Unoziva sei kana iwe uchida mukomana kana murume? Uyu mubvunzo unowanzowanikwa muhafu yakanaka yevanhu, uye hapana chinhu chisingazivikanwi kana chinoshamisa mukati maro. Mushure mezvose, zvakakosha sei kunzwisisa kuti munhu anokuda, kuziva kuti murume kana mukomana ari akatendeka, uye kwete kungokushandisa iwe. Uye kuti ungazviita sei, kuti unzwisise sei kuti munhu anokuda, kana asingatauri nezvazvo pachake? Kutambudza mudiwa wako nemibvunzo yakadai se "Ndiudze, unondida here?" Kana kuronga kuti aongorore? Zvechokwadi, hapana chinodiwa, munhu anofanira kutarisa mufambiro, kwete mazwi, vazhinji vanogona kutaura zvakanaka, izvo zvisati zvaitika nezvezviito zvavo.
Unonzwisisa sei kuti munhu anokuda?
Zviratidzo zvinotaurira kana munhu achikuda iwe kana kwete, uwandu, hezvino zvimwe zvezvimwe zvacho:
- Murume ane rudo haangaregi kutsamwa kweanoda wake, achitaura zvisingatauriki kuti shamwari yake "chimiro chichava nani."
- Kana munhu achida, ipapo iye achatora rutivi rwako munharo, kunyange iwe uri kukanganisa. Uye achaita zvose zvaanogona kuti asakutsamwisa iwe.
- Iwe hausi kuzonzwa kubva kwaari zvikonzero sokuti "Handina mari, saka handizokurumbidze pamusi wako wekuzvarwa." Kunyangwe ari kunyanya kudzvinyirira mune zvemari, achawana nzira yekufadza vadikani vake.
- Ndeupi munhu ane rudo achasarudza: mushandirapamwe newe kumabhaisikopo efirimu pamusoro pezvinhu zvauna nzeve pamusoro pake kana kutarisa mutambo webhola neshamwari dzako? Ndizvozvo, achakutora kuenda kumitambo, zvisinei kuti ane ruzivo rwakadini kubva pameso aEdwin Cullen pahwindo.
- Wakave wakanyanyisa here muchando nemagetsi gonda? Anoisa maoko ako muhomwe yake uye anoisa magirafu ake uye anoita zvose kuita kuti mudikanwi wako afare.
- Wakarwara here kana kungoita zvakaipa? Darling achange aripo, achatarisa, achaedza kuita kuti kunyemwerera kunotyisa pachiso chake. Une dambudziko here? Haazoti: "Unoziva, ndine basa rakawanda, ini ndichataura gare gare," asi ini chokwadi ndichateerera ndoedza kubatsira.
- Haana hanya nekutengesa kwei jean mumusika wezvokugadzira kana muchitoro chechirongwa uri kwauri. Iwe uri chaizvo-zvikuru kwaari. Asi kana uyo anodikanwa achida kuzvitengera chimwe chinhu chezita-zita, achawana nzira yokuti ave nemukana wakadaro.
- Murume ane rudo anogona kumirira ukama hwepedyo hwepedyo kwenguva yakareba, uye mushure mokuwana kuwana muviri, haazogadziri shure mushure meusiku husiku huchishandiswa pamwechete. Hungu, uye paunenge uchiita rudo, panzvimbo yake yekutanga ichava iwe unofarira.
- Haazozvibvumi kuti aparare kwekanguva pasina tsanangudzo, nokuti haagoni kukubvumira kuti uzvidye mwoyo.
- Maonero ako anokosha kwaari, haazoti "iwe haunzwisisi chinhu, ndatofunga zvose."
- Munhu ane rudo achaedza kuita kuti mudiwa wake ave anonakidza sezvaanogona. Kwaari hapana chinonyadzisa mukubatsira nekutya kana iwe wakaneta kubasa.
- Ndiine mudzimai anodiwa, hazvisi kunyadzisa kuudza shamwari, hama uye vashandi, kuenda kune zvimwe zviitiko. Asi usatarisira kuonekwa kwepfungwa dzemanzwiro, munhu ane rudo haazofungi nezvenzira iyi yekunyengedza, tsitsi dzake dzose nerudo iye achaponesa kwenguva yakashandiswa iwe oga newe.
- Munhu ane rudo achaedza kudzivisa kupopotedzana nenzira dzose, achabvumirana newe mune zvose, nokuda kwake hazvisi zvakaipa kukudana iwe musoro wemhuri. Ndeupi musiyano, chinhu chikuru ndechekuti iwe, pfuma yake, wava pedyo.
- Wakabvumirana nezuva here, uye uri kumirira nguva yake yakaputsika here? Kana kune izvozvo hapana chikonzero chakakomba chimiro chakadaro chinotaura pamusoro pokusaremekedza uye kuchida samoutverditsja pamutengo wekadzi uyo murume ane rudo haazombobvumi. Pane kudaro, inouya awa imwe yapfuura uye imira pasi pewindo rako, ichimirira kuti uchinje kwechishanu panguva inotevera.
- Kana murume achida mukadzi, achada vana kubva kwaari. Uye kana uyo anodikamwa ane vana kubva kumuchato wokutanga, iye achazovada navo.
Muzhinji, kana munhu achida, iwe haugone kubatsira kunze kwekunzwa, zvinoratidzika nenzira yaanotarisa kwauri, kuti anotaura sei. Teerera pazvinhu zviduku, iwe unogona kuzvifananidza kuva murudo, asi rudo harusi kushanda.