Kushushikana tarenda uye rudzi rwekusika. Vanhu vanokurukurirana vanonakidza uye vane chivimbo, havasi kutya vatsva vanozivana uye kutaurirana kunonakidza. Pamberi pavo, mikova yose yakazaruka, inonyanya kutendwa kupfuura neyo yakavharwa yakanyarara. Kuwana vanhu vane unyanzvi hukuru hwokukurukurirana mukambani hakuzove kwakaoma, ivo nguva dzose vari pakati pekucherechedza uye kazhinji vanove vatungamiriri. Kugona kwavo kukurukurirana kunokwezva kune avo, sechikonzero, nguva dzose vane shamwari dzakawanda neshamwari.
Unyanzvi hwekukurukurirana uye unyanzvi hunobudirira muhuduku hwako uye kazhinji hunoenderana zvakananga kuti mwana anotanga kutaura sei pakutanga. Kukwanisa kutaura kunoenderana nemamiriro ezvinhu emwana, kubva kuvabereki vake nevanodiwa. Kazhinji, kana paine vana vakwegura mumhuri, mwana anowana mutauro wakafanana nevamwe.
Kazhinji kubudirira kwevanhu kunoenderana nehutano hwakanaka hwehutano hwavo. Somuenzaniso, pachikoro mudzidzi, asingazivi chidzidzo, anogona kutaura mudzidzisi zvinhu zvakawanda zvinonakidza, kunyange kana kwete pamusoro, asi pakupedzisira anowana kuongorora kwakanaka, uye mudzidzi akadzidza chidzidzo, asi haakwanisi kuitora nenzira yakaisvonaka kumudzidzisi, anotora bhora rakaderera .
Nzira yekukudziridza unyanzvi hwokukurukurirana
Kuti uve munhu anofambidzana naye, unofanira kutevera mazano anotevera:
- Usadzivisa kutaura. Kurukura kwose kwose: pakushanda pamwe chete nevamwe, muchivanze nevakidzani, sangana neshamwari. Kurukura nevana, vanhu vakuru, vakwegura. Vose vanogona kukupa chimwe chinhu chinobatsira. Vanhu vari mumakore vachakudzidzisa huchenjeri hwavo, uye vana vachabata nekutarisira kwavo uye kusava nehanya.
- Ita zvinonakidza kutaura. Dzidza kugadzirisa kukurukurirana kwako. Kana iwe uchinzwa kuti hurukuro inopinda mumugwagwa unofadza iwe - shandura musoro.
- Usave wakanyanyisa. Kana iwe uchida kuti vanhu vanoda kufambidzana newe, fadzwa. Usapindura mibvunzo mumagetsi. Kuoma kwemhinduro dzako kunoonekwa sekusada kutaura.
- Nokuda kwekuvandudzwa kwekutaurirana, shandisa gymnastics. Pane huwandu hwekudzidzira kwekuvandudza unyanzvi hwekukurukurirana. Semuenzaniso, mira pamberi pegirazi uye edza kuratidza manzwiro akasiyana-siyana pameso ako: kutya, mufaro, kushungurudzika, kusuruvara, nezvimwe. Iyi nzira inobatsira kudzora maonero emunharaunda yekukurukurirana nekuwedzera kuzvivimba.
Dzidza kutaura zvakanaka. Mukuda kuti iwe usatya uye usadzivisa, iwe unofanira kuva shamwari inofadza. Chii chinodiwa nokuda kweizvi?
- teerera zvakananga kumuvengi wako;
- Mushure mokunge mazadzisa mharidzo yechiratidzo chemukati wekutaurirana, ona zviitiko zvakanaka zvemaonero ake uye ugovaudza zvausingawirirani nazvo;
- tsanangura mafungiro ako pasina kukanganisa kana kunyadzisa vamwe;
- edza kutsvaga mune nharo chero ipi zvayo kugadzirisa mhinduro.
Iyi nzira dzinokurudzira kukura kwehutano hwekukurukura kuvanhu vakuru. Izvi zvakagadzirirwa mazano nemaitiro zvakajeka, asi zvinobudirira chaizvo. Pashure pekushanda kwavo mukuita, munhu anokwanisa kubudirira kubudirira munharaunda uye mubasa rake rebasa.
Mhando dzehutano hwekukurukura
Kukurukurirana kunosanganisira marudzi maviri:
- verbal;
- nonverbal.
Rudzi rwekutanga rune mazwi, mitsara, mitsara. Iyi ndiyo nzira yakajeka yekukurukurirana. Rudzi rwechipiri runosanganisira maziso uye zviratidzo. Mutauro wemuviri unogona kutaura zvakawanda kupfuura mazwi pachavo, saka zvakakosha kukudziridza kukwanisa kuratidza manzwiro uye manzwiro kuburikidza nemhando dzese dzekutaurirana kuitira kuti uvandudze unyanzvi hwekutaurirana. Nokuda kwekuvandudzika kwavo, basa rinorondedzerwa pamusoro apa negirazi harina kunaka.
Kukwana kweunyanzvi hwokukurukurirana kunogona kuitika mukati mehupenyu hwose. Zviri nani iwe unodzidza unyanzvi uhwu, iyo mikova yakawanda ichavhurwa pamberi pako. Ita chinangwa chekuva shamwari yako inofadza uye shingairira chinangwa ichi uye munguva pfupi iwe uchaona kuti denderedzwa yevako neshamwari yako yakawedzerwa sei, uye kuti hupenyu hwako hwakapinda sei muhuhu hutsva.