Ukama nemunhu waunoda kunogona "kuputsa" panguva yakareba isingatarisirwi, pangave nezvikonzero zvakawanda zveizvi, asi chero zvipi zvaro kugovana kunogara kwakaoma. Mumwe munhu ari kuparadzaniswa oga, mumwe munhu ari kuedza kuzvikanganwa nedoro, mumwe munhu ari kutsvaga dzimwe nzira dzekuvhiringidza, uye mumwe munhu ari kuedza kutora hafu yake.
Nzira yekudzoka sei ukama nemunhu waunoda?
Chimbofunga mazano mashomanana achakubatsira iwe kunzwisisa nzira yekudzorera ukama mushure mekuparadzanisa:
- Kutanga, edza kudzorera kukurukurirana uye kuva shamwari yako shamwari, kuitsigira, kupa mazano akanaka, kugoverana mufaro, nezvimwewo, asi usanetseka kubvunza shamwari mushure mokunge wapera, kumirira zvishoma, ngazvive mwedzi kana maviri.
- Usakanganwa kuchengeta ziso pamusoro pechitarisiko chako, kana iwe usati wambogona kuonekwa pamberi peadiwa vako mune jasi rinopfekedzwa uye risati raumbwa, zvino tive wakashongedzwa zvakakwana, regai murume wacho aone chakanaka chaakarasikirwa nacho.
- Imwe nzira yakarurama, nzira yekudzoka nayo ukama nemurume mushure mekuparadzanisa, ndeyekugadzirisa kukurukurirana naamai vake. Kana iwe usina kuita izvi zvisati zvaitika, zvino ndiyo nguva. Uyai kuzomushanyira, muudze kuti mwanakomana wake akanaka sei, sei iwe unomuda uye kuti zvakaoma sei kunze kwake. Kutenda, vanaamai vane simba guru munharaunda iyi pamusoro pevanakomana vavo.
- Yeuka kuti iwe nguva dzose hauna kuda murume mukati mako. Zvichida akafunga kuti iwe hauna kunyengera kana kuzvikudza, edza kuchinja uye kuva zvaanoda iwe.
- Kudzoka hukama neunoda wako kubva kure, hongu, zvakaoma, asi pano zvakare kune zvakakosha. Regai murume wacho arege kukuona kwechinguva, usanzwa inzwi rako. Iwe unoedza kuchinja, kuzviisa muhutano, zvakanaka, rimwe zuva, ita kuti uzvinzwe, kudana, kutumira SMS, zvirokwazvo zvichava zvinofadza kuti murume wacho ataure newe uye ona, zvakanaka, zvino ita.