Mukuyaruka, chinhu chinokosha chinokosha chinowanikwa nehutano hwehukama nehupenyu hwakapoteredza uye hwemagariro evanhu, izvo zvinotarisa kutungamirirwa kwekuyaruka kwepfungwa dzevechiri kuyaruka. Zviratidzo zvevechiri kuyaruka zvinotsanangurwa nemaitiro ehupenyu hwevanhu uye nekuchinja nzvimbo yevechiri kuyaruka munzanga. Mukomana anopinda muukama hutsva nenyika yevanhu vakuru uye, nokudaro, hukama hwake hwemagariro mumhuri, kuchikoro, mumugwagwa kuchinja. Mumhuri, anogoverwa mamwe mabasa ane mutoro, uye iye pachake anoedza kuita mamwe mabasa "vakuru", kutevedzera maitiro evakwegura vakwegura. Zvinoreva pfungwa yehutano hwemagariro evanhu hunosanganisira kubatana kwehukama hunoumbwa munharaunda, mazano uye maitiro anoenderana nekusimudzirwa kweumwe munhu. Kukurukurirana munharaunda yemagariro evanhu, vechidiki varikudziridza kuve netsika, zvinangwa uye maitiro ekutevedza, kukudziridza zvirongwa zvekuongorora ivo nevamwe.
Mamiriro ezvinhu evanhu vari kuyaruka - chirongwa
| Teenager | |
|---|---|
| 烟 Chitatu chinotevera (mhuri, hama, shamwari, vaunodzidza navo) | ↘ nzvimbo yakareba-yakamira (vavakidzani, vhidhiyo, Indaneti, vadzidzi vekuchikoro) |
| ↓ ine zvakananga (kutaura, kukurukurirana, zviito, muenzaniso wega) | ↓ rine zvakashata (makuhwa, kuwedzerwa, zviito) |
Mumamiriro ezvinhu akadai kuchikoro uye pamusha, nzvimbo inotevera inobatsira zvikuru pamabasa, mafungiro uye maonero evechiri kuyaruka: anoteerera maonero avabereki, anotaurirana zvakanaka neshamwari. Kana wechidiki asinganzwisisi pakati pevanhu vanobva munzvimbo dzakasununguka, ipapo nzvimbo iri kure (nyika yevasingazivi) inogona kuva nechinangwa chikuru mupfungwa, maonero uye mufambiro wevechiri kuyaruka kupfuura vanhu vanobva mukati maro. Izvo zvichibva kumwana wechidiki kune denderedzwa rekukurukurirana, iyo iri pasi pekutendwa kwairi kuedzwa. Vabereki kana chikoro, icho chikonzero chechimwe chikonzero chinorasikirwa nekuvimbika kwevechiri kuyaruka, chiri kunze kwechikwata chekuvimba kwake.
Izvo zvinokonzerwa nehutano hwemagariro pamusoro pevechiri kuyaruka
Nyanzvi dzezvepfungwa dzinotaura kuti kutarisa kwevechiri kuyaruka pane zvemagariro evanhu kwakafanana sezvinobvira. Nezvose zvaanoita uye zviito, wechidiki ari kutarisa kunzanga.
Nokuda kwechimiro nekuzivikanwa, vechidiki vanogona kuita zvibayiro zvekutsamwa, kupinda mukunetsana nevanhu vari pedo, vanochinja maitiro avo.
Inzvimbo yehutano inogona kukanganisa mwana wechidiki, zvose zvakanaka uye zvisina kunaka. Kuwedzerwa kwehutano hwehupenyu hwemagariro evanhu hunoenderana nesimba revatori vechikamu uye wechidiki pachake.
| Chinhu chakanaka | Kukanganisa kwakashata |
|---|---|
| • Mitambo, kubatanidzwa mumagariro evanhu, zvitsva zvitsva; | • Kuwana maitiro akaipa (kusvuta, doro); |
| • kusimbisa hukama hwehukama; | • kuwana uye kukura kweunhu hwakashata; |
| • kuwana uye kukura kweunhu hwakanaka hunhu; | • kutevedzera vatungamiri vasina kukodzera; |
| • Kuvandudza zvidzidzo. | • kuora kwezvidzidzo. |
Kukurukurirana nevezera rako pavechiri kuyaruka
Kutaura pamusoro pesimba rehupenyu hwemagariro evanhu pakuumbwa kweunhu uye mufambiro wechiri kuyaruka, mumwe anofanirwa kuongorora zvakanyanya zvekutaurirana nevezera rake.
Kukurukurirana kunokosha kune zvikonzero zvakawanda:
- chitubu chemashoko;
- hukama hwevanhu;
- manzwiro evanhu.
Kuratidzwa kwekunze kwekutaura kunoenderana nekupikisana: kune rumwe rutivi wechidiki anoda "kuva sevamwe vose," uye kune rimwe, pane zvose, zvinoda kumira uye kubudirira.
Nzira yekukurukurirana nevabereki vari kuyaruka
Mukuyaruka, nzira yekuregererwa kwevechiri kuyaruka kubva kuvabereki inotanga uye imwe nzvimbo yekusununguka inobudirira. Muchizvarwa chekuchinja, kuvimba kwepfungwa kune vabereki kunotanga kuongorora paanenge ari kuyaruka, uye anoda kuvaka imwe nzira yehukama, iyo inenge ichishanda. Vechidiki vanogadzira purogiramu yavo yehutsika, iyo inowanzosiyana zvakasiyana neyeyo vabereki vanonamatira. Kuvonga zivo yakawanda uye ruzivo, wechidiki ane chido chakakosha chekuziva unhu hwake uye nzvimbo yake pakati pevanhu.
Kuti rubatsire mwana wechidiki kubudirira kugadzirisa kunharaunda, nzvimbo yakasununguka inofanira kuva yakagadzirika uye yakachenjera.