Chii chaunoda kuti vanhu vanzwisise?

Maererano nehutano hwepfungwa, zvinenge zvese kukakavadzana, kusanzwisisana kunoitika, kunyanya nokuti mumwe nomumwe wedu anoreva zvakafanana mumashoko mamwechete. Uyezve, kunyange mitsara ye interlocutor isu tinonzwisisa nenzira yavo. Somugumisiro, nekuda kwekutaura kusina kutaurwa kwezvakave zvanzwiwa, kuverengera nezvakadaro, zvakaoma kwatiri kunzwisisa hama yedu, shamwari yebasa, zvakare, mudiwa uye mudikanwa. Kuitirana nharo pamusoro pemubvunzo wezvinofanira kuita, maitiro ekuzvibata, kuitira kuti vanhu vanzwisisane, zvakakosha kutaura kuti isu tinogona kunzwisisa mumwe nomumwe. Chinhu chikuru ndechokuda kuzviita.

Sei vanhu vasinganzwisisi?

Mubhuku rake "Men from Mars, Women from Venus", nyanzvi yezvepfungwa John Grey akafara kugovera mazano ake nevadzidzi vake nezvekukurukurirana nevakomana vakasiyana. Somuenzaniso, mudzimai achati kumurume wake: "Ungada kushambidza ndiro here?", Zvinoreva "Ndinoda kuti utange kushamba ndiro iyo pasina nguva", iye achanyarara achiti: "Hongu, zvirokwazvo, anodiwa, ndinokwanisa "uye zvose, zvicharamba zvichienderera mberi kuita bhizinesi ravo pachavo. Chii chatinowana semugumisiro? Mudzimai ane hasha, kukakavara uye murume asinganzwisisi chikonzero chekukanganiswa kwakadaro kwemudzimai. Mune mamwe mazwi, isu tose tinoda kudzidza kuti tingatsanangurire sei pfungwa dzedu, zvido, kuitira kuti zuva rizadzike nguva dzinofadza chete, uye kwete nemakakatanwa uye zvidzidzo zvemashoko.

Uye, kana iwe ukashandura ruzivo rweusoteri, ipapo kutaura hakubatsiri vanhu kunzwisisa mumwe nemumwe mumatambudziko iwayo, avo vane interlocutors vanotungamirirwa ne chakras dzakasiyana. Mune mamwe mazwi, aya maviri ane maitiro akasiyana ekuziva, uye kusanzwisisana kunoita zvakasiyana chakras zvakakwana zvakazara chakras.

Sei zvichikosha kuti vanhu vanzwisane?

Vanoti kana vanhu vose vari pasi pano vaigona kunzwisisana, saka hakuzove nehondo uye njodzi dzakasiyana-siyana dziri pasi pano. Achiziva mutauriri wake, isu hatiiti chete kuzivisa kwaari chimiro chitsva, asi zvakare zviri nani kuziva maonero ake enyika, zvido zvake, zvido zvake. Zvinonyanya kukosha kana pane kutaurirana pamwe chete mumhuri, saka kwete chete munhu wose anonzwa achifara, hupenyu hwake huri panzvimbo yakakwirira, asi anodawo kugoverana mafaro anofadza nenyika, kuchinatsiridza, kuisa chinyorwa chekutarisira uye mafungiro akanaka mumaitiro ezuva nezuva.

Vanhu vanonzwisisana sei?

Chokutanga uye chakakosha, zvinokosha kuti munhu adzidze nzira yekunyatsoronga mafungiro ake, asiwo kunzwa uye kuteerera zvinotaurwa nemumwe munhu. Mukuwedzera, hazvisi panzvimbo yekuziva zviri nani mumwe wako, kubvunza kuti: "Ndakanyatsonzwisisa: iwe unoreva kuti ...?". Hazvisi panzvimbo yekutora kufarira mune zvepfungwa yekukurukurirana nevakomana vakasiyana. Iyo bhuku rinotsanangurwa munyaya ino richave rakataurwa pamusoro pezvinyorwa zveJohn Grey "Varume vanobva kuMaris, Vakadzi veVenus", vane zvinyorwa zvekukurukurirana kwakarurama, zvose nevarume uye nevakadzi. Saka, munyori anotaura kuti angadzidza sei kunzwisisa mumwe nomumwe muhukama. Saka, tose tinotaura mitauro yakasiyana.

Vakadzi vanoda kuteerera vakanyarara, uye varume havanzwisisi izvi uye panzvimbo yekuti: "Iwe uri shamwari yakanaka kwazvo yaunobatisisa, pasinei nokuti yakaoma sei kwauri," vanobva vatanga kupa mhinduro kumamiriro ezvinhu iye zvino. Somugumisiro, mativi ose maviri haagutsikane nehurukuro. Pane nzira imwe chete yekubuda nayo: zvakakosha kunzwisisa kuti varume nevakadzi vanotaura zvakasiyana-siyana manzwiro avo - vasikana, kutanga kwezvose, vanotungamirirwa nemanzwiro, uye varume - nehuchenjeri. Uyezve, varume vazhinji havatauri pamusoro pezvavanosangana nazvo, vanova vanozvinyima, vanoenda murugare, nokudaro, vachifunga pamusoro peizvi kana iyo ruzivo uye zvakakosha kuti mukadzi afunge izvi apo iye akatendeka achangotanga kuchengeta mhiko yekunyarara.