Pane maforamu iwe unogona kazhinji kuwana mazwi akadai seokuti "Ndinoda kubvuma mumwe murume murudo akanaka, asi ini handizivi kuti" kana "Ndinotya kubvuma kune mukomana murudo kutanga." Uye pasinei neinoita seinoyevedza, pasinei neinoita sezviri nyore, musikana akashinga uye anozvivimba chete ndiye anokwanisa kutaura mazwi matatu anokosha "Ndinokuda!" Vamwe vose vanowana ushingi kwenguva refu vasati vareurura manzwiro avo. Asi zvakakosha kubvuma murume uyu murudo pakutanga, hazvizoiti here kusanzwisisana pane zvaanoita uye manzwiro ayo musikana anoda kuvhara rusununguko rwake? Nokuda kwechimwe chikonzero, varume vazhinji, vachireurura rudo kumusikana, havanzwi basa rakakosha kune ivo pachavo, asi fungidzira kuti kana musikana anotaura manzwiro ake, zvino danho rake rinotevera, richazotevera nokukurumidza, richava hurukuro pamusoro pemuchato? Uye havasi vose vakagadzirira kuitika kwezviitiko. Nokudaro, mubvunzo wekuziva mukomana wako ndeyemusoro, kunzvimbo panzvimbo yekuonekwa kwekutarisa, kutarisa kunotyisa hakusviki munhu anoda. Kuti tidzivise chiitiko chakadaro, tinonzwisisa kuti sei uye nguva ipi yekukurukurirana zviri nani manzwiro avo.
When?
Saka, chii chandinofanira kutarisa kuti ndifungisise nguva yakakodzera? Zvinonzwisisika, mumanzwiro ake, hazvigoneki kuti mukomana akatakurwa nebasa (kudzidza) kana kutarisa mutambo weboka rake raanoda, achaita zvakanaka kuti iwe uzive. Uye kwete nekuti haana hanya, haangokunzwi iwe - varume vane chipo chakasiyana-siyana chekutarisa pane dambudziko rimwe, vanopedzisira vaona nyika yakavapoteredza. Nokudaro, tinomirira kusvikira mudikanwi akasunungurwa uye ave akagadzirira kugamuchira kutenderera kwako. Nenzira, wakambosangana kwenguva yakareba here? Bvumirana, utaure pamusoro pakarepo nekusimudzira manzwiro akadzika pamusangano wako wechipiri, hazvina kukodzera. Ipa nguva kune akasarudzwa kuti aenzanise nekuvapo kwako muhupenyu hwake, uye chete ipapo itaurirane pamusoro porudo rwake.
Sei?
Ndiani mukomana wako, incorrigible romantic kana pedantic, ane nguva yezvikamu 5 zvinotevera? Murume ane rudo achafara kana iwe ukasarudza kubvuma kuti unoda zvakanakisisa, uchigadzirira chigadziko chemwenje kana pikiniki padenga, pasi pezuva. Kana iyo inofarira zvakare ine gourmet, saka pane inofanira kuva nenzvimbo patafura yezvokudya zvake zvaanoda, kunyange kana iwe usingadi chaizvo. Kwete kana pasina kugara pamunhu uyo, zvichida, achawana rudo rudo rwemainseless, saka iwe unofanira kutanga chimwe chinhu, chinhu chikuru chiri kupinda mumamiriro ezvinhu. Somuenzaniso, anofara pamusoro pechinhu chimwe, achitaura nezvechikonzero chekunaka kwake, achiwedzera kuwedzerwa manzwiro kwaari nekureurura kwake (ingo usapindira, regai ataure). Zvinyengeri kumusa wemapfupa zvakaoma kubata pane manzwiro, uye kubvisa maketani hazvigone kuwana, chii chaunofanira kuita? Muudzei nezvekunzwa kwavo, kwete kubva ku-bay-floundering, asi mushure mekugadzirira. Murumbidzei pamusoro pechinhu chipi nechipi, murume wacho achazorora, akanganwe chinhu chake chinotevera chiri purogiramu yezuva nhasi uye achave akagadzirira kukuteerera. Nenzira, madly bhizinesi inogona kunyora sms kana shoko pane e-mail.
Zvinonzwisisika, hakuna munhu anobvisa kodzero yako yekureurura rudo rwako kumukomana nenzira yepakutanga. Pfungwa chete yepakutanga yakasiyana nemunhu wose, mumwe munhu anoshamiswa nebheneri ane chiziviso che rudo runotumirwa nemahwindo eimba yake yokurara, uye mumwe munhu anobata keke yaValentine nemashoko anodiwa. Saka tinofunga kuti mukomana wako ari pedyo uye anosarudza nzira yakakodzera yekuzivikanwa.
Zvechokwadi, hapana nzira dzepasi rose kana mazano ekubvuma kune mukomana murudo, saizvozvo
Uye kana iwe uchiri nechinangwa che "Ndinoda kubvuma kune mukomana murudo, asi ndinotya", funga kana iwe uri nechokwadi chokuti uyu ndiye munhu wako. Kana zvakadaro, saka hapana chinhu chokutya, iye achanzwisisa uye anoonga. Uye kana pane kusava nechokwadi, ipapo kuonekwa ndiyo nzira yakanakisisa yekugadzirisa nayo. Uye kunyange kana munhu waunoda achiita zvakasiyana pane zvaunoda, fara-iwe wakaziva kuti haungakwanisi kuvaka ukama nemunhu uyu, iko zvino, uye kwete mushure memazana mashoma akaparadzwa.