Kazhinji kacho, kunyange hukama hwakasimba pakati pevakaroorana hunogona kupa nguva. Muzviitiko zvizhinji, vakadzi havazivi kwenguva yakareba pamusoro pokutengeswa kwomunhu waunoda, vachitarisa kuchinja maitiro sekuneta kuneta. Vakawanda havadi kuona kuti imba yavo iri kuputika pamakumbo, uye vamwe vachiri kunzwa chimwe chinhu chakaipa, asi havagoni kunyatsonzwisisa zviri kuitika. Zvisinei, pane zviratidzo zvakawanda zvinogona kuverengwa kuti murume ari kuchinja.
Zvipfumbamwe zviratidzo zvekutonga
Saka, ngatitarisei kuchinja kunonyanya kuonekwa mumafambiro emurume, izvo zvinoratidza kurwisana:
- Kukurukurirana kunoshamisa pafoni . Murume haafaniri kuparadzanisa foni yake kweminiti kana mumwe munhu akadana kwaari, anoedza kutaura zvinyararire zvakanyanya kana kutosiya mukamuri.
- Kupisa muhukama hwepedyo . Murume akarega kusangana newe nerudo, kana iwe unonzwa kuti panguva yepabonde anoita zvinhu zvose pamushini, zvino anowana zvaanoda pane imwe nzvimbo.
- Shanduka pakuonekwa . Murume uyu akatanga kutora nguva yakawanda kumufananidzo wake, akaedza kupfekedza shati dzakashongedza nemabhuruku, haakanganwi nezvechigodhi uye zvinodhaka, kunyange zvazvo asingawanzozvishandisa kare.
- Inonoka kubasa . Zvakakosha kungwarira kana wawakaroorana naye anenge anenge zuva rega rega kubasa, uye dzimwe nguva anotsauka "basa" pakupera kwevhiki.
- Yakaparadzana kubva kumhuri . Kazhinji kazhinji munhu anoedza kushandisa nguva iri kunze kwemba, anobviswa pamatambudziko emhuri, anokupa iwe nevana nguva shomanana, achitaura kuneta uye nyaya dzehupenyu hwako.
- Kuchinja mune mafungiro . Murume anowedzera kutsamwa, anotanga kubata pazvinhu zviduku zvishoma, anokonzera kukakavara, uye anoedza kubva mumba.
- Indaneti ndiyo shamwari yakanakisisa . Zvose nguva yekusununguka murume wacho akatanga kutungamira paInternet , kunyange zvisiri iye.
- Paridza kupembera . Kana iwe usati washanyira mapato emakambani pamwe chete, nzvimbo dzevanhu, iye zvino mudzimai wako anoda kuenda ikoko ari oga.
- Matambudziko nemari . Murume wacho akazova "muduku" zvishoma, kunyange zvazvo yakazova basa rakawanda, hazvishamisi, nokuti kuda kwake kunofanira kupiwa nezvipo uye kutungamirirwa kuresitorendi.
Zvikonzero zvekutengeswa kwemurume wake zvinogona kuva zvizhinji, somuenzaniso:
- matambudziko muhukama hwepedyo;
- chido chekuwana chimwe chinhu chitsva;
- kuneta kubva muupenyu hwemhuri;
- vengeti;
- rudo, nezvimwewo.
Asi hukama hupi hunogona kuva mushure mekupandukira, nokuti kutengesa kwakadaro hakuwanzo izvo mukadzi angakanganwira. Chero chisarudzo chipi zvacho chaunotora, ipa murume mukana wekutsanangurira zvakakwana zvinhu zvose, usafara, kunyange izvi zvisiri nyore. Zvichida, iwe uchanzwisisa, iwe uchaona mune dambudziko iri uye chikamu chekutadza kwako, kamwe-kamwe chakanga chisina kutarisirwa uye kufara. Dzimwe nguva zvinhu zvose, zvinonyanya kukosha kuyeuka kuti kana iwe ukanyatsodanana, edza kuchengeta rudo urwu, nokuti hahupi runopiwa kune wese.