Rudo - unoimbwa nevanyori. Chinhu chako chepamusoro chave chichiedzwa kwemazana emakore nevanopinda mafirosofi. Nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzakagadzirira kukurudzira zvakadzama zvekusaziva uye kuparadzanisa pfungwa pasi pekroscope, kungovhura unhu hwako. Mumwe munhu anofunga kuti iwe uri chipo chekudenga, mumwe munhu anokudana iwe uri, kune mumwe munhu iwe uri chirwere, asi kune mumwe munhu wausingavepo.
Asi ngatiregei mafirosofi ezvino, ngatidzokere kunyika inotadza, uye edza kunzwisisa chii - rudo, uye kuti rwunozviratidza sei.
Nzira yekunzwisisa - inoda, kana tsika chete?
Kazhinji unogona kunzwa kuti nekufamba kwenguva, chero, kunyange hukama hunoshushikana hunokanganisa ruzivo rwavo, uye rudo runopera zvishoma nezvishoma, runosiya, pane zvakanakisisa, rudo nekuremekedzana, uye pane zvakanyanya kungoita tsika yekuve pamwe chete. Rational grain in this statement, of course, is, but, maybe, it's very categorical. Zvechokwadi, mushure memakore akawanda apedza pamwe chete zvakaoma kutarisira kubva paukama hwechimwechete chekutsvaira sezvakaitwa mumwedzi yekutanga yekuzivana. Munhu anoshandiswa kuzvinhu zvose, zvose zvakanaka uye zvakaipa, uye anorasikirwa nehutano hwekunzwa, izvo zvakapoteredza musoro pakutanga kwebhuku (nenzira, kana tikataura pamusoro pehupenyu hwemunhu, pane zvinodhaka zve oxytocin, chinhu chinokonzera rudo, uye chinotarisirwa mafungiro akanaka). Asi makore haasi nguva dzose kuparadza rudo. Kazhinji vanovashandura kuva imwe yemhando: uye kubva murudo rwechidanana rwepfungwa manzwiro akadzama chaiwo, kunyange zvazvo asina kujeka zvakadaro, asi anokwanisa kupisa upenyu hwedu nemushuturo wedu kwemakore akawanda, anokura.
Iyi manzwiro akaoma kuvhiringidza netsika yacho, asi chiitiko chezvinhu zvezuva nezuva kana kuora mwoyo kwenguva refu zvinogona kusimudzira kusava nechokwadi pamusoro pechiri chechokwadi. Kuti unzwisise kana iri rudo, ingofungidzira kuti iwe unonzwa sei kana iwe wakambomuka uye ukawana kuti uyo akafamba newe kuburikidza nehupenyu akaparara nokusingaperi. Kana mhinduro yacho - zvakanaka, tenda Mwari, zvinoratidzika sezvakazvarwa patsva, zvichida iwe unenge wakabatana nechimwe chinhu chisinganyanyi kuita nerudo. Zvisinei, zviri nani kuti usasvike pakupisa, asi kushanyira imwe nyanzvi yezvepfungwa-zvichida kwete zvose zvakarashika.
Nzira yekuziva sei kuti iyi ichokwadi rudo?
Kumusoro kwaiva mubvunzo wevakaroorana "vane ruzivo", asi mubvunzo wemhando yemanzwiro akange apera, dzimwe nguva anoshanyira avo vane ukama hwavo huchangobva kutanga. Muchiitiko ichi, iyi inongova foni inotyisa - sezvo kusava nechokwadi kwakadaro kusinganzwisisiki muhukama panguva yekutanga. Kungova nguva yerudo rukuru harusiye nguva yekuzvifarira. Kunyange zvakadaro, zvinogoneka uye sarudzo yakadaro iyo, kana iwe uchiwedzera kuziva munhu, paunotanga kumuda. Imwe nzira kana imwe, zvakakosha kumirira kuwedzerwa mberi kwezviitiko, uye kana kusava nechokwadi kuchawedzera, zvichida, haisi iye anodiwa.