Kusiyana pamakore makumi maviri

Munhu wese anoziva mutsara wokuti "Rudo rwemazera ese rwunoteerera." Vakawanda vanotenda kuti unogona kusangana nemurume wemweya wako, mwoyo wako, zvose mumakore makumi maviri nemakumi mashanu. Kubva pahwindo reterevhizheni yebhuruu, nemeso anofara, vakaroorana vanotitarisa, avo vane makore akasiyana kudarika mutengo wemakore gumi. Asi musikana wese muhupenyu chaihwo, akatsunga kuyananidza hupenyu hwake nemumwe munhu kaviri, katatu pauzera hwake, anenge ari pangozi. Ngatiedzei kuziva kuti tingavanze njodzi yakadaro uye chii chinofanira kunge chiri mutsauko wakakwana munguva yevakaroorana .

Kusiyana pamakore makumi maviri

Kunyange zvazvo musikana ari 20 uye ane makore makumi mana, zvinoratidzika kuti zvose zvakanaka: iye akafanana newe, azere nerudo, zvido uye simba. Asi nguva inotora mararamiro ayo uye chii chichaitika kana iwe uchinge uine gaka rekudya? Uye sei, pasinei nezvinoonekwa zvakaoma, vasikana vanofarira vanosimudza kupinda mudziva nemisoro yavo, vachivhara maziso avo kunekuti kune kusiyana kwezera rakakura mumhuri yavo?

1. Mercantile zvinokonzera dzimwe nguva nheyo muukaro hwemhando iyi. Saka, murume wezera rakakura ndiye munhu akapfuma, akakwanisa kupa kwete iye oga, asi mudzimai wake. Kazhinji, kubatana kwakadaro kwakafanana nekambani yebhizimisi.
2. Kana musikana wacho asina rudo rwebaba muhuduku hwake, hazvibvumiri kuti iri mukomana wechizvarwa ichi kuti anoona murume wehope dzake.
3. Kune boka revarume avo, mumhuri yemhuri, vanofarira kuita basa rekupa mazano, uye vakadzi, ivowo, vanodzidza. Iye zvino, kana vanhu vaviri vakadaro vakazvisunga nemitoro yemhuri, zvino zvingangodaro hupenyu hwewanano huchabudirira, pasinei nokuti mune izvi hukama huri musiyano unoita basa rinokosha.
4. Psychology haina kubvisa mukana wekuti vadzivisi vaviri vanonyatsoona manzwiro echokwadi kune mumwe nemumwe uye munyaya iyi misiyano muzera ravo yakaita joke hutsinye.

Iyo yakanakisisa yezera yakasiyana

Zvakakosha kuziva kuti zvidzidzo zvakaitwa neAmerican Sociological Institute for the Study of Family Relations, in izvo zvaisanganisira vanenge zviuru zviviri zvevakadzi nevarume, vakaratidza kuti, zvinosuruvarisa, 1% chete yevanhu vakapindura vanotenda mukuvapo kweukama hwakanaka nevarume avo vaduku kupfuura madzimai avo. 40% vakacherechedza kuti kwavari ivo vakasiyana nemakore akasiyana nemakore mana, uye 30% vanobvuma maonero emakore mashanu kana matanhatu. Iyo nyanzvi yakaongorora mhinduro dzose uye yakasvika pakugumisa kuti yakanakisisa yezera yezera ndeye makore 4.4.

Saka, kana iwe uchiyeuka nyeredzi yakaroorana, musiyano muzera pakati pemakore 4.5, muenzaniso wakajeka weumambo Elizabeth wechipiri (makore 87) uye murume wake Philip Mountbetten (92) akabva asvika mupfungwa.