Kwete-reflexive kuteerera

Kuteerera kusingabvunzi chinhu chakanaka chekuona kwemashoko emutauriri, umo mutereri anyerere, akanyatsoteerera uye haatauri pamusoro pekutaura kwaanonzwa. Muzviitiko zvakanyanyisa, zvinokwanisika kuwedzera mutsara usingatauri chero kuongorora. Chirevo chekusateerera kwekunzwa kwete kunyatsofungisisa, asi kungobvuma izvo interlocutor inotaura.

Mitemo yekusateerera kwekunzwa

Iyi unyanzvi inoda kuteererwa nemimwe mitemo, pasina iyo iyo isiri-reflexive kunzwa inokundikana. Kune zvishoma chete:

1. Kuramba kwakakwana kwekupindira chero kupi zvako kwekutaurirana kwomutauriri.
2. Kuramba kuongorora paanoona mazwi ayo interlocutor anotaura.
3. Kufungisisa iwe pachako zvakanyatsoenderana nemashoko e-interlocutor, uye kwete pane iwe pachako kutonga uye pfungwa pamusoro pemashoko ake.

Kunyatsoteerera nekuteerera kusinganzwisisiki kune misiyano yakakura: kana pane imwe yekutanga iyo inzwisisiro yevamwe mazwi evanhu ayo akasimbiswa, zvino munyaya yechipiri munhu anofanira kusiya maonero ake.

Iko ruzivo rwekusateerera kusingafungi hunova hunoita sei?

Kazhinji kazhinji, mutauriri anoedza kukurumidza kubudisa pfungwa dzavo, manzwiro uye manzwiro pamusoro pezvavanonzwa, asi kwete nguva dzose zvakakodzera. Semuenzaniso, mumarudzi ose ekukurukurirana, apo zvakakosha kunzwisisa zvinoshandiswa nemunhu, ndezvisingateereri kuteerera zvinokubvumira kukurumidza kunzwisisa interlocutor.

Kana pane kukanganiswa munhaurirano, mibvunzo inorwadza inobatwa, zvinokosha kubvumira munhu kutaura, uye kwete kuedza kumutsa munhu zvake pakarepo. Ndiyo nzira iyi inobatsira kugadzirisa matambudziko, pane kugadzira zvitsva. Kana iwe uchiona kuti munhu anoda kuratidza mamwe manzwiro, asi asingazivi kuti anotanga kupi, mubatsire nemubvunzo wakakodzera: Zvinokutambudza here? "Kana zvakafanana. Mushure maizvozvi, iwe unofanira kushandisa nzira yekuteerera kwakanyatsoteerera, iyo inobvumira munhu kuti akuudze zvekutaura pamusoro pezvaanoda kutaura.

Zvechokwadi, kana zviitiko zvekukurukurirana kana kukakavadzana, iyi nzira inenge isina kupindurwa zvachose. Mumhando ipi neipi yekutaurirana kwebhizimisi, kunzwa kusinganzwisisiki hakusati kwamboshandiswa, nokuti munyaya iyi kukurukurirana kunosangana nemabasa akasiyana zvakasiyana. Kakawanda kusateerera kusinganzwisisiki kunowonekwa sedombo rinoenda kune unyanzvi hunokosha sekuteerera kwakasimba kunogona kushandiswa mumamiriro ezvinhu akawanda uye kazhinji inopa migumisiro yakaisvonaka.