Kutsanangurwa kwemaonero panyaya dzehupenyu chiratidzo chehurumende, asi zvakakosha kuchinja nzira dzose dzekuchengetedza mibvunzo yekusingaperi uye chii chichaitika mumakore zana kana tikaratidza mafungiro e "zvisingaiti" kune zvinokosha zvehutano hwemhuri-kuberekwa nekurerwa kwevana. Chinyiko ichi mwana asina kufanira - kusarudzwa kwehutano hwemunhu kana musungo?
Childfree - ndiani uyu?
Vanafree vanhu vezera rakakura avo vanoziva vakasarudza kusava nevana nekuvaka hupenyu huchibva pane rusununguko rwomunhu oga. Kana iwe ukanyatsoronga kuti ndiani anomuberekera, iwe unofanirwa kunzwisisa kuti haaisi muvanhu vane hutano husingavapi mukana wekuzvara mwana kana avo vanovhiringidza kuberekwa kwemwana kwemakore akawanda nekuda kwezvikonzero zvikonzero. Childfree aita sarudzo - kuramba kuramba achiita zverinhi narinhi, dzimwe nguva kuratidzira chinzvimbo chavo, vachishandisa nzira dzakakura dzekudzivirira kubata pamuviri - kuita sterilization.
Childfree - mutsika wenguva kana kupotsa?
Kubudirira kwenharaunda kunobva pakuenderera kwemhuri. Chiitiko chakawana pamusoro pemakore chinowanzoendeswa kune vechidiki vaduku nemamwe maitiro ekupedzisira kune nyaya dzakadzidzwa. Kubereka uye kurera vana ndechimwe chekuda kwemunhu uye kukurudzirwa kwega backgammon kunoumbwa pamusana pemagariro evanhu. Nekuuya kwekuregererwa kwekusunungurwa, sangano rakati ritsva - fashoni yekushaya vana - yakaumbwa. Kune vanhu vazhinji vanokanganisa pfungwa, asi zvakakosha kunzwisisa zvikonzero zvechigaro ichi, kugovana dambudziko muzvikamu zviviri:
- hukama hwehutano - kusagadzikana kwemari inobatanidza nekuberekwa nekurerwa kwevana;
- chikonzero chepfungwa - chirwere chepfungwa, kutamiswa muhuduku, pamusana pekusaziva kwakagadzira chishuvo chekusabereka mwana.
Psychology chayldfri
Vashandi veshoko rakadaro vanoisa mberi nharo uye nharo dzokuti mwana asingabhadhari ndeyezvakanaka uye hunhu hunokosha hwomunhu mumwe nomumwe hunofanira kunge huri panzvimbo yekutanga. Kunyangadza basa kana chimiro nekuda kwomwana ibenzi uye isina kururama, uye kuti kuchengetwa kwewakaberekerwa hakufaniri kuparadza nguva nemari. Kana pazera remucheche munhu anenge asina muviri anotaura chimiro chakadaro-anotya kutarisira, kusava nehupenyu hwehupenyu, izvo zvakajairika. Zvakasiyana zvakananga hupenyu hwehupenyu hwe "mwana asina kufanira" kubva pamiromo, yakabatanidzwa munzanga, mari yakachengeteka, vanhu vakakura.
Philosophy of Childfree
Achiratidza hupenyu hwake pakutanga, pfungwa dzevana vasingabhadharwi dzinotevera mitemo yevanhu uye dzinogutsa zvido zveumwe chete, inovaka hukama pamitemo ye rudo rusununguko uye kufadza zvepabonde. Munyika yanhasi, mapoka ose e "kufunga zvakafanana" childfrey akaumbwa pachena, asi chiitiko ichocho chinowanzoonekwa sechinhu chakashata chevanhu, kuparara kwemweya.
Childfree uye Childhead - chii chakasiyana?
Pane kusiyana kune rudzi rwe teafree uye mwana wevana. Kana wekutanga wavo achizvidzivirira achibata vana, boka rechipiri nderokuvengwa nevanovenga vana, kwete avo chete vasina kuberekwa, asi mamwe ose, ayo, anowanikwa, ari pachena. Vanoratidzira maitiro anopikisa pamusoro pevakadzi vane pamuviri, vanozvibvumira kunyomba kuna vanaamai nevana munzvimbo dzinowanikwa vanhu uye mitambo yeInternet. Vakuru vane utsinye ndivo vana vane shungu dzevana, vachida kurapwa kwakakwana kubva kune vanyori.
Childfree - zvinotsigira uye zvinotyisa
Kudana zvinyorwa zvevana vasina vana, tinogona kutaura kuti kuberekwa nekurerwa kwevana zvinotora makore akawanda ehupenyu. Kuvaka basa kumudzimai akasarudza kusava amai nyore nyore. Mari inoshandiswa pamasimba evanhu yakaderedzwa kusvika kudiki, chimiro hachideredzisi, pane nguva yekuzorora zvakakwana, unogona kusunungura nguva nemari yakasununguka pakuda. Mumwe murume akadaro anotaura nharo yake pamusoro pokusava nemhosva uye mutoro mupfungwa. Mushure mokuteerera nharo dzakadaro, mumwe anogonawo kutaura zita rekusawirirana kwakakosha - kuipa kwemwana asina mwana:
- hupenyu hunorasikirwa nemanzwiro ayo: makore mazhinji emusana wekusagadzikana anobvisa zvinokurudzira kuti zvibudirire;
- mwana ndiye chimiro chechisikigo chemhuri, nekuda kwezvaanoda, vanhu vakuru vanogona kuenda kuyananisi, kuti vasiye tsika. Munhu muduku anogona kupa chidzidzo kumunhu mukuru, achiziva nyika muchiedza chakasiyana naye, kuva chitubu che rudo rwechokwadi nekuzvikudza;
- mubereki, kurera mwana, anotarisira kuchengetedzwa muhuchembera kana kurwara, apo shamwari neshamwari dzichava nehanya navo.
Sei munhu wose achivenga vana vasina vana?
Kugamuchira nekunyatsonzwisisa nzvimbo ye "vanozvidza" kune vamwe vanhu inova dambudziko. Kufungisisa kwechisimba chayldfri kunokonzera vanhu vazhinji kusateerera kwakashata uye haisi chinangwa pano-kurarama hupenyu pasina kuva nevana, asi mukushingaira kuparadzira uye kusekwa kwe nheyo dzemhuri nekuberekwa, amai vevakadzi. Childfrey Hunter akafananidza nzira yekuzvarwa yekuberekwa nekurerwa kwevana kumhuka yakaderera yemhuka, iyo vanhu vakaderera vakachenjera vanogona. Mitsara yakadaro kune vazhinji inoita unzenza uye inokonzera kukanganisa kwakakwana kuita.
How to become chillyfri?
Kushanda kushambadzira musangano chayldfri - mhando yemafambisi inopa munhu chisarudzo chekurasa mararamiro ehupenyu nesimba rakazara, yakabuda mumakore makumi manomwe ekupedzisira kwezana remakore rapfuura. Kutaura kuti vanhu, kunyatsovatungamirira mararamiro asina vana vasati vadaro nguva-hazvibviri, asi kuparidzira kwemashoko ehupenyu hwe teafrey kwakanga kusina kururama. Muvambi wesangano racho ndiMargaret Sanger - wekutanga wezano pamusoro pekuberekwa kwekuzvarwa.
Childfree - Orthodoxy
Mafungiro makuru uye zvinyorwa zve Childfree zvinopesana nemitemo yose yechiKristu. Kuberekwa kwevana ndicho chikonzero chezvitendero zvose, kunze kwevanhu vanhu vakatsaurira upenyu hwavo kuna Mwari. Mhuri muOrthodoxy inobva pakunzwisisa pamwe nekushivirira, kuzvipira zvavanoda - kubereka vana, munhu anosiya mudyi wenhaka panyika uyo achazopa minyengetero.
Childfrey pakati pevanhu vanozivikanwa
Wekutanga kudanwa chillyfd yakaonekwa kuHollywood. Mifananidzo yevanhu vakabudirira vakabudirira vasina vana, vakaumbwa mumubatanidzwa wemasangano maonero ekuzadzikisa kuburikidza nekusiya mwana zviri nyore. Mutsara wechifananidzo kuti haazovi mubereki, anokurudzira kutevera muenzaniso wakadaro. Kunyengedzwa kweunhu hunofadza kunovhiringidza godo rehupi, hunoita chido chekuita kubudirira kunze kwekutakura kwevana.
- Jennifer Aniston - Childfree. Nyeredzi yenyaya dzakanzi "Shamwari" pazera remakore makumi maviri nemaviri haine vana uye haadi kuva navo, vanoti mukadzi akakwana haafaniri kufunga nezvecheche, makore gumi nemasere. Panyaya yevatapi venhau pamusoro pomufananidzo wake, uyo anopfuura kamwechete anonzi kubata kumusikana, anogadzirisa nekunyorera kwakasimba.
- Renee Zellweger - Childfree. Kazhinji inotaura mubvunzurudzo nevhidhiyo kuti hutano hwemwana hunenge huri kwaari, uye kuberekwa pachako iuranda. Kugara navanamuna kumusikiriti haisi dambudziko, asi haana nguva yekusununguka vana vake.
- Bozena Rynska - Childfree. Pamusoro pekutaura kusina kunaka kweshumbakadzi yepanyika pamusoro pevana, vatapi venhau vanowanzowedzera kufunga. Aive wekufunga kuti vana vanogona kubudirira uye kuva dambudziko.
- Zemfira haana mwana. Muimbi wacho akadzokorora zvakare kuti chinangwa chikuru chehupenyu chinotarisa kugadzirwa, unoziva kuti zvepabonde nemari zvakakosha kwaari, uye mhuri dzepamusoro hadzisi yake. Pane ruzivo runobatsira vana kubva kunherera.
Jennifer Aniston
René Zellweger
Bozena Rynska
Zemfira
Mutsara unoti "muenzaniso wakaipa unopararira" unoshanda kusvikira nhasi. Mune chokwadi chokuti munhu anosarudza kurarama asina mwana, mamwe makore mashomanana angaita kuti dutu rehasha rive, asi iye zvino mararamiro aya muenzaniso kune vamwe. Kuchinja kuitika kwezviitiko kunogona kusvika kune imwe nguva, ipapo pachava nokuzvidemba pamusoro pemakore asingaverengwi eupenyu, uye ndiani anoziva, zvichida mumakore 60-70 vanhu vanoziva kuti vakanganisa - vakapedza nguva pavari ivo vadiwa, uye avo vanoda kupinda mukati mavo - kwete.