Kana iwe uchitenda munyori wechiFrench Frederick Begbeder, zvino udane hupenyu kwemakore matatu. Vakadzi chaivo vanotenda kusatenda mairi, asi vanobvumirana kuti munguva inenge manzwiro manzwiro muvari vaviri vari kushandurwa, kana kutopera.
Nezvekuwira pasi murudo nemurume wake zvakare iwe unogona kupa mazano nokusingaperi, asi tichafunga nezvemashoko makuru, kunze kwekuti rudo rusingagoni kutarisira mumba mako, kunyange gore rechigumi.
Ndezve zvakare kudanana nemurume wake?
- Chokutanga, murume anofanira kubhadhara zvakakwana. Usakanganwa kutaurirana naye pamusoro pezvinhu zvinokosha kwauri uye nemhuri yako, iva nechokwadi chekukumbira rubatsiro, kunyange iwe uchiziva kuti iwe uchatonga iwe pachako. Varume nechisikigo havasi vanokunda chete, asiwo vanunura, saka rambai musina simba kwechinguva, uye muite kuti afare mukukunda, kunyange kana kungove nembambo inonongedzwa mumadziro.
- Chechipiri, mukadzi haafaniri kutora murume wake. Anofanira kukwanisa kutsigira hurukuro pane chero musoro, kupa mazano, kupa rubatsiro rwepfungwa kana murume wake ane dambudziko. Verenga ngano, teerera kumhanzi akanaka, enda mune zvemitambo, dzidza chimwe chinhu chitsva - mune rimwe shoko, ude! Uye dambudziko, kuti zvakare kudanana sei nomurume wake, achazvirega.
- Chechitatu, iva munyoro uye unyoro nemurume wako. Uye haisi kungoita zvekuita zvepabonde, izvo zvisingambofaniri kuchinja, asi zvakare pamusoro pezviratidzo zvezuva nezuva. Tora murume nounyoro neruoko muchitoro, asi rutsanga ruchifamba runoenda ku checkout. Kana kuti akaputika sekuti kana pangozi chidya chake mumota motokari jam. Zvakanaka, kutsvoda padama, kupfurikidza nemutambo unofadza, ndiyo tsika inosungirwa yevakadzi vasingazivi nzira yekudanana nemurume zvakare.
Zvinosuruvarisa, hazvisi zvisinganzwisisiki kune mamiriro ezvinhu apo mamwe mamiriro ezvinhu asingakundiki anobva mumhuri, kusanzwisisana uye zvichemo, pane rudo, zvinoiswa mberi. Kazhinji kacho kaviri idzi chikamu. Asi kana iwe uine chokwadi chokuti rudo ruchiri kurarama, uye murume uyu ihafu yako yechipiri, zvino ita!
Nzira yekuwira sei murudo newaimbova murume achakuudza mwoyo. Yeuchidza murume uyu pachake, asi unobtrusively. Regai aone kuti wakave wakanakisisa sei paasipo. Kana pane mukana wekukoka munhu wekare-kare kuti ashanyire, zvino sasiya maruva emaruva patafura. Regai azive kuti iwe unofarira kune vamwe varume. Asi kupfuura zvose, zvechokwadi, hutano hwakasimba hunokoshesa kuvimbika nekuvimbika, saka usapfurikidza negodo. Iva nechivimbo chikuru iwe pachako uye zvose zvichazobuda!