Kunyara kwakanyanyisa kunogona kuva chipingamupinyi kune chinangwa chako uye kurota kwemufaro nemudiwa wako. Mutevedzeri akanaka kwazvo wevanhu vanozvininipisa nemasikirwo achave Internet, nokuti nechitarisiko chake, vazhinji vakava neshamwari uye vakawedzera denderedzwa yevanozivana navo. Asi kunze kwenzvimbo dzekunamata kunowanikwa nzira dzakawanda dzekubvuma kune mukomana murudo, kana iwe unonyara, asi iwe, uchaudzwa sei munyaya ino.
Ungabvuma sei kuti unoda mukomana usina kusiya musha?
- Ingotumira shoko reSMS nemashoko anodiwa. Kana mhinduro yemuiti wezvinyorwa haisi iwe waungada kuona, iwe unogona kunyora nguva dzose kuti wakakanganisa nenhamba.
- Izvo zvakafanana, asi chete nekubatanidzwa kwekombiyuta. Kana mukomana ari mu "shamwari" mune imwe nzvimbo yekutambirwa kwevanhu, nyora iye kureurura. Nyaya yeiyo nzira ndeyokuti hapana anozoona uye haaone chero kunyadziswa, kushamwaridzana, ruvara rutsvuku nemaoko ekutuka. Uye kana zvikaitika kuti iwe unobvuma kumurume mukunzwira tsitsi, uye iye akanyarara kana kunyora muck mukutarisa, zvino manzwiro ake anogona kuratidzirwa neine smiley yakakodzera, somuenzaniso, nokutumira chiratidzo "Joke" kana kunyora kuti iyo nyanzvi yakanganisa.
- Uine chivimbo munyasha dzake, iwe unogona kuita kupupura kukuru nokuinyorera "pamadziro" kana pasi pemufananidzo. Iwe unogona kuita chikwangwani pasi pechipo chaicho. Nenzira, inogona kunge iri yoga, saka mutumire achazarurirwa chete kune nzvimbo yekuwedzera.
- Iwe unogona kuumba peji itsva pasi pezita rinonyengera uye kupa chinhu chekunzwirana kwako neshamwari nekukurukurirana. Izvi zvichatibatsira kudzidza zvakawanda pamusoro pake uye pamusoro pekuti pane nzvimbo yakasununguka mumoyo make.
Meso ari muziso
Zvechokwadi, kureurura rudo kune mukomana mumashoko ake pachako hakusi nyore, kunze kwe, vakawanda vanohadzika kana zvichibvira kubvuma kumurume murudo kutanga. Asi kana iye ane nyenyeri uye asingakanganisi, ipapo wakakomba kuitira kuti iwe ugone kufamba kwenguva refu, saka hapana uye usingawani. Asi nguva ino inogona kushandiswa nebatsiro, kuita kuti mumwe nemumwe afare uye awedzere kufara! Kunze kwemazuva ano, kusiyana nemakore ekupedzisira, vakomana vanotsigira uye vanozvimiririra vachitaura nezvekutanga kwevakadzi vasina simba uye havaoni chero chakaipa nechokuti vasikana ndivo vokutanga kuratidza tsitsi dzavo. Saka zvakanyanya kukurudzira kusangana nemanzwiro matsva!
Nzira dzakasiyana-siyana dzokubvuma zvakanaka kuti ude mukomana mumashoko ako pachako:
- Kugadzirisa mamiriro acho ezvinhu, umo iwe unogona kunge uri woga uye unobvunza mubvunzo kuti uyu angaita sei kana vakareurura kwaari murudo. Iwe unogona kutaura kuti iwe uri kugadzirira mazwi akachiva uye unotya kuti mukomana achaita zvisina kukodzera. Nokupindura kwake uye kupindura, iwe uchabva waziva zvose.
- Vaya vane kuzvidzora kukuru, munogona kutaura pakati pemamwe mazwi: "Ndinokudai" uye tarisai maitiro. Kana mukomana wacho akaramba asina hanya, edza kuchinja zvinhu zvose kuva joko kana kutaura zvaakanzwa.
- Iwe unogona kumuverenga nhetembo pamusoro pehurukuro yorudo uye kubvunza zvaanofunga nezvazvo. Chinhu chikuru ndechokuunza hurukuro yacho kumusoro wakarurama, uye mune ramangwana hazvizove zvakaoma kuwana hukama hwayo.
Zvechokwadi, kuonekwa somunhu ari nzira yakarurama yekudzidza pamusoro pemanzwiro echokwadi emukomana, asi kana kunyara kuri kukuru zvokuti hazvibviri kuita sarudzo yakadai, unogona nguva dzose kunyora rwiyo rwekuda nekuisa muhomwe, bhuku kana kune imwe nzvimbo. Zuva reValentine's Day rinova nguva huru yekucherechedza, nokuti nhasi zuva rega rega munhu wese achapa mumwe mumwe mimwe makadhi ekukwazisa akafanana nemwoyo uye kunyara anonyatsokwanisa kubata nguva. Iwe unogona kukumbira shamwari kuti ubatsirwe: regai iye abvunze murume pamusoro pevamwe tsitsi. Uye kana iwe uchitaura mune imwe kambani, zvingava nyore nyore kuziva kuburikidza nokutaura neshamwari yake yepamusoro.