Mhando yehukama munyika yanhasi haisi yakasiyana neyo yaive mazana maviri emakore akapfuura. Chinhu bedzi ndechokuti tsika dzevanhu chete dzakagamuchira nzira yakadzama yokuratidza, apo munhu anogona kugadzikana, asingatyi nokuda kwehupenyu hwake, kuva musangano we rudo rusununguko kana kutendeseka kumakuva.
Vanhu vese kubva panguva yakapfuura vakaumbwa mhando dzose dzinozivikanwa maitiro ewanano :
- teka * (mitaka);
- monogamy (homeland);
- polyandry (polyandry).
Saka, kugona nemurume hakusi chinhu asi kungova nemurume mumwe chete, rudzi rwemhuri, chikwata chewanano. Ukama uhwu, umo hamuna nzvimbo yechitatu. Kusiyana kweizwi iri tarika. Mhuka dzakawanda - zvisikwa zvembeka.
Zvakakosha kuziva kuti monogamy ine mitemo yake. Saka mutemo wekugadzikana kwemumwe mukadzi ndewekuti hazvibviri pamutemo kuzvisunga nemukati kusvikira mumwe wevamwe varo ari muwanano wakanyorwa. Iyi nheyo inopedzerwa mumitemo yose ine chokuita nekuroorana mumarudzi ose kumavirira.
Chii chinonzi monogamy?
Maererano nekutsvakurudza kwezvakaitika kare, monogamy yakaonekwa mushure megore. Zvaitendwa kuti munguva yekare zvaionekwa sechinhu chinoshamisa chechiitiko, apo hupenyu hwevanhu hwakararama maererano nemutemo "Uyo waunoda, uye uutore." Asi izvi hazvina kubatsira pakupona kwemhuri. Saka, mushure mekunge imwe nguva yenguva, nhoroondo yemhuri yepamusoro yakabuda semunhu mumwechete.
Kuvonga kwaari, nhamba yemakakatanwa emukadzi pakati pevarume yakaderera. Pachinzvimbo chababa, kutarisirwa kwakatanga kuvana.
Kubva pakufunga kwepfungwa, kugona kwemurume mumwechete mumunhu kwakapa munhu mukana wekuratidza, maitiro mauri, chido chekuronga. Yakaratidza humwe humwe humwe hukama hwekudzikama munyika yekusatenda.
Chii chinonzi monogamy mune varume?
Vakawanda vari kufarira mubvunzo kwete kwete chete nezvechiri murume mumwe chete, asiwo kana iripo zvachose. Maererano nenhamba dzeongororo pakati pepabonde rakasimba, vanenge 45% yevarume vanogona kuramba vakatendeka kumadzimai avo.
Munguva pfupi yapfuura, sangano rine nhema yokuti mhirizhonga pakati pevanhu chinhu chinoshamisa kubva munharaunda yekufungidzira. Asi ikoko kwaiva. Mushure mezvose, inenge chikamu chevarume venyika ino vanogutsa zvikuru kana vachida chete mumwe chete.
Zvakakosha kuziva kuti vanachiremba vakawana geni muropa revamwe varume. Izvozvo zvakaitika kuti iye anogona kukwanisa kuronga hupenyu hwemunhu kuti ataurirane kwete nemukadzi mumwe chete, kunyange pasinei nekuvapo kwemusikana wemwoyo. Vanachiremba vanofungidzira kuti havasi varume vose vanogona kunge vari voga. muviri unoshandiswa pheromones. Muchiitiko ichi, mutengesi haagoni kurwisa, achiti, kubva mumuviri wekadzikadzi wake. Zvishoma nezvishoma, anowanzozvifananidza, uye zvepabonde zvatova chimwe chinhu chakafanana nehotera yakasimba, iyo yakasimba yakasimba yehutano.
Kubva pakuona kwemaviri physiology uye psychology, kupandukira vanhu kunobatsira. Nokuti panguva dzakadaro basa romwoyo uye uropi hunoita huri nani. Mukadzi ari mumwe oga ari chisarudzo chakanaka. Inogona kuvakirwa pane zvose
Vadzidzisi vezvepabonde vakaita sarudzo panyaya iyi uye vakawana kuti vanenge 10 muzana yevarume havashanduki mudiwa wavo nekuda kwekutya kwakadaro, uye vakasara 35% - nemhaka yokuti mumakore avo vaduku "vakashanda" zvakawanda. Icho chikamu chekupedzisira chisingakwanisi kuwira kubva mumuedzo wevakadzikadzi zvepabonde nokuti mune avo vakaroora vanowana zvose zvave vachitsvaga kune vamwe vakadzi kwenguva refu.
Kuve monogam kana kuti polygam kune vose. Asi, usati waita zvisarudzo, iwe unofanirwa kuongorora zvose zvinobudirira uye zvakashata.