Nekuuya kwecheche muimba, vabereki vazhinji vanove nyanzvi munzvimbo idzodzo dzisinganyatsoratidzirwa. Zvechokwadi, unyanzvi hwekudziya mukaka mumabhodhoro maduku kana kuvhara mwana hakuzodiwi munguva yemberi iri pedyo. Zvisinei, pane zvinhu zvaunoda kuti uzvinzwisise, zvisati zvaitika kusvikira mwana apedza chikoro chepakati. Imwe yenyaya idzi mapeji.
Unosarudza sei izvo zvingaita kuti mwana wako aite? Iye iye pachake anoratidza chinhu chakakosha kwaari here kana kuti iwe unotarisira kodzero yekuzvitenga zvakasununguka izvo zvakakosha zvakanyanya kwaari? Unoziva here kuti njodzi dzepfungwa nehutano hwevana zvinogona kuvanzwa nemawereji emazuva ano? Sezvavanotaura, ndiani akafanotaurwa akazvigadzirira. Iva wakangwarira kupa mwana wacho nekugadzirisa kwakagadzikana.
"Izvo" mairi
Sezvaunoziva, kutamba kwenguva refu ndiyo basa guru remwana. Uye basa guru revabereki nderekusarudza matayiri akakodzera kumakore ake uye kukurudzira kubudirira kwake. Mumuti uyu, munhu anofanira kutendeukira kuchizvarwa chepfungwa:
- kubva pamakore gumi ekuberekwa mwana anotanga kugadzirisa chinhu chinofamba mberi kwake, uye nemwedzi iye atotanga kuteerera inzwi uye anotarisa pane zvose zvinofamba zvakanaka pamberi pake. Zvitambo zvekutanga zvezera rino ndezvipi zvakasiyana-siyana zvimhanzi uye zvinhu zvemimhanzi, izvo zvinofanirwa kugadzirirwa paanenge 50 cm kubva pameso;
- pamwedzi mina mwana anotanga kubata nemaoko zvose zvinomuda. Mune nguva ino, yakakwana yakarongedza nemubati wakareba, iyo mwana achabata, uye kuchinja chiyiko kubva kune rumwe rutivi kune rumwe;
- kubva pamwedzi mitanhatu yemwana havafariri chete mumavara akajeka ematayipi, asiwo zvavano "tora". Chero chinhu chipi nechipi chinofarira mwana wacho chinobva chauya kumuromo wake. Saka zvakakosha kushandisa mabheti kubva purasitiki yezvokudya, nekunze kwepasi;
- kubva pamwedzi 8 mwana anotanga kubudisa zvakanzwika kubva kune zvinhu uye kutevera mitemo yefizikiki - kugogodza, kuvhura, kuvhomora, kupfugama, kudonha. Nokuda kwezvinangwa izvi, mwana anokodzera zvakakwana kumabhokisi akasiyana-siyana, nhokwe dzekufukidza, nyundo, etc ;;
- Mumakore 1 mwana anotanga zviito zvinobatsira nezvinhu. Semuenzaniso, kukwevera spoon mumuromo mako, ngirai mudziyo wokupinza, gurudza bhora, kuratidza pane zvikamu zvakasiyana zvechiso uye kuziva kuti vanonzi sei. Pano mabhuku ezera ane mifananidzo yakajeka, mabhora uye dice zvakanaka;
- mumakore maviri nemwana zvakakosha kusimbisa pfungwa uye mavara, mavara uye zvinhu zvezvinhu. Nokuda kweizvi, makerubhi, mabhora mumutsara wemarudzi akasiyana-siyana uye nemhando dzakasiyana-siyana dzemuumbi wehuni wevana vachaita;
- mumakore 2,5 mwana anenge atozvimiririra anogona kusarudza nyaya kubva ku 4 mavara mavara. Yakakwana zvakakwana pazera remakore iri yezvokudya zvemadhora. Uyewo pazera iri zvinokwanisika kutenga chikafu chekutamba kuitira kuti mwana adzidze kuisa shangu uye kuisa zvimedu;
- mumakore matatu vana vanoda mitambo-kutamba mitambo. Inogona kuva musoja, chiremba, vabati vehodzi, nezvimwewo. Pamitambo yakadaro, mitambo yevana chaiyo inotengeswa;
- pedyo nemakore matanhatu emakore vana vanofarira madhora, kutakurwa, imbwa dzakawanda, hares, cubs nezvimwe zvisikwa zvinogona kushandiswa mumitambo-kutamba. Uyewo, usakanganwa nezvehutano uye terera kune mabhora, hoops, kubvarura tambo, nezvimwewo. Chinhu chikuru mukusarudza kwako haufaniri kuva mifananidzo uye yakawanda mivara yakajeka, asi mutsara wechikwereti kumakore emwana uye kuchengeteka kwepfungwa yengwana.
Nenzira, pamusoro pepfungwa
Wati wambonetseka here kuti ruvara rwebhuruu (rusingarambi mune zvakasikwa), kana bhandi bhiza (rudzi rwakadaro sezvakadaro mumasikirwo, haruripo) rwunotarisana nemanzwiro enyika kune mwana? Uye izvi hazvirevi maitiro akawanda kubva kuChina, ayo kunyange vanhu vakuru vanogona kuunza kumurwere wemwoyo. Saka, ngationei ngozi dzipi dzakavanzwa mumatayipi, kuitira kuti tisapinda muchengeti wevanogadzira zvinhu zvekutengesa.
Muzana remakore rechi20, vanachiremba vepfungwa vakaisa mapoka maviri ematayipi.
1. Matayipi akanaka ane zvinotevera:
- inofananidzwa nezera uye kubudirira kwomwana;
- vari vatsigiri vakanaka muzivo yepasi rakapoteredza;
- ndiwo mufananidzo wechinhu chaicho kana chinhu chinowanikwa mune zvakasikwa;
- mune yakanakisisa nyaya - yakaitwa nemaoko echecheche.
2. Zvidhori zvinokanganisa mafungiro emwana uyu:
- vakafa (zvinhu zvakasiyana-siyana zvinoita mabasa akawanda uye zvirongwa);
- kunotyisa uye kusina chinhu (magwaro akaipa kune zvinhu zvipenyu, zvidhori, nezvimwewo);
- unzenza uye ufeve (mauto emasondo, pamwe chete neaya anokurudzira chisimba, hondo uye kuparadzwa).
Mashoko mashomanana pamusoro pehutano hwevana
Mukuwedzera kune chitarisiko, zvakakosha kufunga nezvemashoko anobva pachigamba. Paunenge uchitenga zvinyorwa zvinotengeswa, usakanganwa kuti mwana wako acharuma uye anozvinyengedza. Kunyangwe dzimwe nguva zvakakwana zvakakwana kuti uite zvidhori zvakadai mumaoko ako kuita kuti hutano hwako huwedzere. Pasi pepamusoro pemaruva akajeka zvinhu zvakashata zvakagadziriswa nezvinhu zvakakosha zvezvinhu zvine chepfu. Pakati pezvinhu zvose zvakasiyana-siyana mumabhuku ekufadza evana, zvinenge 15% hazvisi maererano nezvinodiwa. Iine makemikari akadai separstisol, phenol, formaldehyde uye kunyange mercury. Kuti urege kukanganisa nechisarudzo, zvakakosha kuyeuka mazita ematayari ane "mukurumbira wakaipa": "Onsimi", "Mhuka", "Mwana Wakaisa" uye "Just Foko Baby". Uyewo kunokodzera kubhadhara mahara kune vana vari pasi pegore rimwe nemaruva emakwenzi emucheche emucheche anobudiswa nekambani "Musical Mobile", "Happy Toys", "Nfants Toys".
Zvinosuruvarisa, hakuna munhu anotarisa zviratidzo zvehutsanana nehutano hwemitambo. Hongu, uye magwepistori vanoenderera mberi vachirira rwiyo - kakawanda ma teyi anokonzera chirwere chepfungwa kuvana. Vanoita kuti vana vave nehasha uye vakaipa. Izvo zvinoratidza kuti mwana akagamuchira pazera remakore maviri kusvika ku5, kwenguva yakareba anoramba ari muchiyeuchidzo uye ane simba rehupenyu hwake hwomunguva yemberi. Chimbofungidzira kuti mwana achakura sei, uyo akaitamba nemasoja kubva mune zvinyenzi zvinogadzirwa nematare kana nemadonzvo kubva kumakatekodhi anozivikanwa kunze kwenyika ane grimaces pazviso zvavo. Uye mapikicha emagetsi asina kupa mwana mukana wekufungidzira uye kutaura pamusoro pavo, anogona kutungamirira kune gaka rekugadzirisa.
Zvakare, kuenda kuchivako chevana, rangarira chokwadi chisina kujeka - chikoyi hachifaniri kutakura basa rekunakidza chete, asiwo chimwe chinhu chokudzidzisa mwana. Kana iwe unonetseka kuti mwana wako angabvunza kuti atenge chigaro kwaari, usamuratidze makatekoni uko angagona kuona chikoko ichi.
Uye pakupedzisa, usati wanyunyuta pamusoro pevatongi vasina hanya, tarisa iwe pachako. Vabereki vakawanda vemazuva ano vakabatikana zvikuru zvokuti vanopa vana vavo kuTV uye zvinyatsojeka zvidzidzo zvisingakodzeri kunzi ma teyi. Vanhu vashoma vachafara kunzwa kuti akauraya psyche yengwana nemaoko ake. Zvisinei, kana iwe uchifunga nezvei uye kuti mwana anotamba sei, chokwadi chinotanga kuva chakaipisisa kupfuura chinoratidzika. Yeuka - ramangwana re mwana wako riri mumaoko ako. Uye regai ivo vave chikopa chakanaka uye chinobatsira mwana.