Kuzvisarudzira kweunhu

Pfungwa yekuzvidavirira kwevanhu, kutanga, inosanganisira kukwanisa kwemunhu kudzivirira maonero ake kana nzvimbo mumamiriro ezvinhu anoda kutsauka kubva mumitemo yakagara isati yasimbiswa, kunyanya kana zviito zvaanotarisira kwaari zvinopesana nemitemo yake netsika. Kutaura zvazviri, ndezvekuisa zvinhu zvakakosha muhutano uye kana munhu asingakwanisi kupesana nemafungiro evanhu kana maitiro akasimbiswa, kunyange kana achipesana nemafungiro ake pamusoro pe "dema nechena", ipapo pane kukwana kwakakwana kana kusarura kwekuzvibata kuzvitonga kwevanhu .

Kuteerera hakugone kuregererwa

Kuita kuti zvive nyore kunzwisisa zvose, ngationgororei muenzaniso wemutsara unozivikanwa zvikuru "Haugone kukanganwira kuurayiwa." Fungidzira kuti iwe wakagadzwa kuti usarudze kuguma kwechivi chinotyisa, icho chinonyanya kutyisidzira vanhu uye iwe pachako zvinotaridzika kana achararama kana kwete. Unoisa kupi komma? Iwe uchaenderera mberi kubva kune chokwadi chokuti hupenyu hwemunhu chero upi zvake hutsvene kana kufunga nezvehuwandu hwevanhu vakaurayiwa wemuurayi uye unosarudza kusaisa vamwe vanhu pangozi nekutevera vatsigiri vekufa kwechirwere nevashori vehupenyu huri mujeri, kunyange iwe pachako iwe uchivenga pfungwa iyi? Iwe unogona kukunda maonero ako ehutsika here? Kana hongu, ipapo une matambudziko nekuzvimirira kweumwe munhu, izvo chaizvoizvo ndeimwe yemhando dzekubatana pakati pevanhu nemasangano.

Simba kana utera?

Iro psychology yekuzvitsvaga kune mumwe munhu inzvimbo yakaoma kunzwisisa zvinosanganisira zvinhu zvose zvekuvandudza unhu uye zvinhu zvinokurudzira. Pano zvinhu zvose zvinoita basa: zvose zviripo muupenyu, uye nzvimbo iyo munhu akakwidziridzwa, uye zvakagadzirirwa mupfungwa. Kazhinji kacho kukwanisa komunhu kuzvidzivirira chinzvimbo chake kunoratidzwa mumatatu ose ekuzvitsanangurira kwevanhu, kureva:

1. Maererano nehutano hwavo.
2. Maererano neyakagamuchirwa munzanga dzevanhu.
3. Mukusarudza zvinorehwa uye zvinangwa zvehupenyu hwako pachako.

Nhamba dzinoratidza kuti kana munhu ataura hutungamiri hunhu uye haatambudziki nehutsika hwakanyanya, kazhinji haawani matambudziko aanozvitsvaga uye kuzviziva kweumwe munhu. Asi pane mumwe munhu asina chokwadi, iye ainyanya kurwisana nemamiriro ezvinhu muhucheche uye achiri kuyaruka, kukwanisa kuita sarudzo pasina kutarisa maitiro asina kuitika munharaunda kana pamanikidziro emamwe maonero ekutaridzika atova kutumidzwa mubvunzo.

Mune mhaka ipi zvayo, kuzvidzora kwehupenyu hakusi kungozvibata kune mumwe munhu. Icho chakanyatsotungamirirwa kunyika yekunze, chinangwa chekubatana neshamwari uye sechigumisiro, inotora basa rinokosha pakusarudza vector yekusimudzirwa kwayo.