Munhu wose anoziva kukosha kwebasa remhuri pakurera komwana nekuumbwa kweunhu hwake.
Zvikamu zvekutanga
Zvakakosha kuziva kuti simba remhuri pakurera mwana rinogona kuva rakanaka kana risina kunaka. Kazhinji, vabereki vanotofungidzira kuti vana vavo vanofanira kunge vakaita sei uye vanoedza kuisa maitiro ekuda maitiro, izvo zvinotungamirira kumiganhu yakasiyana. Uye nokuda kwekubudirira kwekudzidziswa kweumwe munhu mumhuri, mitemo inotevera inofanira kuonekwa:
- Chengetedza zvakanyanya kutaura nevana.
- Kuve nehanya nehupenyu hwezuva nezuva hwemwana, kukurudzira kubudirira uye kubudirira, kubatsira kubvumira chikonzero chekukundikana.
- Kutungamirira mumugwagwa wakarurama wechisarudzo chezvinetso.
- Ratidza mwana wacho kuti iye munhu mumwe chete, savabereki vake, kuti vataure naye paanoenzana netsoka.
Dzidzo yezvokunamata uye tsika mumhuri ndeimwe yematambudziko akaoma. Mushure mezvose, nheyo huru nemitemo inogona kusiyanisa mumasangano akasiyana-siyana emagariro nemhuri. Zvisinei, zvakajairika kune vose zvinofanira kunge zvichienderana nemamiriro ezvinhu anotevera:
- nzvimbo ye rudo nekuvimbika;
- kutsanangurwa nekukurukurirana kwehupenyu humwe mamiriro ezvinhu;
- chirango hachifaniri kuve chinonyadzisa kana chinyorera, chinangwa chayo ndechokuita kuti vanhu vafunge pamusoro pekuita kwavo uye vauye kune dzimwe mhedziso pachavo pachavo.
Nzira dzepamusoro dzekudzidzisa mhuri
Kune marudzi mazhinji ekurera mumhuri, yakawanda pane iyo yakanyorwa pasi apa:
- Kudzvinyirira kana kukurira zvakanyanya . Somugumisiro, mwana wacho achakura kana ane utsinye, uye asina simba, kana asina simba uye asingakwanisi kuita zvisarudzo oga.
- Kusachengetedza zvakanyanya kana kuti kusafara mune zvose . Kusiyana netsika yekutanga yezvidzidzo, mumhuri yakadai mwana ndiye achava mukuru. Zvisinei, munyaya iyi, vana havangonzwisisi zvakanaka, chii chakaipa, chii chingaitwa uye zvisingaiti.
- Kuzvimiririra uye kusina kupindira mukubudirira. Rudzi urwu runowanzoonekwa kana vabereki vakabatikana zvikuru nebasa kana kuti ivo chete havadi kupedza nguva padiki mudiki wemhuri.
Somugumisiro, munhu anokura asina kufara uye nemanzwiro okusurukirwa. - Kushamwaridzana kana kushamwaridzana kwenyika . Parizvino, iyi ndiyo nzira inogamuchirwa. Mushure mezvose, dzidzo mumhuri yemazuva ano inofanira kunge iri hurukuro iyo vabereki vasingatongo "kutema" mitemo yavo, asi zvakare teererai zvinodikanwa uye zvinodiwa zvevana. Muchiitiko ichi, vanhu vakuru ndivo muenzaniso wekutevedzera, uye kune kunzwisisa kwakakwana kwemuganhu pakati pezvinobvumirwa uye kwete. Uye zvinonyanya kukosha, mwana anonzwisisa kuti nei munhu asingakwanisi kuita ichi kana chiito ichocho, uye kwete kutevera zvisingatauri mitemo yakagadzirwa nemitemo yetsika.