Irony of fate: sei Carnegie, Carr, Spock nevamwe vakadzidziswa "kurarama zvakanaka", asi havana kukunda!

Nhasi, chishuwo chisina kumboitika chiri kuchengetwa kwemabhuku uye kudzidzisa pakukura kwevanhu uye kuzvidzivirira. Mazana emudzimai "vadzidzisi" vimbiso vanobatsira mukuwana chinangwa chehupenyu, vachigadzira chimiro chakanaka, kuponesa muchato nekuwana mamiriyoni ekutanga.

Asi zvakakosha here, kutadza kutenda mune simba ravo pachako, kutenga mabhuku avo uye madhiki uye kupa mari yekupedzisira yekutaurirana pachavo kuti vatende mune humwe humwe hunochinja? Mune shoko, inguva yekuzarura mapepa uye kuyeuka izvozvi zvidhori zvevanhu zvakadzidzisa "mararamiro okurarama zvakanaka", asi ivo pachavo vaisagona kurarama nazvo!

Munyori webhuku rinonzi "Nzira yekuchengetedza sei imba" Derek Medina akauraya mudzimai wake ndokuisa mufananidzo mu Facebook!

Mune izvi hazvibviri kutenda, asi zvinosvika pakuti munhu ane mazano aitenda nezviuru zvevadzidzi iye pachake haana kukwanisa kuchengetedza imba yake. Derek kakawanda akatyisidzira mudzimai wake - Jennifer Alfonso achizvidza, kana achingotya kumusiya. Mune zvakaipa-fated August wegore ra2013 zvakaitika. Pakarepo mushure mekuponda, munyori we-bestseller akatora mudzimai wake akafa kune foni yake, mushure mezvo akaisa chinyorwa mumusangano webhusaiti nechinasa:

"Ndinoenda kujeri kana kuti ndiurawe nokuda kwekuuraya mudzimai wangu. Ndinokudai mose, ndichakusiyai. Zvichengete iwe woona nyaya pamusoro pangu ... "

Nenzira, bhuku rake rinogona kutengwa nhasi!

Dale Carnegie akafa vose voga

"Kukunda sei shamwari uye kutungamirira vanhu", "Ungadzivisa sei kunetseka uye utange kurarama", "Kuti unakidzwe noupenyu uye unakidzwe nebasa" - mabhuku aya atova maitiro ekare emhando iyi, uye hatizotendi kuti hauna kubata mumaoko ako chimwe chazvo.

Saka, iwe waiziva here kuti kana bhuku rine chitsauko "7 rinotonga hupenyu hwemhuri hunofadza" rakanga richigadzirirwa kubudiswa, akafamba nokurambana kwake kokutanga, iyo, nokuda kwezvikonzero pachena, yakachengetwa chakavanzika? Akakundikana kuchengetedza mari yake - vakatorwa nemukadzi wake wechipiri. Uye haana kukwanisa kukunda shamwari kana. Zvinonyatsozivikanwa kuti Dale Carnegie akatambura nechirwere cheHodgkin, kunyange zvazvo kune runyerekupe kuti akazviuraya. Mushure mekufa munaNovember 1955 mune pepanhau rinonzi "New York Times" rakaonekwa sangano, iro rakataura pamusoro pevanhu mazana zviuru mazana mashanu vakabatsirwa nemapoka ehurukuro-anokurudzira. Asi, hongu, hakuna munhu aida kuuya kumhemberero yekuparara - Carnegie akavigwa chete nepedyo.

Maria Montessori akapa mwanakomana wake kumera mumhuri yekumaruwa

Nhasi, iyo "Montessori system" ndiyo imwe yenzira ina dzokudzidzisa dzakagamuchirwa munyika yose, uye mamiriyoni evamadzi vanoshandisa zuva nezuva mukurerwa kwevana vavo. Asi, zvinoshanduka, muhupenyu hwemudzimai uyu akakodzerwa, zvakare, pane mapeji aasingafungi. Saka, pazera remakore makumi maviri nemana, Maria akave nemimba nemumwe wake, Dr. Giuseppe Montesano. Chirevo "maoko nemoyo" saka haana kugamuchira, uye panzvimbo yaro - chibvumirano chemukati nekuda kwezvesayenzi uye zvemagariro evanhu kuti zvive nehukama hwepamweya (nhasi huchazonzi imba yevakaroorana). Kutya kuwa kwezita, Maria akapa mukomana Mario kuti adzidzise mune imwe yemhuri yekumaruwa, kwaakauya nekushanyira kwevhiki. Zvinonyatsozivikanwa kuti apo Mario akakwidziridzwa, akamutora kwaari ndokumuita shamwari. Mwanakomana wechokwadi, Montessori akamuziva asati ava kufa, achishevedza mukomana muzukuru kana mwana akarerwa.

Munyori webhuku rinonzi "Child and Care for Him" ​​Benjamin Spock aisagona kuwana mutauro wakafanana nevana vake!

Iwe unoti, shoemaker pasina bhoti? Asi chaizvoizvo, zvakangoita nenzira iyo yakaitika. Zvinonyatsozivikanwa kuti mumwaka wechando muna 1998 wechipiri wechirwere chevana akakurumidza kutsvaga mari yekurapa kwake. Zvakanga zvakakodzera kuunganidza anenge zviuru gumi nezviviri, izvo zvakazoita sechikwereti chisingaverengeki chemhuri. Mai Morgan vakatoparidzira mupepanhau rokuti "Times", pamwe nekukumbira: "Kubatsira kubhadhara kurapwa kwachiremba. Aitarisira hupenyu hwake hwose nokuda kwevana vako! ". Zvadaro vaverengi vakangwarira kumuratidza mukadzi kuti ane vanakomana vanogona kumuchengeta. Ichokwadi kuti Maria akanga atovabvunza, asi mukuru Michael, mushandi weYunivhesiti yeChicago uye junior John - muridzi wekambani yekuvaka muLos Angeles, akanyatsoramba, achimupa kuti ape baba vake kumusha wakwegura, kuitira kuti apiwe kutarisirwa nehurumende!

Allen Carr akafa nemukenza wemapapu

Allen Carr ndiye munyori wemabhuku akazvitsaurirwa kusunungurwa kwekudhakwa kwewaini, kuwedzera zvakanyanya uye zvakasiyana-siyana zvebibias. Asi zvichida ndiyo yakakosha zvikuru yakatengesa iyo yakamuunza kurumbidzwa kwenyika yose nekufarirwa kwaiva bhuku - "Nzira Yakanakisisa Yokurega Kusvuta." Pane imwe nguva Carr akati: "Sezvo ndasvuta fodya yangu yokupedzisira makore 23 akapfuura, ini ndaive munhu anofara zvikuru munyika. Nhasi ini ndichiri kunzwa zvakafanana. " Mufaro chete hauna kupera kwenguva yakareba - muzhizha ra2006 aive asina kukwanisa kuzvimba mumapapu, nekuda kwekuti haana kurarama kunyange nguva yechando chisati yavapo ...

Munyori we mabhuku makumi maviri nemakumi maviri pamusoro pekufara, Choi Yong-hee akazviuraya

Munyori weSouth Korean Choi Yong-hee akadzidzisa kwemakore akawanda kuti angararama sei achifara nguva dzose. "Muparidzi Womufaro" - vaverengi vake vanoonga vainzi nezita mabhuku makumi maviri anokosha ane mapapiro nokuda kwehupenyu husingaverengeki uye hunoenderana-kuva. Uyezve, sebhokisi kubva pabhuruu, nhau dzakasimuka apo mukadzi wemakore makumi matanhatu nemasere ainge asarudza kugadzirisa nhoroondo neupenyu huno hunofadza, uye kunyange nekambani pamwe nemurume wake wemakore 72! Izvi ndizvo zvaakanyora mubhuku rake rokuzviuraya:

"Chiremba akandiudza kuti maiva nemvura zhinji mumapapu, nokuda kweizvozvo, zvakandiomera kuti ndifemere. Mwoyo wangu uriwo muhutano. Ndakanga ndisingadi kuramba ndiri muchipatara chakazara nemishonga. Uye handigone kumira marwadzo zvakare. Murume wangu aisakwanisa kunditendera kuti ndife ndoga. Saka takasarudza kubva munyika ino pamwechete. "

Robert Atkins akafa nokuneta

Robert Atkins inyanzvi inobva kuUnited States uye, zvichida, munyori wenyika inonyanya kuzivikanwa noutano hwakakonzerwa nekuderedza kudyiwa kwemakhahydrates. Zvakanaka, unoyeuka - kudya mafuta uye kurasikirwa nehutemi? Saka, nanhasi chikonzero chakakonzerwa nekufa kwake mugore rechigumi nembiri rehupenyu hwake iko kukuvara kweganiocerebral semugumisiro wekudonha pachitsiko chinopenya. Asi gore rakatevera, The Wall Street Journal yakakwanisa kusvika kuchokwadi kuburikidza nekubudisa ruzivo rwakashata kubva kumushumo wezvakavanzika wehutano uchitaura kuti chikonzero chekuwira pakuderera kunotsvedza chakanga chiri kurwisa kwemwoyo, semugumisiro wekushaya simba kwemoyo uye ... kuneta!

Zvinotarisa kuti vatengesi nemhuri yemufi vakaedza zvakanyanya kuti vadzike chokwadi ichi uye vakanga vari muchikamu chinopesana neauto, asi iye zvino nhasi inozivikanwa kuti vasati vafa chiremba-nutritionist airema 117 kg uye aiva nezvinetso zvakakomba zveutano.