Mune unyanzvi hwevanhu, unogona kuwana mifananidzo mizhinji, chastushki, zvinyorwa nenziyo mukuremekedzwa kwemasikati. Zvechokwadi, tsika yekufananidza inofanirwa kunge yakave inofadza, yakafuma uye yakanaka-yakasikwa, kunyange kana mushure, vabereki vomuchato uye vakaisa pavhara repukkin.
Mumazuva ekare, zvichida kukanganisa kukuru kwegadziriro yese yaiva dowry - mapfupa nemaoko emhizha yemuchato, pfuma inowanikwa nababa, ndiro, mifananidzo, firimu nezvose. Yakanga iri pamusoro pedenga iro mhuri dzechikomba nemusikana wake anofungidzira, apo hurukuro yaibatwa pamusoro, kuti mhemberero yemuchato yaizoitwa sei. Mushure mokunge iwe uchikwanisa kuwana "zvezvinhu", chikuru chichava mubayiro wavo wekupedzisira.
Imhemberero yomuchato yemazuva ano, apo musoro wegadziriro yemuchato hauna kugadziriswa, unogona kutarisa kumajoke, mutambo uye unyanzvi hwekuita kuti uite zvakanaka uye udzikise mutengo wemuwani-asina kukodzera.
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Zvichida, kunyatsogadzirirwa kugadzirira mhemberero yekufananidza kunoitwa nemuwani. Muroori, vatambi vemasikisi, nevabereki vomuwani vanofanira kuuya kuimba yemwenga. Navo, vanofanira kuunza zvipo, pamwe nechingwa nemunyu maererano netsika yekare.
Zvose zvinotanga nemibvunzo isina kujeka uye kurumbidza chikomba nemakwikwi. Ipapo vanotendeukira kune mibvunzo pamusoro pemwenga: "Ndizvo zvakanaka here?", "Ndiyo upfumi here?", "Smart, vakanaka, vanozvininipisa?"
Pane chikamu chemwenga, mitambo ye matchmaking, chaizvoizvo, zvinoreva kurumbidza "zvinhu", ndiko kuti, vakaroorana. Vabereki kana vatambi vanofananidza vanofanira kuratidza kuti pane patafura yakawanda, dzose dzakanakisa dzakagadzirira. Tinofanira kuratidzira kuti anonamatira, akabatanidza, masaga, anodhonza, nezvimwewo.
Nguva yose iyi, mwenga anogara akanyarara muimba yake, uye, hongu, pane zvakanakisisa. Kuti kuenzanirana nemwenga kunopfekedzwa kune inodhura uye yakanakisa, asi panguva imwe chete, inofanira kutarisa zvakashata. Mumazuva ekare zvakaitika kuti pamusangano wose wekukwikwidza muroori nemukwati vaisagona kubata maoko kunyange, vaisagona kugara pedyo kune mumwe. Chii chatingati taura nezvekubatana kwemazuva manheru anotevera?
Apo vabereki vanodana mwenga patafura, zvinoreva kuti vatsigiri vemukati vakakumbira kuratidza "zvinhu". Iye zvino vashandi vezvikwata vomuchato vanofanira kubvunza mibvunzo yakaoma pamusoro pezvinoitwa nemwenga pamusoro peimba, kuti anogara sei uye zvaanoda. Ivo, vachizadza mutengo, vanogona kumukumbira kuti adye kudya kubva kunzira dzisina kunaka, kushambidza pasi, keke iyo pie , uiise patafura. Uye nhamo kumwenga uyo uyo asina kurarama nezvikumbiro zvevashandi vezvikwata!
Zvichida chinhu chinonyanya kufadza mumazuva ano ekufananidza ndeyekuti, nekunyanya kutevedzera tsika dzekare, muwani, mwenga nemhuri dzavo vanoziva kuti zvose izvi majee-kutamba, uye, pasinei nokuti chingwa chemuchato chinopisa sei, iyo dzungu haingauyi kusvika .