyana, farira muhupenyu hwake. Zvino, kana ataura newe, haazove nechido chekutaurira mumwe.