Kuongororwa, kana Spielberg's questionnaire, inokubvumira kuti uone kamwechete mazinga ekutya - unhu uye unhu hwako. Ichi chivako chemaitiro chinoita kuti chikwanise kushandiswa kubudirira kuvanhu vakuru vemazera akasiyana, uye kunze kwezvo, nzira iyi yakasiyana neyokuti inotarisa kushushikana sehutano hweunhu pachako. Chiyero chekuona huwandu hwekuzvidya mwoyo kwakakosha kuenda kumunhu wese anoda kunzwa zviri nani ivo pachavo. Ichi chiratidzo chinonyanya kusanganisa maonero echokwadi, asiwo mufambiro wemunhu. Ndiyo kuongorora kwakakodzera kwechiito ichi chichaita kuti zvikwanisike kubudirira muhupenyu hupenyu uye ichasvinudza maziso ako kune zvimwe zvinhu zvehutano.
Chiyero chekucherechedza huwandu hwekuzvidya mwoyo ndechekugara
Kana ukasarudza kuongorora miviri yepfungwa nokuda kwekuzvidya mwoyo, ziva kuti iwe uchagashira semugumisiro chiratidzo chinoratidza chimiro chako zvakanyanya kudarika zvingaita kubva pakutanga. Kuzvidya mwoyo kunokonzera kusagadzikana kwekushushikana, kunotarisa huwandu hwezvinetso zvaunofunga kuti hazvina ngozi. Kunyanya kuzvidya mwoyo nguva dzose "kuchashanda" paunoona zvimwe zviratidzo, zvinomiririra mukunzwisisa kwako kutyisidzira. Mamiriro ezvinhu anokonzera kushungurudza anoratidza rutivi rwepfungwa rwemubvunzo, rudzi rwemhinduro runomuka mukupindura mamiriro ezvinhu anotyisa.
Kuyera kwetsanangudzo yekuzvidya mwoyo kuchakubatsira iwe kunzwisisa kana iwe uri munhu ane hanya zvikuru kana munhu anozvidya mwoyo. Iyo yakakwirira ichi chiratidzo, pane zvakawanda zvakasiyana-siyana mamiriro ezvinhu iwe unenge uchida kuongororwa semakakosha. Kana chiratidzo chacho chakakwirira, munhu angava nehutano hwakasiyana-siyana hwekutya nenguva.
Muedzo wehutano hwekuzvidya mwoyo: chiyero chemamiriro ekufunganya (CT)
Chiyero chinofanira kuitwa munzvimbo yakanyarara, uye inofanira kupindurwa sekuno. Nguva yakareba kufunga mberi mhinduro yacho isingakurudzirwi - sekutonga mhinduro yekutanga yakauya mupfungwa dzako inozove yechokwadi. Mumatafura ari pasi apa unogona kuona nekubvunza mibvunzo, uye mhinduro, uye zvinowedzera kwavari.
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Chiyero chekuona kushungurudzika: chiyero chekuzvidya mwoyo (LT)
Kuenderera mberi kwechiyero kunobatsira kuongorora huwandu hwenyama. Panguva ino iwe haufaniri kuongorora kwete zvishoma zvishoma, asi iwe unofambisa sei. Usafunga nezvemibvunzo: hapana mhinduro dzakarurama uye dzisina kururama. Zvakakosha kungopindura zvinhu zvose nekuvimbika sezvinobvira.
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Kuongororwa kwekutambudzika - kushandiswa kwemigumisiro
Teerera kutarira tafura. Zvinotarisirwa kuverenga mavhareji eboka boka re CT uye RT, uye wozodzienzanisa nekuzvichenesa. Zvose zvinoratidzirwa zvezvikamu zvese zvinogona kubva kubva pamakumi maviri kusvika kumakumi mapfumbamwe, uye kukwirira kwekupedzisira-kumwe, kunowedzera kushungurudzika kwehutano, zvichienderana. Iwe unogona kutarisa pane zviratidzo izvi:
- kusvika pamapfumbamwe - kutambudzika kwakadzika (zvakakosha kumutsa basa, kusimbisa pfungwa
zvikamu zvezviitiko, kuratidza manzwiro, kuedza kunzwira urombo uye kunzwisisa kwakadzika kwevanoda); - 31-44 nharo - kusazvidzora kunetseka (chiyero chepamusoro, uye sekutonga, kururamisa hakudi kudiwa, zvisinei, chiremba wepfungwa, mukubvunzurudza wega, anogona kuziva zvimwe zvinhu zvinokosha);
- 45 uye dzimwe pfungwa - kunyanya kunetseka (zvakakosha kushanda pakuzviremekedza, kuvaka pfungwa yekuzvivimba, kubudirira, kuumba pfungwa yekuchengeteka).
Pakuguma kwekufunganya kwevanhu vakuru, munhu haasi kungowana ruzivo rwakakwana pamusoro pemamiriro ake chaiwo uye nguva pfupi, asiwo anoziva kuti ndeapi nzira yaanofanira kufamba nayo kuti awane huwandu hunobudirira uye kugutsikana.