Mumwe munhu angashamisika - sei iwe uchida kuziva zviratidzo zvekuti murume akarega kumudzimai wake, asi psychology yemurume uyu ndeyekuti chero bedzi ukama hwerutivi hahusviki pane imwe nzvimbo, zvinogona kuwira nyore nyore. Zvinotarisa kuti ruzivo rwakadaro runogona kuchengetedza mhuri kana mukadzi wacho achikurumidza kudzorerazve hukama.
Zviratidzo zvekutanga izvo murume akamira achida
- Chiratidzo chokutanga chekuparara kwemanzwiro akapfuura pane chikamu chemurume ndechokushayikwa kwekunhudza zvinyoro. Mune nguva yekuchiva, mukadzi wako chero nguva anowanzobata munhu anodikanwa. Kunyanya murume anofara nekurohwa pakavanzika kana kutsvoda kutsvoda pane imwe nguva isingakoshi. Kana vakamira - murume "akadzivirirwa pasi" kumukadzi. Uye kana pasina hupombwe muhupenyu hwevakaroorana - kazhinji, chikamu chave chava pedyo.
- Kana murume akamira achida mukadzi, anotanga kumugumbura. Uye kunetseka uye kusagadzikana zvinoratidzwa pane chero, kunyange iyo nguva isinganyanyi kukosha. Nokudaro, pazviratidzo zvokutanga zvekusagutsikana uye kusawirirana, mukadzi anofanira kubhadhara kumurume uye edza kunzwisisa chikonzero chekutsamwa.
- Chimwe chiratidzo chekuparara kwekunzwa ndiko kusaremekedzwa uye tsitsi kune mudzimai wake. Kana murume akaseka tsika dzewawakaroorana naye, haanzwisisi tsitsi kana akaneta kana kurwara- rudo mumurume uyu haruri kurarama. Uye kana iwe usingateereri zviratidzo zvekutanga - zvinonyadzisa uye kushorwa kunotanga.
- Kusanzwisisana nekuvanzika kunoratidzawo kuti mhuri haina kutendeka. Mhuri inofara, vakaroorana vanoedza kunzwisisa mumwe nomumwe, kupa chimwe chinhu. Nokudaro, zvinhu zvakasiyana, zvakadai sekuwana pamwe neshamwari, murume haavanze. Asi kana ane zvakavanzika, ipapo kuvapo kwemhuri iri mumatambudziko. Zvimwe ndezvokuti kana murume ari kugadzirira kushamisika kumudzimai wake pane imwe nguva.
- Kupera kwemazwi kunoratidzwawo nekunyangarika kubva kumashoko ekunyora evanhu vane mazita ekunyomba uye ane rudo, anonzwisiswa chete nevarume vakaroka. Pamwe chete navo, kuzvidzora uye kusununguka kwehukama hwevanhu vane rudo huchapera.