Kubvuma kwerudo kunofadza kunzwa, kwete muchokwadi, asiwo mukurota. Inoramba ichinzwisisa kuti chinangwa ichi chinorevei, uye zviitiko zvipi zvinonyevera pamusoro. Kuti uite izvi, yeuka zvakadzama zvechirongwa, somuenzaniso, ndiani akanyatsoita mvumo, iwe wakanzwa sei, nezvimwewo.
Sei uchirota chirevo cherudo?
Kuona kuti mumwe munhu anotaura sei nezvekunzwa kwavo, ipapo tarisira kuchinja. Kunyange zvakadaro urongwa hwakadaro hunogona kureva kuti munhu, nekuda kwechiroto uyo ari kutarisana nacho, zvirokwazvo haafanire. Kuzivikanwa kubva kumumiriri wevanhurume vakasiyana-siyana kunoreva kuti panguva ino muhupenyu humwe hahuna kutarisirwa kubva kune waunoda. Tichaona kuti kurota kwekuzivikanwa kubva kumunhu waanenge akarota naye iye zvino muhukama chiratidzo chinoratidza kuti vanoda vanovanza chimwe chinhu kubva kune umwe. Izvi zvinogona kuva chiratidzo chokuti mudikanwa anoda kutaurira chimwe chinhu, asi haachiregi zvakare.
Kana iwe waifanira kubvuma murudo muhope, zvino muhupenyu chaihwo mumwe munhu anoshandisa mutsa wemurota. Kurindira kuratidzwa kubva kune rumwe rutivi muchiroto chiratidzo chokuti iwe uchakurumidza kuzviwana mumamiriro ezvinhu asina kunaka. Inokurudzirwa mune ramangwana rekufunga kufungidzira kuburikidza nhanho imwe neimwe. Kana ndikarota kuti ndaifanira kubvuma rudo rwangu kune muvengi, uye nokukurumidza nguva yorugare yeupenyu ichauya. Usiku hwekuona, kwandaifanira kutaura pamusoro pemanzwiro angu kumunhu asingazivi, unoporofita kusurukirwa . Kana pane zvinopesana munhu asingazivi anoreurura manzwiro, ipapo nokukurumidza chiyeuchidzo chakavanzika chichaonekwa muupenyu. Kubvuma kuti rudo muhope yekushamwaridzana neshamwari chiratidzo chisina kunaka, kunyeverwa kwezvakaipa uye kusanzwisisana.
Sei musikana akarota nezvekuzivisa kwe rudo?
Urongwa hwakadaro hwekurara hunoreva kuti nokukurumidza muupenyu hwechokwadi munhu achati pamusoro pemanzwiro ake. Kana musikana wacho pachake achitaura nezvorudo, ipapo kutaura kwako nemurume waunoda kuchapedzisira kukugumbura.