Chiedza chekuziva nguva yepfungwa
1. Unofarira muviri wako here?
A. Kuve akatendeseka, ndine chimwe chinhu chekuita ne (chii chandisina kukwana).
B. Kazhinji pane kwete.
V. Hongu, ndakayananisa nekukanganisa kwangu.
2. Unofarira basa rako here?
A. Ndinoda zvandiri kuita.
B. Handifariri kushanda.
V. Kwete nguva dzose, asi pane dzimwe nguva apo iwe unofarira chaizvo (zvinowanzoitika).
3. Kana pane chimwe chinhu chinosvika kwamuri :
A. Une kuzvikudza kwakakwirira.
B. Unoshamisika uye unofara.
V. Kwauri ichi chinhu chaicho chiri pachena.
4. Kana uchida kugadzirisa nekukurumidza nyaya yebhizimisi yakakomba, iwe:
A. Iwe unoedza kuzvigadzirisa iwe pachako purogiramu yakasimba.
B. Bvunza rubatsiro kubva kune vamwe kana kuchinja mutoro kune vamwe vanhu mapepa.
Mubvunzo: Iwe unodzokorora chisarudzo chake muchidimbu kuti usvike pakugadzirisa kwakarurama uye uwedzere dzimwe nzira dzekutungamirira nyaya yacho.
5. Unowana mashoko akanaka kwazvo. Pakutanga kwekutanga iwe:
A. Ita fomu iyo kwauri iwe haina basa.
B. Haugoni kuzvitenda.
B. Manzwiro emufaro anokukurira iwe.
6 . Iwe unowanzozvipa mhosva iwe nekuda kwekukundikana kwehupenyu here?
A. Kazhinji.
B. Mumatambudziko angu ose, hupenyu hwehupenyu, dzimwe nguva dzakapoteredzwa, hunokanganisa, asi kwete ini.
V. Dzimwe nguva zvinoitika.
7. Paunowana mubhadharo, iwe:
A. Endai kunotenga.
B. Bata nezvikwereti.
V. Tumira pakarepo chikamu chemari kuenda kukero, iyo yamuchadzorera mwedzi woga woga.
8. Kuva nechirwere chisingaperi, iwe:
A. Sami anoedza kuita zvose kuti awanezve.
B. Hazvikuvhiringidzii zvakawanda, siya zvose sezvazviri.
B. Endai kuna vanachiremba uye ma pharmacy.
9. Ndeupi mutsara uri pedo newe?
A. Zvakanaka kuti zvinoguma zvakanaka.
B. Gamuchira zvinhu zvose sezvazviri.
B. Zvose zvinoitwa, kuti zviri nani.
10. Une kurota here?
A. Ndinosarudza kuita zvirongwa zvehupenyu, kwete kutenderera mumakore.
B. Hungu, ndinoda kurota.
В. Hakuna. Zvese zvandakarota nezvayo zvave zvatoitika.
Cherechedza, ndeipi mhinduro dzawakagamuchira - A, B kana B.
Mamwe mhinduro A
Iwe uri "wechidiki". Mazano uye vamwe kusazvipira, pamwe nehuwandu hwako, hakutenderi kukura uye kuva munhu akazvimiririra. Paunenge usisiri kunetseka pamusoro pezvinofungwa nevamwe pamusoro pako, iwe uchanzwa wakasununguka pane zviri kuitika zvakapoteredza iwe. Iwe hausi kuzotorwa kubva pafudzi paunenge uchida kuita chisarudzo chinokosha, uye kubvisa tsika yekupa mhosva munhu wese akakukomberedza nekuda kwematambudziko ako.
Mamwe Mhinduro B
Iwe uri "mwana". Vana vakaoma munyika yevakuru. Kunzwisisa nyaya dzinokosha, kutora mutoro, kubhadhara uye kubhadhara zvikwereti - izvi zviito zvichava chiratidzo chevanhu vakuru.
Mamwe Mhinduro Mu
Iwe uri munhu akazvimirira, wakakura. Munhu mukuru anogona, panguva yakakodzera, "anosanganisira" mucheche wemukati kana mwana. Iwe unoziva kugadzirisa mibvunzo inokosha, inakidzwa noupenyu nekusika.
Kutsanangurwa kwemigumisiro
"Mwana anofadza"
MASHOKO ECHINYOROGOLI - MAKORE 7-12
Kana munhu asina hanya nemitemo nemitemo yomukomana wake wemukati uye munhu mukuru, ipapo chinangwa chemukomana chinotanga kukunda kupfuura mamwe maviri. Mukufungisisa kwevanhu vakadaro kune izwi: vatakuri vePeter Pen syndrome. Mwana ane hanya naPeter Pen haadi kutora chikamu muupenyu hukuru hwevanhu vakuru. Kune rumwe rutivi, iye anonakidza "mwana", kune mumwewo - mhuka huru, iyo inofunga kuti nyika inofanira kusangana nevanoda vake. Basa, mutoro, chido chekuwana mari uye kugadzirisa hupfumi - izvi zvose zvinounza Peter Foam kuzvidya, kutya. Upenyu hunofanira kumuunza iye mufaro chete. "Mwana anoyemura" anofarira mitambo yemakombiyuta, anosangana neboka revaPotterians vanoronga mapato anodhura, vanoenda kumhemberero yevane firimu re "The Lord of the Rings" uye vanovhima ring iri navo. Zvakakosha kuziva kuti mwana mukuru uyu haana kunyatsogadziriswa nehupenyu - munhu wemakore makumi matatu kana makumi mana anogona kugadziriswa nekuwana pangozi, haaina mhuri uye anorarama hupenyu husiku hwebhudhi kana pane sofa pamberi peTV.
Shanda
Vakawanda vaPieters Peña vanofunga kudzidza nokushanda semabasa anonyadzisa. Saka, kazhinji kuenda kuchikoro, kuwana basa. "Pano ivo vane nguva yakaoma - uye zviremera hazvinzwisisi, uye vashandi pamwe navo vanovhiringidza, saka vanochinja mabasa kakawanda," anodaro mupfungwa yepfungwa SVETLANA DUBININ. Aya "vana" havana hanya, vanogona kuderedza basa racho, nokuti "hapana kukurudzira". Pakuvamba kwebasa rezuva, havana nguva yekushanda, vanoshanda kubva pasi pedu, vachiedza, kana zvichibvira, kuti varambe vari pazororo. Pakuguma, hapana pokugara kwenguva refu. Zvose zvikwereti izvi zvakagadzirira kuti vanhu vakadaro vatange pamagetsi matsva kana mitambo yemavhidhiyo (kunoparadza mabhizimisi ehurumende).
Ukama nevanoda
"Vana vakuru" vanoona vanhu nenzira yekubatsira uye zvinodiwa. Mumwe anogona kukurumidza kugadzirisa motokari yake - zvinoreva kuti shamwari dzakanaka, imwe yacho yakagadzirira chero nguva yekuita kambani yekuenda kuchikwata - shamwari yakanaka. Ushamwari hunosanganisira kutarisirwa pamwe, izvo Peter Pan asingakwanisi kuzviona - sechikonzero, haana shamwari dzechokwadi, asi pane vanozivana. Ukama nevabereki ve "mwana mukuru" uyu unobatanidza hasha dzake nekuda kwekugadzirisa uye chido chekuchema mujasi rake. Vabereki, nenzira, "Peter Pen" ushingi anotora mari muupenyu hwake. Hazvivabatsiri pakudzoka.
Nzira yekukurukurirana navo sei?
Ukama ne "mwana mukuru" nguva dzose iri pamucheto. Iye, kufanana nevana vose, kazhinji anogumburwa, anozviti iye uye anoda kuti nyika iswededze kwaari.
1. Nesheiri . Vanhu vakadaro, sekutonga, usatora nzvimbo dzakakwirira. Asi, kunyange zvakagadzirwa nehuwandu, vanogona kuparadza vashandi vako. Semuenzaniso, ivo ndivo vahedheni vakanakisisa kune avo vakuru, saka pedyo ne "mwana" waunoda kuti meso ako asvinure. Kana asingakudi iwe, anogona kutora sangano revashandi kukurwisa.
Nzira dzakarurama . Zviri nani kugara kure ne "murume muduku ane tsvina". Naiye iwe unofanira kutaura zvakanaka, teerera kana kuzvifananidza kuti unzwe kwaari. Zviri nani kuti usataura pamusoro pako, kana rimwe zuva rinogona kushandiswa kupikisana newe.
Ndiine jaya . Iye anofadza uye anofadza, asi kana iwe uchibvuma kuti unotarisira zviito zvekuita kubva kwaari, angave achitya. "Kufambira mberi kwake mupfungwa kwakaramba kuripo pakutanga - zvakaoma kuti anzwisise izvo mukadzi anoda kubva kwaari. Rudo rwake rudo rwemukomana ane makore gumi nemaviri. Naye unogona kufara, uye kwete kuvaka ukama hurefu, "- anodaro Svetlana Dubinina. Kana iwe uchida kugadzira mhuri pamwe naye, cherechedza mupfungwa: iye achava mwana wechipiri, mushure mokunge iwe unoda maziso nemaziso. Nevana vake, "Petro" ane utsinye, nokuti anouya mukukwikwidza kwe "Amai". Kuhupenyu hwemhuri hahudzidziri - uye haugoni kuisa misodzi.
Nzira dzakarurama . Madzimai, anotsvaka rudo rwemwana uye kutarisira. Asi dzidzo mukuoma haina kukuvadza - iye pokapriznichaet, asi anoteerera. Pasi pesimba re "amai" zvakasimba, anogona kusvika kusvika kune zvidzidzo zvepamusoro.
Ndimai . Amai-mwana vanoita sevari kuratidza kusava nemhosva, asi chaizvoizvo vanogona kukanganisa zvakanyanya mararamiro ehupenyu hwenyu. Anoramba achida kutarisirwa. Kubvira panguva yaunenge uchienda kubasa, iwe unotakura mari iwe uchava mutoro wako wakananga. Kana iwe nomurume wako muchigara pasi pedenga rimwechete saamai venyu, muchagoverwa kurambana. Mushure mezvose, amai vangu vanodavira kuti hamugoni kuva veumwe munhu kunze kwake.
Nzira dzakarurama . Kutanga, tanga kurarama zvakasiyana, uye chechipiri, apo iye anokubvunza zvakare mari, ramba! Uye pasina dambudziko rehana! Kana amai vacho vasingarwari uye vasina kukwegura, ndeyezera raunogona kuwana basa, iye anofanira kuzvipa. Uye iwe wakagadzirira kutsigira nekubatsira, asi usatora zvose zvaunofarira iwe pachako.
"Muchechi Asingaperi"
MAZUVA OKUPENYU - MAKORE 16-18
Kana munhu akakura nokuda kwechimwe chikonzero asina kuguma, zvino mupfungwa yepfungwa haasi mwana asingatambudziki, asiwo kwete munhu mukuru - pano tiri kutarisana ne "musikana wekusingaperi". Iye ane kutya kwakadaro kwenyika ine utsinye, asi patsoka dzake anomira akasimba uye anoedza kurwisa vose vatorwa, kuratidza uhilism uye maximalism. Mukomana ane iron yekuda uye chido chikuru chekuitika muupenyu. Panguva imwecheteyo, kuzvikudza kwakaderera, izvo ari kuedza kuwedzera pazvinotambudza mumwe munhu.
Shanda
"Vechidiki ndivo vanonyanya kuchenjera: vanenge vakagadzirira" kupfuura nemitumbi "vasina kutarisa shure. Havana kuongorora zviito zvavo zvachose, vanozvigura pamapfudzi avo. Havana hanya nemanzwiro evamwe, nokuti vanhu vakadaro havanzwisisi tsitsi (kukwanisa kunzwisa tsitsi). Aya mazita matatu: njodzi, kusaremekedza vamwe netarenda yekunyengedza vanovabvumira kuti vabudirire mberi kwebasa remhizha, "- anodaro Liza DOGODINA, nyanzvi yezvepfungwa, murasi wega yoga paWorld World Center.
Ukama nevanoda
Pamusana pokusava netsitsi, wechidiki anovaka hukama hwakakomba nehama, uye izvi hazvirevi vabereki chete, asiwo shamwari, mamwe mahafu. Wechiri kuyaruka anotenda kuti unogona kunyadzisa hama dzako, kuvamanikidza, nekuti vanokuda - zvirokwazvo haazogadzirwi nechisimba. Nokudaro - nguva dzose kukakavadzana mumhuri uye nevanodiwa. Mune shamwari, vechidiki vanosarudza munhu kutevera, akagadzirira kubvumira kunyadziswa.
Nzira yekukurukurirana navo sei?
Ndiine bhosi . Iwe haugoni kupokana naye, kuratidza kusakwana kwebasa racho.
Nzira dzakarurama . Rumbidzai kana zvichibvira. Kana iwe une mazano, fungidzira iwo mukunaka kwakanaka: akazvigadzira zvinhu zvose, uye iwe unozviita.
Ndiine jaya . Anogona kuva nemhuri, kumubatsira, asi haazovi akatendeka kumudzimai wake nekuita vana.
Nzira dzakarurama . Kana iwe uchida "mwana wechidiki" kuti ave chikamu chemhuri yedzimba, unofanirwa kuchinja kuva vakadzi vakasiyana-siyana uye mamiriro ezvinhu anoshamisa kwaari mazuva ese.
Ndimai . Inopesana pakuti inowanzogadzira uye inoongorora imba. Paunenge uchida chimwe chinhu, unogona kuzviita semabhizimisi; asi kana akakurumidza kubatsirwa rubatsiro, unofanira kubhururuka nepakati peguta uye uve parutivi rwako pakarepo.
Nzira dzakarurama . Usaita zvechisimba kwaari kunodanidzira pamusoro pekuti iye anoda chimwe chinhu ikozvino. Kana uine zvinhu zvako pachako, vapedzise. Paunenge wakasununguka, batsira amai vako. Pakutanga, haazofari nemamiriro acho ezvinhu. Asi nebasa rinogara iwe unogona kumutsa munhu mukuru mairi.
Superstar
MASHOKO ECHIKORIKORI - MAKORE 60-70
Zvinokwanisika here kutaura kuti mukuru wevanhu vakuru vemumba ndivo izvo zvinodiwa kuti nguva yedu yepfungwa ive yakakwana? Kwete! Zvinotarisa kuti kana mwana wepamuviri uye achiri kuyaruka "akarara" mumunhu, anova semunhu akadzama akwegura.
Ukama nevanoda
Vanhu ava havadi varaidzo, vanogara vachizvidza munhu wese uye vari pedo navo, vari kuronga zvirongwa, kwemakore akawanda ari kuuya, vachiedza kutevedzera zvakakwana kurongwa.
Shanda
Munhu uyu haafariri kuchinja - vanomutyisa, saka anoshanda kwenguva refu munzvimbo imwe. Sezvo mutemo, vanhu vakadaro vanosarudza "chaiyo" maitiro - zvose zvinoda kuverenga zvakajeka uye kurongeka kwezviito. Ivo vane mhosva, vakatendeseka vanoita zvinhu panguva nenguva nekanganiso kana zvishoma. Uye ivo vanoda maitiro akadaro kuti vashande kubva kune vashandi pamwe chete: havabvumiri apo vashandi vavo vanopedza nguva, vanosiya kana kuita zvose panguva yekupedzisira.
Nzira yekukurukurirana navo sei?
Ichi ndicho chinetso chakanyanya kuoma kunzwisisa, icho munhu anofanira kutsvaga nzira yake.
Ndiine bhosi . "Superstar" nehuchenjeri hwake inogona kunge iri pachigaro chevakuru. Zvadaro kune vanyori pachava nenguva yehondo nechisimba "nguva dzenguva dzenguva" uye zvisinganzwisisi "kudzingwa". Hazvizokwanisi kutsauka kubva muBhuku reBasa. Iwe unofanira kuverenga kontrakiti. Kana chimwe chinhu iwe, mumaonero ake, chichienda zvakashata, iwe uchabva wabviswa pakarepo nokuda kwenyaya yacho.
Nzira dzakarurama . Usadanidzira kwaari uye usapindira. Edza kuti usanonoka kubasa, kwete kuputsa nguva dzakatadza uye kuti urege kusiya basa kare.
Ndiine jaya . Nekiki, iwe haugoni kutarisira rudo.
Nzira dzakarurama . Iri dombo risingasvikiki rinogona kukundwa ne caress, kutarisira uye unyoro. Usambofa wataurirana naye basa rake uye unyanzvi hwebhizimisi.
Ndimai . Kana amai vacho vari "nyota", zvino anoda uye ane hanya navana, asi unhu haubvumiri kuti aratidze manzwiro.
Nzira dzakarurama . Teerera kune tirades ose amai vangu nemirairo. Edza kuzadzisa zvose izvi, asi nenzira yakanyarara ita sezvaunoona zvakakodzera.