Vakadzi kwemakore vave vachirwisana pamusoro pemubvunzo wekukwevera munhu pachavo. Pasinei nokuti kune vanhu mabhiriyoni matanhatu pasi pano, pakati pavo, dzimwe nguva, iyo inoda, iyo inofadza inogoneka, haina kuwira. Tichafunga nezvehurongwa hunotsanangura nzira yekukwevera munhu wezviroto zvake muupenyu hwake, achishandisa kufunga kwake.
Chikamu chekutanga: chinangwa chakajeka
Iwe usati wafunga mupfungwa, iwe unofanirwa kufungidzira kuti chii chinofanira kuva. Hapana anoziva iwe sewe iwe pachako unozviita. Funga, nemunhu upi waungararama? Ndeupi munhu unofanirwa kuita, kuitira kuti iwe usine zvikonzero zvekukakavara uye kusanzwisisana? Kana uine zvimwe zvaunofarira, ivowo vanofanira kutaridzirwa.
Nzira yakanakisisa yekunyora ruzivo ndeyokuita kuti zvive nyore kushanda nemangwana. Tora chigamba chemapuranga kana kuti uzarure mharidzo yemutauro, uye nyora zvinhu zvinotevera zveunogona kugoverana naye:
- Kuonekwa kwechitarisiko (zvikuru zvishoma, taura chete izvo zvinonyanya kukosha kwauri - somuenzaniso, kuti yakapfuura iwe, nezvimwewo).
- Rudzi rwehutano (choleric, blood, phlegmatic kana melancholic). Ihwo hutsanana hwakabatana hunobatsira vanhu kuti vataure zvakanaka uye vanonzwisisana.
- Unhu hunhu (huseve, rupo, mutsa, nezvimwe - zvose zvakakosha kwauri).
- Mienzaniso yekuzvivaraidza (inofanira kuwirirana neyako).
- Zvichienzanidza maitiro ekudhakwa, fodya nemimwe miitiro yakaipa.
Iye zvino unoona mufananidzo wakajeka wemunhu pamberi pako, uye kana iwe uchifunga nezvazvo, iwe unogona kufungidzira kuti inogona kuwanika.
Nhanho mbiri: nzira yekukwevera munhu akakodzera sei?
Saka, unoziva rudzi rwemunhu waunoda uye kunyatsofungidzira iwe unogona kusangana naye. Iye zvino chinhu chikuru ndicho chiito chinoshanda!
- Nyora pane zvekufambidzana nzvimbo uye utaure ikoko chete nevaya vanowirirana pazvinhu zvose nemafungiro ako pamusoro pomunhu akakodzera. Ramba vaya vakaratidza kuti hauna kukodzera.
- Shanyira kakawanda mumugwagwa, muzvitoro, nzvimbo dzevanhu, pamasangano, nezvimwe. Kubvumirana, zviri nyore kusvika pakuziva munhu kana vanhu vakakomberedza iwe, pane pane iwe uri kumba.
- Ita mapoka ane ushamwari, mazuva ekuberekwa uye mamwe mazororo - kazhinji iyi ndiyo nzira iyo vanhu vanogona kusangana nayo.
Chinhu chikuru ndechokuti tishandise mikana yose kuti tizive munhu akakodzera uye pakarepo toramba nzira dzakashata dzisina kukodzera pasina mumvuri wekuzvidemba.
Danho rechitatu: nzira yekukwevera sei munhu chaiye?
Kana uri munguva yechinhu chako chinotyisa iwe wakasangana nemumwe munhu anoratidzika somunhu akakodzera iwe, usakurumidza kufadza iye nemashoko aya. Chenjerera uye uchengetedze miganhu inonzwisisika.
- Varume nemasikirwo ndivo vanovhima, uye kuora kwako kunogona kukudzinga kure. Usakurumidza zvinhu.
- Edza kutaura zvakawanda pamusoro pake panguva yekunyora uye kushanyira: iye acharatidza kufarira kwako, uye iwe uchave wakakosha kudzidza zvakawanda pamusoro pake uye kuziva,
zvisinei kuti zvakakunakira iwe. - Usati iwe unotya kwazvo unoda mhuri nevana, pamatambo ekutanga unogona kutya munhu. Kana mubvunzo uyu wakaoma iwe - unobtrusively uone kuti unorevei neizvi.
- Usave wakabvumira, kukurukura nyore nyore uye kunyange nenzira yeutano pakutanga. Kukurukurirana kwakavimbika kunokubvumira kukurumidza kuwana munhu wacho.
- Iva akanaka pamusangano wega wega, utaure nezveunyanzvi hwako uye zvakakodzera - asi kwete kutumira mashoko, asi, sezvazvakanga zvakaita, "kune shoko."
Kuchengetedza kure, asi panguva imwe chete, kurongedza kufambidzana kunonakidza, iwe unonyorera nyore kutarisa kwemunhu iwe pachako uye kumuita iye kufarira. Chinhu chikuru ndechekusakundikana uye kufadza mumaziso ake!