Iro shoko rokuti "chimiro" muchiGiriki rinoreva "chimiro chakasiyana" (nokuti mutsara unoti "unhu hunhu" mune dzimwe nzira kunyange tautology), uye kubva apa pano huchatora, semufananidzo, chifananidzo cheumwe neumwe wedu. Nhasi tichataura nezvehuhu hupi hunhu hwemhando, iyo yakafanana nevakomana, uye iyo inodzokorora, uyewo kuti ungawana sei unhu hwemunhu.
Nhamba yakadini iyo inoitwa?
Vabereki vazhinji vanokanganisa kutenda kuti nhengo itsva yemhuri iyi yepepiti yakachena paunogona kutora chero chinhu. Zvechokwadi, humwe hutsika hwehutano hunoenderana nemamiriro ezvinhu akaitwa nevabereki muhuduku, asi zvakakosha kunzwisisa kuti munhu anovandudza uye anochinja muupenyu hwake hwose (kunyange zvazvo pfungwa yakakosha yakaiswa mukati maro kusvika kumakore matatu), uye hupenyu hunotanga mudumbu amai.
Kutsvaga uye kutendeseka
Zvinotendwa kuti mufambiro unotsanangurwa nemunhu, asi panguva ino iyi kana iyo iyo (basa) zvishoma nezvishoma inotungamirira kune simba rehutsika. Izvi zvakataurwa naAristotle. Kunyange zvakadaro, kune zvimwe zvakadaro nheyo dzehutano dzakasikwa matiri kubva pakuberekwa, uye hunochinja humwe unhu. Izvo pamusoro pemafungiro akadai sokushongedza uye kutadza.
Chii ichi chisinganzwisisi shoko rinokurudzira. Saka vanofunga nezvepfungwa vanoidza kukura kwakanyanya kwehumwe unhu hweunhu. Kuenzanisira kwekusimudzira kwakave kwakagadzirwa zvishoma, isu tinowanzoshandisa zvinhu zviviri chete:
- An extrovert. Rudzi urwu rwevanhu vanhu vari kutungamira kune mabasa evanhu uye mune kambani huru vanozviona sehove mumvura.
- Introvert. Vakawanda vanovhiringidza kusanganisa neinyara, asi izvi hazvisi zvechokwadi zvechokwadi. Kungoita zvinyorwa zvinotora simba rinokosha kubva kune zvavanenge vabva uye vanozviona sega voga kana vakapoteredzwa nevanhu vashomanana.
Mukuwedzera kumanyoro, masayendisiti epfungwa anobatanidza unhu hwemhando mumapoka maererano nemafungiro. Zvichida wakanzwa tsanangudzo idzi: choleric, phlegmatic, sanguine uye melancholic. Musati mavaudza, ngatiedzei kuti tione kuti ndeipi yemhando mana dzounhu hwenyu?
Mini-test: "Unhu hupi hunonzi?"
Uyu muedzo wakaratidzwa nemuhanzi Bydrstup nenzira yekaroto. Kubva ipapo, iye anowanzobatanidzwa mune zvitsvaga kuti aone kusununguka.
Saka, fungidzira kuti iwe ugere pabhenji, uye pedo newe ndiwe chiya chako chaunoda. Uye kamwe kamwe mumwe munhu anokanganisa zvakananga pamusoro wepamusoro. Zvaunoita:
vauya mukutsamwa, uye kuputika pamhosva yako manzwiro ako (X); usakurumidza kutsamwa: pakupedzisira, mamiriro acho ezvinhu anonyadzisa (C); kutsamwa kwazvo, asi iwe unoedza kusaratidza manzwiro aya asina kunaka (M); uzvifananidza kuti zvinhu zvose zvakarongeka, imperturutori kutora hove yakakanganiswa ndokuiisa pamusoro wako (F).
Mhinduro
(X) Choleric. "Ini ndine kolera" ndeyekuzivikanwa nguva dzose kwevasikana vaduku, nokuti mafungiro akachinja, chinangwa, simba uye kunyange maitiro ehutano hwemhando iyi (kana, zvechokwadi, zvimwe zvinangwa zvinotsanangurwa). Akashata anokosha hupenyu hwemweya, zvisingaiti muhutano hwake hutsamwa nekutsamwa.
(S) Sanguine. Iwe unoratidzirwa nekushamwaridzana, kukwanisa kukurumidza kusangana nevanhu uye, kazhinji, kuenderana nemamiriro matsva. Zvisinei, pane kusagadzikana uye nyota nguva dzose yekuchinja kwemaonero. Sanguine kune zvakawanda zvakanyanyisa, nei achigona kupomerwa mhosva.
Phlegmatic. Zvichida uri kuudzwa kuti iwe usine usimbe, zvisinei, chokwadi chokuti iwe hausi pakarepo uri mubhizimisi idzva hazvirevi kuti hazvizoperi. Pane zvinopesana, vanhu vane ruzivo vanowanzova nemoyo murefu uye kushivirira. Iwe unowanzorega kurasikirwa nehasha, unotarisa pane simba rako uye usingadi kutaura kwakashata.
Melancholic. Iwe unonetseka uye unonyara. Kutarisana nematambudziko kana, sezvamunofunga, kusanzwisisana, unogona kudonha maoko ako. Pukunyuka mukati mako, kwenguva yakareba, zvakanyanya uye zvakanyanya. Vanoda kutora zvinhu zvose pamwoyo, zvisinei, kana iwe wakapoteredzwa nekuda vanhu, zvinokupa simba uye kunokubatsira kuti upedze mabasa ako.
Ndeupi mhando yemusikana anofanirwa kuda madiki?
Vasikana vanowanzotanga kuziva kuti vanhu vanoita sei, kana zvichibvira, "vakarurama" maitiro avo. Kuti unzwisise kuti hakuna mhinduro isina chokwadi, tarisa kune varume vevamwe shamwari dzako. Iwe unofarira unhu hwavo hwose here? Usashamisika kana iwe unofunga kuti kusagadzikana kune mumwe munhu isimba. Zvose nokuti kunzwisisa kwevamwe vanhu kunowedzera, kusanganisira pane zvaunofunga.
Asi, hongu, pane zvinowanzoonekwa zvakanakira mumamiriro evasikana. Ngatitsvakei kuti unhu hupi uye unhu hunozivikanwa zvikuru nevakomana:
- pfungwa yekuseka. Kana iwe ukaseka jokes imwe chete, asi uchiri kuseka kuseka, ipapo mikana yako yekukoshesa pfungwa ndeyepamusoro. Haana pasina akati Goethe akati "hapana nzira iyo inhu yevanhu inoratidzirwa sezvavanoona kusakoshesa";
- kutarisira, mutsa. Unhu uhwu hunofanirwa navanhu nemasikirwo, nekuti musikana ane hanya achava mai vakanaka;
- neatness. Icho hachina chakanaka mukomana anofarira musikana anonzi slovenly;
- kupa. Kushata kunodzosera uye kushamwaridzana nekutadza;
- kukwanisa kuteerera. Ichi ndicho chimiro chisingawaniki icho
inokosha nemunhu wose, pasinei nehutano hwake; - "Kushungurudza". Hazvina kunaka kuti ma heroes anowanzogumbura mafungiro avo. Hazvirevi kuti mukomana anobvuma kuti anofarira chikamu chechichero, zvisinei, pasina iyi yechinguva yechinguva, hukama huri hutsinye.
Usaedza kuve akakodzera kumunhu wose, shure kwezvose, chero hutano hwehutano hunoita hunoti hunyadzisa. Saka, utsanana hunogona kukura kuva kufadza kwakanyanya, kunyanya-kuva mumararamiro, uye mutsa - mukuzvipira kune kuzvipira uye kupera kweunhu hwake pachake. Iva iwe uye uzvida iwe, nokuti iwe wakasiyana!