Rudo kuvimba kune ukama umo kugadzirisa kwekunetseka mupfungwa kwomunhu kunoitika kune munhu anokosha kwaari. Rudo kuvimba mune zvepfungwa kunonziwo hukama huri pamwe chete.
Vakawanda vanovhiringidza rudo kuvimba uye rudo, asi vane kusiyana kukuru:
- Kana vanhu vachida, zvose zviri pamwe uye zvakasiyana. Mune rudo rwekudhakwa, pakutanga kwehukama pamwe chete, asi zvakasiyana - zvakaipa, gare gare uye pamwe chete uye zvakasiyana zvakashata.
- Rudo runounza manzwiro akanaka, nguva yakawanda iyo munhu anonzwa kuwirirana, chivimbo, kugadzikana. Kutenderera kunotakura zvakaipa. Munhu wacho akaora mwoyo: kusachengeteka, godo, kutya, kushushikana, kukanganiswa mukati, kusava nechokwadi.
- Rudo haruregi rusununguko rwomukati. Mukudanana kuvimba, manzwiro anobva pane zviito, kutarisa, inzwi remunhu waunoda.
- Murudo, vaviri vari vaviri vanobatana zvakafanana. Muukama hune rudo hukama hunovakirwa pamutemo wekutonga-kuwirirana.
- Rudo runovaka uye rinotungamirira kubudirira. Kutenderera - kunoparadza, hutano hwemunhu, mamiriro emari uye zvinhu zvinowedzera kushanda.
- Rudo rwechokwadi - runogadzira, rudo rwekuvimba - runoparadza.
Rudo kuvimba kunogona kukura, pamwe nekukanganisa kumwechete kwezvinhu zvakadaro:
- uyo waunofambidzana ari pedyo nehutano hwakanaka;
- kunyanya kwehomoni dzepabonde mumuviri;
- munhu anoziva achiedza kuda uye kudiwa.
Rudo kuvimba runokonzera:
- kusada kuva noukama hwakakura;
- Chimwe chezvikonzero zvekuda kuvimba nevakadzi "kusava nerudo" muhuduku;
- kusada kana kusakwanisa kuita zvisarudzo;
- kutya kusurukirwa;
- kutya kwokuramba;
- kuzvidzora;
- kusimba kwekuvhenekera kwevabereki kana kutonga kwakasimba kwevabereki;
- Kuda kuteerera;
- kukanganisa nekukanganisa;
- tsika yekudzikisa chiremera;
- kuvapo kweumwe, kumwe kuvimba;
- kusava nepfungwa yekuchengeteka.
Rudo kuderera - zviratidzo
- Chiratidzo chikuru chekuda kuvimba ndikunzwa kusingaperi kwekutambura nekurwadziwa, kunyange kana munhu waunoda ari pedyo.
- Nguva dzose yeuka chinhu chinoratidzwa rudo, uye chinokanganisa. Pfungwa dzinoramba dzichipinda muuropi hwako.
- Ita kuti mumwe wako aite zvakanaka, une tarisiro yakakwirira kwaari.
- Iwe unogara uchimuwana ave chikonzero chokuti arege kuzviita, kunyange kana mhosva yake isingagoneki, iwe pachako unonzwa uine mhosva.
- Nemhaka yehupenyu hunogara uine mhosva, haugoni kuongorora zvakadzama ukama hwako.
- Iwe unofarira zvikuru nezvekuzadzisa zvido zvemudiwa wako pane zvaunofunga.
- Kutya kuti iwe hauna kukodzera wewakada, kuti iye ari nani pane iwe.
- Iwe unotya, kuzvibata zvakasununguka nekuda kwekutya kuti wawakaroorana naye achakurumidza kukusiya, nokuti iwe haugoni kushivirira antics yako.
Kana mumwe wevamwe vaine ruzivo rwekuda kuvimba, achange achitsvaga awana shamwari iyo ichavawo nekutenderera, asi chirongwa chinopesana - kuvimba kwekudzivisa, kunoratidzwa neiyi inotevera:
- Kana iwe ukaona kuti mudiwa wako anoda kuita ukama hwepedyo uye hwechokwadi, iwe unotanga kuzvidzora uye kurongedza kuedza kushandisa kushamwaridzana komukomana kunodzivisa kubatana.
- Muukama, iwe unotya kukanganiswa rusununguko rwako.
- Iwe unofunga kuti imba inoparadza zvose, izvo rudo rwechokwadi runogona kuva pane imwe nzvimbo yevasiri pamwe chete.
- Iwe unopedza nguva yakawandisa pane shamwari, zvinokuvaraidza uye basa, kupfuura pane waunoda.
- Tine chokwadi chokuti hauna kukodzera mumwe wako, uye iye achakusiya iwe, ndicho chikonzero iwe unotya kuve murudo, kuti urege kurwadziwa kana uchiparadzanisa.
Vanhu vanoumba vakaroorana nemhando yehukama hwe rudo vane zvimwe zvakafanana zvepfungwa, zvinoratidzwa nenzira dzakasiyana. Zvisinei, vose vari vaviri vane hutano hwehukama hwehukama hwepedyo uye nezvinetso nekutaridzika kwekunzwa kwemanzwiro, izvo zvinodzivisa kuvaka hukama hwakanaka.
Ziva kuti kuvimba ndiyo mamiriro makuru ekuregedza. Kuziva nzira yekusiyanisa maitiro ekuvimba kubva kune hutano, iwe pakupedzisira unodzidza kuvaka hukama.