Sei munhu asingadi kuroorwa nemudzimai wevakadzi?

Iye zvino ndiyo nguva apo vanhu vanofunga kuti rusununguko runokosha, uye rudo harusi. Nokudaro, vanhu vakawanda vanogara mumhuri, sezvo inowanzoreva kushamwaridzana. Vanoratidzika kunge vari pamwe chete, asi zvinoita sokuti, uye munhu wose akasununguka. Yakaneta-yakaputsika, usapinda kuhofisi yekunyora, ita kurambana. Sezvo kana, pakaputsika nemunhu waunoda, chinhu chakanyanya kuoma ndechokuenda kuhofisi yekunyora kwechiratidzo chokurambana.

Kazhinji mukadzi anopinda mumba, nekuti anoda, asi haazive kuti angaroora sei (mupfungwa, nemaitiro, nemuchato uye kubhabhatidzwa). Anotarisira kuti murume ave akajaira kwaari achada kuita hukama hwepamutemo. Uye tariro yake inotsigirwa nekuti dzimwe nguva vamwe varume vanoita izvozvo. Asi zvinoitika zvisingawanzoitiki, nokuti pfungwa yemukati wepamutemo haisi inokwezva kune vanhu vose.

Kana, zvichida, zvichange zvakarurama kutaura kuti kune vakawanda iyo yose inofadza, asi zviri nani kwete pano uye ikozvino, asi kune imwe nzvimbo uye gare gare. Sei uchifanira kupedza uhu hwenyu, makore aya endarama, pane imba inonyangadza: mabhoti, diapers, kukakavadzana nemudzimai wenyu, kuchema mwana, kusava nemari uye kusiya naamai vamwene vako munyika? Kana zvakanyanya kufadza "kungorarama": hauna vana, hapana matambudziko. Mukadzi waunoda-pano ari, pamunwe wako, akanaka uye anobatsira (achiri kutarisira tamputi mupasipoti yake uye anoedza kuratidza kuti ndiye chaanoda), hapana chido chevana, vamwene vake, zvakare. Dzimwe nguva murume anobvumirana nevana kana kubatana kwave kuchibudirira: kungochengeta zvinyorwa zve quo. Izvo zvose nokuti varume vazhinji, kupinda mune izvo zvinonzi kuroorwa kwehurumende, havadi kuroorana zvachose. Uye nei? Vane sarudzo (pasina kana yakadhura) yakazara, iyo inosanganisira mabasa ehutano.

Sei munhu asingadi kuroorwa nemudzimai wevakadzi?

Asi nei vasikana vabvumirana neizvi? Ndinonyatsoda kuonekwa kune umwe neumwe uye ini ndoga nhasi uye ndakasununguka? Zvingava zviri nani kufunga kuti murume uyu, apinda mumubatanidzwa wemakore makumi maviri nemashanu, achapedzisa makore ake ari gumi, achizova muyanzvi akanaka uye munhu akazvimiririra, iye achada kuchinja hupenyu hwake, achikanda mashiriki akare akatakurwa uye aimbova, podnadoevshuyu madzimadzi. Uye heino ari, wechidiki, akanaka, anozvigadzirira, nemotokari yaakatengwa kuchengetedza, nekuda kwekubhadhara mari, inotarisa kutsvaga mhandara, uye yekare yekuti "mudzimai wehurumende" inoramba ichinge - ichirira mitsipa yake, ichichema mumutsago uye ichibvunza: nei murume asingadi kumuroora, mukadzi akadaro akazvipira?

Nokudaro, haadi kuti ave mudzimai weshamwari. Uye muna 35 haisi yekutanga kuchena, achawana zviri nani, uye kuda ... Zvakanaka, zvakanaka, rudo rwakapfuura ...

Izvi zvinoreva, kutaura chete, uyo anogara naye haadi kuwanana, nokuti iye atova nezvose izvo zvino musikana anogona kumupa iye mushure mechato, uye zvimwe zvishoma: kodzero yekusimuka ndokubva paanenge achinetseka kana kuti akazoita chimwe chinhu chiri nani.

Chii chingaita kana murume asingadi kuroora, asi anotsigira "kuroorana kwevanhu"? Zvinenge zviri nani kukupa zano rakanaka kuti udzorere muromo wako zvakare uye usarudze kuti chii chaanoda: kuroorana kana "rusununguko." Muchiitiko chekutanga - kune mararamiro ehurumende, inodzivirira kodzero dzemunhu chero upi zvake, kusanganisira vana vanogona kuitika, uye, saka, izvo, musikana anobvumirana kufunga nezvechirevo. Muchipiri - iye atova akasununguka. Nei uchifanira kuchinja chero chii?

Pane zvikonzero zvakawanda nei murume asingadi kuroorwa nemudzimaikadzi, asi chinhu chikuru, zvichida, ndechokuti haadi kuchinja chero chinhu.