Kuva mubereki muedzo mukuru. Zvinyorwa zvemwana, kusateerera kwake, kunyunyuta kwevadzidzisi nevamwe ... - "Ingondiudza kuti sei vasingaiti kunyunyuta pamusoro pemuvakidzani Vaska, asi paConstantine yangu ..."
Maminetsi mashoma asina kufanira zvakakosha kupfuuridza, apo zvakakosha kupindura kwete chete kune avo pachavo, asiwo kune mamwe mabasa evanhu. Nzira chete yekubuda ndiyo kudzidzisa. Asi sei? Mumitambo yekare yeEngland, kupi kwekurangwa kwevadzidzi vasingateereri, vadzidzisi vakashandisa mahwendefa akadai e rattan, avo vakarova maoko nemaoko emunhu ane mhosva? Kushandisa nzira ye "tsika" yekuranga mwana ane bhanhire? Kana kuti nokuedza kushanda mupfungwa?
Wadii kuranga vana vane bhanhire?
Zvechokwadi vana vezvesayenzi vepfungwa vanopindura mubvunzo "zvinokwanisika kurova vana vane bhanhire here?" Hazvina kunaka. Kutaura vana vasingateereri kwete chete kunounza kukanganisa kunoda (mune mamwe mazwi, haudzidzisi chero chinhu), asiwo kune zvakakanganisika zvikuru pakuumbwa kwehutano hwemwana uye pfungwa yake yekuzvivimba. Uyezve, zvisinei kuti mubereki anoshungurudza sei nechirango chechirango muruoko rwake, chirango chipi nechipi "mumoyo" uchapupu hwusingava nesimba, asi, asi, nehupano, hwehutera hwake. Mwana wemanzwiro akanaka anogara achimuudza nezvazvo.
Kana isiri bhanhire, zvino sei?
Dzidzo inobatsira kwete mumamiriro ezvinhu kana mubereki ane hasha achidurura "tubhu" pamusoro wemwana wake kana, asingadziviri kuzvidzora kwake, "anotarisira bhanhire", asi apo bedzi ari muzwi rakadzikama, umo pasina mumvuri wehasha, anotsanangura nzira yekuita zvakanaka, asi nzira yekuzviita haifaniri kukosha.
Seku "gakava rakanaka", iwe haufaniri "kumbomira tsitsi" uye utaure kuti une nyadzi pamusoro pezviito zvake (izvi hazvizobatsiri mwana kurarama nemamiriro acho ezvinhu, asi zvinogona kungowedzera matambudziko ake nekuderedza kutendeseka kwako). Kunyanya kubudirira kunogona kuva neropa rinotonhora "kana ..., ipapo ...". "Kana iwe uchigere kuchenesa imba yako kamwechete pavhiki, handigoni kukupa mari kutenga mutsva mutsva, wawakandiudza pamusoro pezuro," - saka, akanyarara uye zvachose uine chivimbo, unogona kuti baba kumwanakomana wavo uye kwenguva yekutanga "kuunza nyaya yacho kumugumo" - kuchengeta shoko rake. Ingoyeuka mupfungwa kuti pakutanga pakutanga mamiriro akadaro haafaniri kuva anopfuura rimwe chete mumazuva matatu, uye kuita zvinopikirwa zvinodiwa ne 100% zvingaita.
Zvinonyanya kubudirira kudarika kurangwa kwechibvumirano uye kushungurudzika mupfungwa, pane kukurukura nemwana semunhu mukuru. Edzai!