Varume veimba vanotambudza - ichi chinhu chinowanzoitika. Mukadzi anowanzovanza kuti murume wake ndiye munhu ane utsinye, asi anoda ruzivo rwechiremba wepfungwa kuti azive nzira yekuzvibata nayo.
Nzira yekudzivisa sei murume - mutongi uye manipulator?
Munhu ane utsinye ane utsinye, ane dambudziko rine simba uye anotsigira kune vamwe vanhu. Haakwanisi kuisa pakutanga mune chero mamiriro ezvinhu, asi kana ukadzima nyota yako yekubasa kubasa, haibatsiri, anotanga "kuvaka" imba. Chero mukadzi chero upi zvake akagumisa kuti murume wake ndiye ane utsinye , munhu anofanira kuwana mhinduro kumubvunzo wekugara naye.
Nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzinokurudzira kutevera mitemo mimwe inobatsira kudzivisa murume anotambudza:
- mumwe anofanira kubvuma chokwadi chokuti murume mutongi uye manipulator, hazvina maturo kuigadzirisa, zvinokonzera hasha uye utsinye;
- mumwe haafaniri kukanganwira kusaremekedzwa kwemurume wake uye chisimba, anofanira kunge akadzingwa, achimanikidzwa kuzviverengera iye pachake, uye kana mhinduro iri kurwisana - zvakakosha kugovana nemurume akadaro;
- iwe unofanirwa kuchengetedza hukama hwako hwevanhu, kunyange kana hama neshamwari dzomumwe wako vasingadi murume wako, ndivo vanhu ava mumamiriro ezvinhu akaoma anogona kuve kutsigirwa nekusigirwa;
- zvakakosha kuziva nhare yerunhare yebasa rehutano kuitira kuti ugamuchire nokukurumidza mazano evanofunga nezvepfungwa kuti abvise mafungiro asina kunaka uye kugadzirisa kusawirirana.
Mukadzi ane utsinye anobvumira here kana kuti anobvisa?
Nokukurumidza kana kuti gare gare, chero mudzimai wekudzvinyirira anoshamisika kana achizomuregerera mberi kana kurambana. Dare repasi rose munyaya iyi haigoni kuva, nokuti rinowanzoitika kuti, pasinei nekunyangadza kwemurume wake, kune mafungiro akadzikama uye kuyeuka pakati pevakaroorana.
Mukuwedzera, pane zvimwe zvikonzero zvekuchengetedza mhuri, iyo inofanirwa kuverengwa. Kutanga, ndiko kuvapo kwevana. Munenge munyaya ipi zvayo, baba vachave vakakwanisa kugovera mhuri kupfuura amai mumwe. Chimwe chinhu chinonyanya kukosha ndechimiro chemudzimai akaroorwa, uyo asina mudzimai wese anosarudza kugovana.
Nzira yekubvisa sei mutongi wemurume wake?
Kana hupenyu huri pamwe nemudzvinyiriri uye manipulator hukasagadzikana, zvakakosha kusiya. Sezvo murume akadaro, zvichida, haazobvumiri mudzimai wake kuti agare akanyarara, mukadzi anofanira kunge akagadzirira.
Chokutanga, zvakafanira
Kazhinji kacho, mushure mechinguva, murume anotambudza anotanga kunzwisisa zvikanganiso zvake uye anoedza kusimbisa ukama uye kudzorera mudzimai wake. Mukadzi ari munyaya iyi anofanira kuvimba nemafungiro akafanana uye ruzivo. Zvichida murume akadzidza chokwadi chokuti mudzimai wake haazozvibvumi kukuvara uye anogona kupa mukana wechipiri.