Zvinoreva izwi kushingaira kunobva kubva muchiGiriki midzi, inoreva humwe humwe humwe humwe hunofadza, iyo, sekutonga, hunova mune nyota yezviito uye basa kune zvinangwa uye mabasa akaiswa.
Chii chinoreva kushingaira uye chairevei pakutanga?
Kana nhasi kushingaira, kushingaira uye kushingaira zvinowirirana, saka kare kare pfungwa ye "kushingaira" yakanga yakasiyana. Akashandisa kutaura uku muchiitiko chavaida kurondedzera mamiriro ehumwe munhu ane huMwari. Somuenzaniso, tinogona kuyeuka kushingaira kwaBacchantes. Zvisinei, kubvira panguva yekare kare kusvika kune mazuva ano, shoko iri rainyanya kushandiswa sechinyorwa chekuita kwevanhu pane chimwe chinhu chakaisvonaka.
Apo pane kushingaira uye kushingaira?
Zvinotendwa kuti kubuda kwehurumende yakadaro kune denderedzwa rinokosha rekufungidzira. Pakati pavo, unogona kunyora zvinotevera:
- Munhu anowana nzira inogona kuita kuti azadzise chinangwa chake , uye izvi zvinoita nyota yekuita.
- Munhu anotsvaga munguva pfupi kuti aite nehuwandu hwebasa, achiverenga pane imwe kukurudziro kana kupinda munguva ino isina nguva.
- Munhu anowana ruzivo rutsva uye unyanzvi, uye anoedza kukurumidza kudzidza mukuita.
- Munhu akasika matsika matsva ekutanga uye akagadzirisa zvinangwa zvitsva, izvo chaizvoizvo uye zvinobudirira.
Chero ipi zvayo yekusarudza inobvumira munhu kuti ashande nesimba, achikurumidza, achifara uye achifarira zvikuru kupfuura nguva. Kazhinji mabasa iwayo ayo munhu anotorwa nemafaro ari mukati memweya, kana kuti akawana zvimwe zvezvinangwa zvake zvemukati.
Chii chisina kusimba chisina kupfeka?
Kana munhu aine shungu kwazvo nebasa rake uye achida kushanda masikati neusiku, uye kukurudzira kwake mudiki kana kwete zvachose, anonzi ari kushanda pasina kushingaira. Munyaya iyi, inofanira kunzwisiswa kuti munhu anoisa zvaanoita munyaya yacho kwete nekuda kwekupa mubairo, asi nekuda kwenyaya yacho pachayo, zvichida kubva pakunzwira tsitsi kwakanyanya kwaari.
Dzimwe nguva kushingaira uye kuvimba kwakabatana: munhu anoshanda nesimba nokuti anotenda kuti nokukurumidza kana kuti gare gare achacherechedza nekusimudzirwa, kana kuti achagoverwa kuwedzera mubhadharo. Zvisinei, zvichibva pane zvinoreva zvakananga zvezwi rokuti "anofarira", izvi hazvibviri, nokuti hazvirevi kunyora kunyange chinangwa chakavanzika chedyire.
Pasinei nokuti kushingairira mubasa kazhinji kunogamuchirwa, chirevo "chisina kupfeka" chinoramba chichiratidza chimwe chinhu chinoshoora kune munhu asingaremekedzi basa rake pachake.
Nzira yekukudziridza sei kushingaira pakati pevashandi?
Sezvo mutemo, kuitira kuti vashandi vekambani vabate basa nekushingaira, vanofanirwa kunge vaine chikonzero chakanaka, uye kwete nguva dzose zvinoreva kuwana pfuma. Sezvo mutemo, vanhu vanofarira kuita nharo dzakasiyana-siyana, kunyange kana mubairo usingakoshi zvikuru - mudzimu wemauto uye kukunda pachako ikozvino kushanda sevanokurudzira zvakanaka.
Zvisinei, iyo inokurudzira yakaisvonaka yekushingaira, semupiro wemari, ichagara yakakosha.
Ndiani anofarira?
Munhu anofarira haasi chero munhu wese anoshanda nesimba zvakanyanya nekuda kwekuwedzera mubhadharo wake. Uyu ndiye anoita zvimwe zvezvinangwa zvake zvemukati, zvinangwa uye mafungiro pasina kubatsirwa chero kupi zvako kubva pamabasa ake.
Nokudaro, kunyange kana vashandi vekambani vachikurudzirwa nemabhonasi akasiyana-siyana, havazove vanofarira. Asi kana iwe usingabhadhari mubhadharo, uye vanhu vacharamba vachishanda - munyaya iyi shoko rokuti "anofarira" rakanaka sezvinoreva "chiito chekushingaira".