Ndivanaani vanoita gay - nhema gumi pamusoro pehuchani

Ndivanaani vanoita gay uye uye kana maitiro avo akajairika, vanhu vanopesana kwemazana emakore. Mazana emakore emakore ekuda rudo rwepabonde imwechete vakadzingwa kubva munzanga, vakasungwa, vakaurawa. Iye zvino vari kunyanya kuvhiringidza kwavari. Mubvunzo unoramba uripo: Ungochani chirwere kana chimiro here?

Ndivanaani vanoita zvechani?

Izwi rokuti "gay" rine zvinyorwa zvakawanda. Zvinotendwa kuti izwi rokuti etymology yezwi iri rinobva pashoko rechiChirungu rokuti "carefree, cheerful," iro rinoreva pane imwe nguva munguva yakawedzera ndokutanga kuratidza munhu anozvipira mukuzvikudza. Gare gare, vamiririri vevanhu vemunharaunda yegayari vaifungwa sevatakuri vekuziva kwakanaka, vaiva nhengo dzepasi rose. Ndivanaani vanoita gayi zvino: vanhu vakarurama vane maitiro akasiyana-siyana epabonde. Nhasi ivo havasi vashanduri kana kupa pachena pachena zvavanoda, kana kuti latent, latent zvoungochani.

Zvinokonzera ungochani

Kuita zvepabonde: chirwere kana kungoita zvepabonde-ndizvo izvo vanhu vave vachikakavadzana kwemazana emakore. Masayendisiti anomanikidza kuti maitiro akadaro haasi anonyangadza: mumasikirwo, mhuka dzechikadzi dzinowanzosarudza dzadzo. Amai Vakasikwa havana kumboita sarudzo nevanhu. Nokudaro kazhinji kazhinji - masikana anozvarwa. Dzimwe nguva izvi zvinowanikwa uye zvinoenderana nedzidzo.

Ndezvipi zvinoshingaira uye zvisingaiti gay?

Munharaunda, inowanzopindura mubvunzo iwoyo pamusoro pemhando yevanhu vanoita zvepabonde, kugovana navo mukushanda uye kusatenda. Pakati pevanhu vanoita zvechikadzi, hukuru hunowanzozivikanwa, kureva, hunoshanda, uye varanda havatauri. Muhutano hwepabonde, zvido zvinowanzochinja, uye nharaunda dzomunharaunda hazviwanzoparadzaniswa kuva varume nevakadzi, saka mubvunzo wekusagutsikana nebasa rinopesana zvikuru. Ndivanaani vanoita gays uye vanoita basa, tichanzwisisa zvakare.

Kushanda ungochani

Iko kune varume vanoita zvepabonde, zvinogona kuva zvakaoma kuziva. Ndivanaani vane gay assets, nekunze maitiro kazhinji hazvikwanisi kutaurwa. Kushandura ungochani unogona kutarisa utsinye, saka vanowanzofanana nevanhurume vanoita zvepabonde. Chiito chinozviratidza muchokwadi chokuti muhukama hwepamuviri ivo vanotonga mumwe wavo uye vanoita basa revanhu - vanochengetedza uye vanotarisira vanodiwa vavo.

Passive ungochani

Zviri nyore kunzwisisa kuti sei ivo vachiita gays. Murume anozviona semukadzi uye anoda kuita sechinhu chakaipa chepabonde, anobvumira kuzvichengetwa nenzira yake yehupenyu, uye pamubhedha - kukudzwa kweumwe wako. Izvo zvikwereti zvinotarisa kazhinji kupfuura vakadzi kupfuura varume vazhinji, vakanatsa tsika, vanonyatsoratidza kuremekedza.

Nzira yekuziva sei murume gay?

Pane imwe chete yemhedziso, nzira yekuziva gayana: dzidza nezvehurochani kubva kwaari. Zvimwe zviratidzo:

1. Kuita sevamwe vanorara vanoita: vanofamba nemumiriri wepabonde rake pasi mumugwagwa, vanonamatira muruoko rwake, kutsvoda.
2. Hazvirevi kutarisa kuvasikana, haabvumi navo kana kutendeuka, asi haaedzi kuvaka hukama.
3. Anovanza hupenyu hwake hwega, anopesana mibvunzo nezvehafu yake yechipiri.
4. Zvinorwadza zvakanyanya kukurwisana kwepabonde zviduku.

Ndezvipi zvingaita sevakomana?

Kudzidza sei gayana pakati pevamwe? Zvimwe nenzira ipi zvayo! Kazhinji izvi zvinopfuura simba, kunyange kune vane ruzivo rwezvepfungwa, sezvo vamiririri vevasikana vanoita zvepabonde havasi kunze zvakasiyana nevakadzi vanoita zvepabonde. Asi kuziva kuti ndevei nzeve yekuroora gay kana kuti munwe mhete yakasakara, imwe inogona kuonekwa: vanoita zvepabonde vanoita unhu hwavo pachavo kusiyanisa kusawirirana kwavo. Saka, bhandi rekubatanidza pamunwe muduku chinhu chiratidzo chevatsigiri vehutano hwepabonde. Vanhu vashomanana vanoziva kuti kunyange mashoko akadaro asingakoshi, semhete iri munzeve yakarurama, inotaura nezvekugara kwevanhu vemunharaunda.

Vakomana vanoita sei?

Varume, ungochani, semitemo, haisi yakasiyana nenzira ipi neipi kubva kune yese yepabonde. Vanozviona pachavo sezvavari, kurarama mukuenderana navo pachavo uye nyika yakavapoteredza, musadanidzira pamusoro pezvavanoita. Mushure mezvose, hapana chinhu chakafanana pakati pepabonde uye mararamiro ehupenyu. Kune imwe nzvimbo yakasiyana yevanokwidziridzwa vane utsinye vanobatana mumapurisa nemagadziro, kupenya uye kugadzikana kwekushongedza, vachiedza kushamisa vanhu uye kutongwa nemasangano.

Vakomana vanoita sei rudo?

Pane kukakavadzana pamusoro pekuti varume vanoita zvepabonde vanoita sei zvepabonde. Vamwe vanotenda kuti varoorana vanogovera mabasa ehupombwe ivo kamwechete uye zvachose uye havaachinje. Vamwe vanofunga kuti zvinhu zvose zvinoenderana nemunhu chaiye, uye ungochani umwe unogona kuva nharo mune imwe nzira uye mune chimwe chikamu mune imwe. Kunyange mumamiriro ezvinhu ehukama hwepabonde, mabasa anowanzochinja.

Nzira yekubvisa ungochani?

Kusiyana nemafungiro mazhinji, kusiri kwechimiro haisi chirwere. Chido chemitezo ehutano hwavo chakaiswa mazita. Kunyange zvakadaro Sigmund Freud akiti ichange yakasiyana-siyana yebonde. Zvisinei, mubvunzo unomuka kana zvichikwanisa kuporesa murume gayana akazova semugumisiro wekushungurudzika, anotambura chisimba kana kukanganisa mumapfungwa. Iwe unogona kudzorera mafungiro ake, asi kwete chokwadi chokuti zvisarudzo zvepabonde zvekare zvakadzoka kwaari.

10 nhema dzourochani

Heano maitiro mashomanana pamusoro pehukama hwehurochani kuitira kuti vatsigire homophobes.

1. Ukama hwakanaka hwepabonde nemafashoni. Unisexual rudo yaivepo nguva dzose, kubvira kare, uko yaive yakakwidziridzwa.
2. Ungochani chirwere. Kunyange mumasikirwe kusvika kune gumi kubva kune zvisikwa zvezvisikwa zvinoita zvepabonde.
3. Vose vamiririri vasiri vedzinza ndivo vakadzi : iyi ndiyo inongorongedzerwa yehutano hwemadzimai, zvechokwadi pakati pemapoka evanhu vashomanana kune vazhinji vane simba, vakashinga, vanhu vane utsinye.
4. Vose varoyi vanopenga pamusoro pemafashoni : isu tiri vanhu vose, mumwe munhu anoda mafashoni uye anonzwisisa, mumwe munhu anozviita zvakadaro.
5. Iwe haugoni kuvimba nevakomana vakadaro : tsvakurudzo yesayenzi inoratidza kuti hakuna hukama pakati pedophilia uye ungochani.
6. Ukama hwehukama hwepabonde hahusi hukuru, pane imwe nguva : nhau inoziva mienzaniso yakawanda yemichato yakasimba uye rudo kumakuva.
7. Ikoko hakugoni kuva newanano pakati pevamwe vanoita zvepabonde, nokuti havakwanisi kurera vana vane utano. Zvakare, sezvinoratidzwa nhoroondo, dzimwe nguva mhuri umo mune mapapa maviri chete anobvumirana uye akazara.
8. Izvi zvakatora nhaka: geni rehuchani unowanikwa mune zvakasikwa hazviratidzi, zvose zvinodaro zvakawanda pamusoro pezvedzidzo.
9. Vose nhengo dzeizvidiki zvepabonde zvakapatsanurwa kuva maitiro uye zvisingaiti : kwete zvachose, sekuita zvepabonde, vanoita mabasa akasiyana epabonde.
10. Chirwere chikuru mumamiriro evanhu vane gay AIDS. Vanhu vane HIV vane utachiona hwemhando ipi zvayo yepabonde, nyaya yacho mukudzivirira kana kusavapo.

Gays anozivikanwa

Nechinhu chehuchani, vanhu vave vachiziva kwenguva refu. Vanhu vevanhu vasiri tsika dzekusika vaigara panguva dzose uye vazhinji vavo vakakonzera kukura kwehupenyu hwedu:

1. Socrates - muzivi uyu ane simba guru pakuumbwa kwenyika yevanhu vanoita zvechinguvana, vachiruramisa tsika dzetsika dzehupombwe, kurumbidza sodomy. Socrates akadzidzisa vadzidzi vake vose kubva mumweya uye kubva parudo.
2. Leonardo da Vinci . Uyu mukurumbira anozivikanwa akazvidza nemaune kukwezva vakadzi uye akawira murudo nemitezo yehutano hwake.
3. Oscar Wilde - munyori weBritish akatanga kuisa miganhu ye rudo rusina kukodzera uye akazivisa pachena kuti iripo. Mune mubhuku rinonzi "Portrait of Dorian Gray," munyori akarondedzera zvakaitika kwaari nezvehurochani hwake.
4. Pyotr Ilyich Tchaikovsky - munyori akakurumbira akanga asingafari zvikuru, nokuti haana kuwana mufaro muwanano nemukadzi, uye nhoroondo dzake nevechiduku vaityisidzira nezvisungo.
5. Elton John . Kwenguva yekutanga munhoroondo yemazuva ano, munyori Elton John akazivisa "asina kujairika". Izvi zvakakonzera kuderera kukuru pakutengesa kwezvinyorwa zvake kwechinguva, asi iye zvino muimbi chiratidzo chekufamba kwevanhu vanoita zvevamwe.
6. Dolce naGabbana . Mazino anozivikanwa anowanzowanikwa pakati pevashandi vefashoni. Domenico Dolce naStefano Gabbana vakaudza pachena nezvehukama hwavo shure muna 2000.

Mafirimu nezvevanhurume

Yakazara-mafirimu mafirimu pamusoro pevamwe varume vanoita zvepabonde akatanga kuonekwa muma1980. Yaiva nguva yakawanda mukurumbira kana mukati melodrama, nokuti sangano mumazuva iwayo harina kutora rudo rwakadaro rusingazivikanwi:

1. "Shamwari Yenguva Yakareba" , 1984 - pakurwa neAIDS.
2. "Maurice" , 1987 - pamusoro pekuedza kuvanza hukama muchechi yakanatswa yeChirungu.
3. "Philadelphia" , 1992 - mukurwa kwevaduku kune kodzero dzavo.

Nekuuya kwe melodrama "Brokeback Mountain" muna 2005, mafirimu pamusoro pehutano hwevarume varume ave akawanda. Aya ndiwo mazita e melodramas pamusoro pe rudo (zvisinei pasinei kuti chii chiri zvepabonde):

1. "Weekend" (2011) - inoyevedza melodrama.
2. "Harvey Milk" (2008). Iyi nyaya inoramba iri dambudziko munharaunda.
3. "50 mumvuri webhuruu" (kwete chimiro, asi yakadzika yakaoma mukurumbira).
4. "Nhau yemukomana akaipa" nevamwe.