MuRussia, mafungiro evabereki pakupedzisa kuroorana kwevana vakagara vachigadzirisa. Kana vabereki vakaona kuti mwanakomana wavo anoda kuroora nemusikana, vakaedza kumudzivisa kana pane mumwe munhu akakodzera. Ichokwadi, zvakajeka, vabereki havana kukwanisa kumanikidzira, kungoita kuti vanyengetedze, asi kunze kwezvakanaka zvevabereki kuroorana kwechechi kwaifungidzirwa kusina mvumo.
Kugadzira - tsika
Kugadzira matanho ndiro danho rokutanga kune hupenyu hukuru hwemuwani uye mukwati. Maererano nemitambo ye matchmaking, zvaifungidzirwa kuti tsika, nhasi maitiro maviri akabatanidzwa.
Tsika dzekukwikwidza kune chikamu chemuwani dzinonamatira kusvika pakuvapo kwemasikisikiti: baba vemukomba, godfather uye mukuru mukoma. Dzimwe nguva, chaiva chikwata chemakwikwi-mukadzi anonyanyisa, uyo ainzi mukukwanisa kwake kukurukura.
Kubva kumwenga kumucheto mutambo anogona kunge ari amai vadiki, amai vamwari kana hanzvadzi.
Kana iwe ukashevedza zvinhu nemazita avo akakodzera, kuwirirana kunobatana pakati pemhuri mbiri. Mhuri yemukomana iri kuedza kuwana imwezve "inobatsira", mudzimai anopa ruzivo ane dowry, uye mhuri yemwenga inoda kuwana zvakawanda zvakakwanira mari yakawanda yekudzikinurwa komwenga.
Nuances of matchmaking
Tsika nemitambo ye matchmaking zvakatora kunyange nguva yacho pachayo. Zvaive zvakakodzera kuita chikwata manheru manheru, China neChipiri. Kwenguva yekutanga, mutambi wemutambo aiwanzosiwa muwani, sezvo kupa mwana wake zvakakurumidza kwakanzi fomu yakaipa.
Panguva imwecheteyo, paiva neshoko rokuti: "Murume akacheka acharatidza nzira yakanaka" - kuramba chikutanga kuuya, vabereki vakanga vachiri kutarisira kusarudzwa kunobatsira.
Yokutanga kutambisa kwakange kusina kufanira. Ramba vabereki vomuchato vaigona kuitira kuti vazive zviri nani mhuri yemuwani. Kwenguva yechipiri (yakatova mukuru), tafura yemabiko yakaiswa, mwenga aive achigadzirira zvipo, mhuri dzose dzaizounganidza.
Ikoko the auction yatanga: kana vabereki vemwenga vachibvumirana kupa mwanasikana wavo, mhuri dzakatanga kubvumirana kwete pamusi iwoyo chete, asiwo kune mugove wekutsvaga mari mumhemberero, uye muwani aifanira kutanga "mupiro".