Vanhu vose vanoda kuwirirana uye mhuri inofara. Asi vamwe vanhu chete vanogona kuzviona izvi mukuita. Kuti uve neukama hwechokwadi uye hwekuvimba, unoda kuona kusiyana pakati pepfungwa ye rudo, psychology yehukama uye psychology ye zvepabonde, uye kukwanisa kuyananisa unyanzvi zvose zvitatu muhukama hwako.
Kubva pakuona kwepfungwa, rudo runoreva hukama hwakasununguka hunobva pakuvimbana pamwe nekufara pamwe. Mukufunga kwepfungwa, pfungwa ye rudo inosanganisira zvitatu:
- Kuzvipira. Rudo rwechimiro. Zvinoreva kuzvipira kwekugadzirisa matambudziko. Izvi zvinoenderana nekuremekedza manzwiro nemafungiro evanodikanwa, unyanzvi hwekufunga uye unhu hwakanaka, simba rake nekuremekedza. Apo vanhu vanoda nemwoyo wose, mutsetse pakati pekuremekedzwa nekuyemura zvakabviswa. Kune mazwi omumwe wavo anoteerera, uye maonero evanodiwa anova maonero. Zvose zvisarudzo zvinotorwa pamwechete. Kuremekedza ndiko kuchengetedza kwekuvimbika uye kuvimba kune vakaroorana.
- Proximity. Chikamu chepfungwa che rudo ndecheukama hwepedyo, shungu dzehukama, kubatana. Rudo rune ukama hwepedyo neshamwari, zvichibva pane zvinangwa zvakafanana, maonero, zvido. Mukudanana, ushamwari hunogona kusvika pahupamhi hwayo mukuderedza kubatana uye ukama hwepedyo, apo munhu wega anova mukuru uye zvakasiyana. Uku kunzwira tsitsi uye mufaro kune vanodiwa, kufara kwezvinhu zvamunoona uye kunzwa chinhu chinonamatwa, unonzwa kunhuhwira uye kubata. Kubata kuchachinja mazwi, kuratidza manzwiro akavanzika kune vamwe. Muhukama husina hukama hakuna hukama hwepedyo hwakadaro, zvinokwanisika bedzi apo kune chikwata chepabonde kunze kwezvaunofarira.
- Passion. Chikamu chemuviri we rudo, icho chinovakirwa pamararamiro epabonde, kufara uye kukwezva. Kuda kwesimba rakadaro apo mudiwa ndiye chete anobva kugutsikana kwepabonde. Chinhu cherudo chinova chakanakisisa uye chinodikanwa, asi vamwe vasiri varo havasati vava kukwezva.
Zvose zvehupfungwa dze rudo dzakakosha zvakakosha pakuvaka nekuvandudza hukama. Kune misikanano yakasiyana yeavo vane maitiro emhando dzakasiyana dze rudo. Asi rudo chaiyo rudo runobatanidza zvinhu zvitatu zviri muhuwandu hwakaenzana.
Kuti uwane rudo rwechokwadi uye uikwanise kuzvisiyanisa kubva pakuwirwa murudo unoda kuziva psychology yehukama. Zviratidzo zvakasiyana zve rudo nerudo mune zvepfungwa:
- nokuti rudo ibonde rinokosha, nokuti rudo harusi chinhu chinokosha;
- mune rudo vanhu vanosvika kune mumwe nemumwe, kuti varege kunzwa kusurukirwa, murudo, nyika yezvokunamata
asingatungamiri nemudiwa; - mamiriro ekushingaira emudiwa anokwanisa chete muhupo hwechinhu chacho, murudo rufaro runopfuurira;
- Rudo chipo, rudo runowanikwa;
- Rudo rwakafanana nehupfungwa hwemwana, rudo nderwendo rwevakuru;
- mukuda rudo hakuna pfungwa, murudo - basa raro rinokosha;
- rudo - empties, rudo - kunozadza;
- nokuti rudo rwekunze kweunhu hunokosha, rudo chiratidzo chekuenda nenzira imwe.
Shandisa psychology yorudo kuvaka imba yakasimba.