Zvepabonde , kutanga kune zvose, manzwiro. Ukama hwepabonde huchaparadzwa nekukundikana kana vasina kutsigirwa nerudo. Sezvaunoziva, kuitira kuti mumwe nomumwe muukama hune rudo awane zvitsva zvake zvezuva nezuva, zvinokosha kuvandudza.
Asi nyaya ye "zvepabonde" inonyanya kuitika. Vamwe vanonamatira kuhupenyu hwe "shamwari kune humwe husiku," uye kune avo vakatendeka kune mumwechete chete mune hutano uye urombo.
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Kubatana kwepabonde kunobva mukugutsikana kwepabonde. Uye, zvakare, inomuka bedzi apo vaviri vakaroorana vanosangana nezvido zvavo zvepabonde uye zvinoda kusvika pakukwirira.
Munhu wese ane pfungwa yake yezvakanaka uye zvepabonde. Zvakakosha kucherechedza kuti mune zvepabonde iyi inonzi "Range yekugamuchirwa pabonde". Kune munhu mumwe nomumwe, iye ndeavo. Uye kune kusiyana kwakawanda muku kunzwisisa uku pakati pevarume nevakadzi.
Mumwe nomumwe ane zvinhu zvinofadza. Saka, somuenzaniso, muvechiri kuyaruka uye varume vechidiki ivo vakawanda kwazvo. Asi, apo hukama hwepedyo hunogara huripo nguva dzose, iyo yakawanda inoderedzwa zvikuru.
Kuwirirana kwepabonde pakati pevarume nevakadzi kunotarisana nedambudziko kwete apo zvepabonde zvinoshandura muhombe yeupenyu we "Monotony", asi kana munhu asingabvumiri maitiro ake asingadi kubuda kunze apo asingakwanisi kusununguka uye kusununguka muhukama hwepedyo.
Ukama hwepabonde hwekutanga
Kuita zvepabonde kana achiri muduku kunotambudza muviri usina kusimbiswa. Mushure mezvose, zvose izvo munhu anokurumidza kuita, uye asina kunyatsofunga nezvazvo, zvechokwadi zvinogona kumuita zvakaipa. Saka, somuenzaniso, hukama hwepabonde hwevechiri kuyaruka hunogona kukonzera kusabereka, kurwisana kwepabonde, kushungurudzika kwepfungwa.
Upenyu hwepabonde hwepakutanga hunoita kuti munhu ave nemafungiro evanhu, izvo zvichabva zvichishungurudza mushure mokunge munhu azvisunga nemazano ewanano. Uyezve, zvepabonde zvevana vanoita kuti kuderera kwechido kune mudiwa wake. Pane chido chekuedza mikana yako nevamwe vevamwe.
Somugumisiro, zvinetso muhukama hwepabonde munguva yakwegura zvakanyanya zvinogona kubva kubva pakuti munhu mumakore ekutanga haana kunyatsodzika pfungwa ye rudo, manzwiro. Uye nokuda kweizvi iwe unofanirwa kubhadhara hutano nekubatana kwepabonde.
Kuita zvepabonde mumhuri
Vamwe varume kuvakadzi vavo vanodikanwa vanokwanisa kuchengeta chido kwemakore akawanda ekugara pamwe chete, asi imwe yeboka rekurara zvepabonde iri kutsvaga manzwiro matsva epabonde mumaoko omumwe mukadzi shure kwemakore akawanda ehupenyu hwemhuri.
Kuita zvepabonde muwanano kunogona kusvika nekubatana, apo vaviri vari vaviri vanoziva zvinokanganisa chido chavo chepabonde. Saka, kukokwe kwevarume kune mukadzi kunokonzerwa ne:
- Utano hwemunhu hwevanhu . Kuvhiringidzwa kunwa doro, kudya, kushaya kwezvinangwa uye kushandiswa kwavo - izvi zvose zvinotungamirira kukuti kana ava nemakore makumi mashanu, murume wacho acharasikirwa nechido chepabonde kumukadzi.
- Basa rakawandisa. Apo mukadzi anoneta zuva rimwe nerimwe kubva kubasa, mabasa, saka, pamusoro pekunakidzwa kwepabonde
hapanove nemubvunzo. - Kusina imba yakasiyana. Vanhu vakawanda vakakura, semhepo, vanoda kuva nekona yavo yega, imba yavo kana imba.
- Kurwiswa . Panhutano hwepabonde hwevakaroorana vane simba shoma remitsara inopinza inosangana nehukama hwepedyo, hwakataurwa kare kana mushure mekuita zvepabonde. Varume vane hanya nekutsoropodza, kunyange vachikwanisa kufungidzira kuti mazwi avo pamusoro pemudzimai wake pamusoro pepabonde, haana hanya.
Kuita zvepabonde kune unyanzvi. Munhu wose ndiye muenzi wehupenyu hwake uye kubva paukama hwake kune iye oga , kune manzwiro omumwe wake, kubatana kwehupenyu hwake hwepedyo hunoenderana.