Nzira yekutanga kukurukura nemukomana anofanirwa sei? Uyu mubvunzo wakamuka kudai zvose muzvikoro zvemakore, asi isu takatarisira nomwoyo wose kuti mumhuri yevakuru vakuru machinda pachavo vachawira patsoka dzedu. Uye zvino chikoro chacho chapera, kutya kwevana kuri kumashure, uye mubvunzo wekuswedera pedyo uye kutanga kukurukurirana kwokutanga nemurume uyu akagara.
Vasikana vakawanda vanotenda kuti kubva pamaminitsi ekutanga emudzimai unoda kushamisika. Uye kuti ungazviita sei, kana usingatauri nemurume anofadza, zvichida kunyange zvisingawanzoitiki? Asi havasi vose vanogona kufarira nzira iyi yokusika, kunyanya kana akakutarisai kwenguva refu, asi haatyi kuuya. Nokutaura kwake, iwe unopedzera zvinotyisa kukunyadzisa wako wakasarudzwa. Saka chii chaunofanira kuita, kuti utange sei kukurukurirana nemurume nenzira yakarurama, mibvunzo ipi ichava inofadza kwaari? Ichokwadi, iyo chaiyo yemibvunzo yekutaura nemurume haigone kubudiswa - vanhu vose vakasiyana, uye mumwe munhu anoda kutaura pamusoro pebhola, uye mumwe munhu ane nzara yekukurukura nhamba itsva, saka iwe unofanira kuita mamiriro ezvinhu. Asi kutanga kutaurirana kune mimwe mitauro yakawanda. Uye usanamatira pashoko rokuti "standard"! Pashure pezvose, hatidi kugamuchira mubairo wekutanga kurapwa, asi regai murume azive kuti anofarira kwatiri.
Inguva ipi?
Hungu, mubvunzo ibhenari, asi kwenguva refu ndeye pakati pezvikonzero zvakajairika zvekufambidzana. Chengeta yako chete panguva ino iri nani kubvisa, uye kubvisa foni muhomwe yako. Sezvo wakadzidza nguva, iwe unogona kurumbidza ziso rake (foni), kana iwe unofadza kumurume, ipapo achaedza kutsigira hurukuro.
Imbwa yakanaka sei!
Murume wacho anofamba neimbwa (kati, hamster, ruoko kanzira), akarumbidza chipfuwo chake. Vanhu vanoda mhuka vanogona kutaura pamusoro pemhuka dzavo dzemhuka kwemaawa akawanda, saka musoro wekutaurirana unovimbiswa kwauri.
Ndapota ndibatsirei, ndapota
Pano isu tiri kutoratidza kufunga. Zvichida iwe haufaniri kuvhara bhodhoro remvura yemaminari kana kuti haugone kuverenga foni yako, uye akacherechedza muenzaniso wakafanana? Iyo yakasimba mwoyo yemurume haikwanise kurwisa mukana wokuratidza unhu hwayo hwakanakisisa: simba, njere nekuita.
Ndinoda rwiyo urwu sei!
Anoteerera mimhanzi kuburikidza ne headphones, asi zvakanyanya zvokuti zvinonzwika kune vamwe? Usarega kurasikirwa, iyi ndiyo nguva yedu. Tinosangana nemurume uyu uye tinotaura kuti tinonakidzwa nenziyo iyi (kana iwe ukaiwana) kana inofarira muiti (kana rwiyo ruchiri rusingatauri). Iwe unogona kukumbira kudonsa rwiyo urwu pafoni yako, uye mukugadzirisa kukurukura pamusoro wemimhanzi yako yaunofarira.
Ndinoda mabhuku ake!
Wakamboona murume anonakidza ari mubhuku rekunyora uye asingazivi kutanga sei kukurukura naye? Zviri nyore, tarisa mabhuku aanofarira, uye mubvunze mubvunzo pamusoro pekugadzirisa kwemunyori uyu, vanoti, wave wave uchida kuverenga chimwe chinhu kubva munyaya dzino, asi usatya.
Zvinoratidzika ndarasika ...
Bvunza kuti ungawana kupi chero magwagwa, shop kana cafe. Vakomana vanofarira kunzwa semasters mu orienteering, saka iwe haugoni kurambwa.
Oo, iyi ndiyo bheteti here?
Vakatarisa mumaoko ake mamwe mazano ekugadzira?
Sezvaunogona kuona, iwe unogona kutanga kutaurirana nemurume ane chero mutsara, chinhu chikuru ndechekuti chaive chiri munyaya yacho, saka hatinoteereri kutaridzika kweumwe munhu anotya, asiwo kune zvaari kuita. Uye kana wakabatikana, nokuti munhu wekupedzisira ari kumhanya haazoregi chero, kunyange mubvunzo wepakutanga. Uye zvinonyanya kukosha, iwe unofanirwa kunge uri mukadzi uye usanyara kuratidza kufarira kwako kumurume. Iwe haugoni kutaura izwi, ingovaka maziso, uye iye pachake anoda kukuziva iwe zviri nani.