Mubvunzo wei mazamu akaita sevarume, unofadza vakadzi vose pasina kunze, haisi chakavanda kuti uri pamusana wekuti maziso avo anowanzosvika pakuziva, uye naizvozvo hukuru hwaro uye maitiro zvakakosha zvikuru. Ndokusaka vakadzi nguva dzose vachishandura zvipfeko zvepurasitiki , uye vamwe vanoshandisa dzimwe nzira dzepamakadhi, kunyanya, kuvhiyiwa kweplastiki. Asi zvinokosha here kuvarume?
Sei varume vakaita sezvizamu zvevakadzi?
Vamwe vanofunga nezvepfungwa vanofunga kuti mafungiro akazara kune chikamu chemuviri wechikadzi anoiswa mucheche, apo kune mwana achangoberekwa aive chinhu chose-uye chitubu chekudya, uye nzira yekunyaradza, uye izwi rinoreva kunyatsotarisira. Aya maonero okutanga anoramba ari mukunzwisisa uye, mushure memakore akawanda, anodururirwa mumoyo mutsvene kumapfupa, mumwe anogona kutaura kuti varume vanonamata iyo sevamwe rudzi rwehuMwari. Vanomushungurudza norurimi rwake nemiromo, kupenya nemaoko ake uye kuwana mufaro unofadza chaizvo pavanoona kuti vanofarira mukadzi uyu sei.
Kana ari wehukuru, saka, sezvavanotaura, ruvara uye ruvara rwevamwe shamwari harisi. Vanhu vazhinji vari kushamisika kuti nei varume vakaita sehombodo huru, asi kana iwe uchitenda zvinyorwa, zvinenge gumi chete. Zvichida zvakare, kusaziva uye chimiro chekubereka vana ndivo vanokonzera mukadzi uyo achakwanisa kudyisa vana vose nekuda kwechifuva chikuru uye mukaka wakawandisa. Kutaura pamusoro pezvipi mazamu mazamu sevarume, zvakakosha kuziva kuti mhinduro yacho inonyanya kugadziriswa nemafashoni uye kazhinji kuzvirumbidza kune shamwari: pier yangu ine yebhokisi huru uye inotonhorera.
Zvisinei, vazhinji vamiririri vehafu yakasimba yevanhu vanobvumirana kuti chifuva chinofanira kuva chakanaka, chakasununguka, chimiro chakanakisisa, asi ukuru ndechokupiwa kwezvakasikwa uye hapana chikonzero pakukakavadzana nekuchinja chimwe chinhu. Saka, mubvunzo wekuti varume vakaita sebhokisi duku, hamungagoni kupindura zvisina kufanira. Kana iri chifuva chemukadzi, murume wacho haana hanya nezvaari.