Vakadzi vakawanda vanobvunza amai, vasikana, uye vasiri vanhu vanobva kuMusangano mubvunzo mumwe chete: "Ungashamisika sei murume wako?". Mhinduro idzi dzinenge dziri nhamba huru, asi dzichafananidza nemhando dzakasiyana-siyana dzehupenyu: kubva zuva rega rega kusvika kune hwepedyo. Zvisinei, inotanga nekuziva kuti munhu nguva dzose ari mwana mumweya, uye kana achida kudya kana kurara, haafari, uye zvisinei kuti ane makore akadini, uye chinzvimbo chipi chaanoita. Izvi zvakakosha. Nokudaro zvinova pachena kuti kushamisika sei murume kana ane nzara.
Ndeipi dhi kushamisa murume?
Munyika kune nhamba yakawanda yakadai yemapapiro ayo maziso chete anomhanya uye saliva inoyerera. Chii chandingasarudza kuchida? Paunenge uchisarudza chikafu chinoshamisa murume, zvakakosha kuyeuka kuti zvinodiwa zvake zvinonaka zvingave zvakasiyana nezvako. Nokudaro, kunyange kufunga kuti chido cho "kusvitsa" 1 kg ye broccoli mumudzimai asina murombo, kana achirota chikamu, anoruramiswa nehanya nehutano hwake, hazvibvumirwi kurongerwa kuti urambe uri mumweya iwoyo. Mushure mezvose, basa redu nderokupindura mubvunzo "Unofadza sei kushamisika murume?".
"Kudya-kudya" kuchada chero chinhu chinonaka chinogadzirwa kubva muchigadzirwa ichi. Kana kushushikana nezvemiriwo kuchiri kusingokuzorodzeri, edza kugadzirira kudya pamwe chete, zvakadai sekuputika .
Kwemazuva ose
Zvechokwadi, hazvigone kuti mukadzi wemazuva ano ane nguva yakawanda uye simba rekugadzira zvigadzirwa zvezuva nezuva. Zvisinei, kubva nenguva nenguva pfungwa "Ndinoda kushamisika murume wangu" zvisinei asi inouya kumisoro yakajeka yevakadzi vakanaka. Uye izvi zvinoshamisa, nokuti hakuna munhu akaregesa nzira inoenda kune mwoyo une rudo nemugwagwa wemuromo. Kusarudza zvinoshamisa murume wake kwekudya kwemasikati, tapota cherechedza kuti kuitira kuti urove, hazvidikanwe kugara, nokuti maawa asingabatsiri padhefu, kuedza kubika imwe yekadha yakadyiwa nezita risinganzwisisiki. Pane imwe chinyorwa chiduku. Munhu, achiri muchigaro che "akasununguka" uye achigara ari oga, kubika, asingadi, kazhinji kwete nokuti haazive kuti sei, asi nokuti ane usimbe, uye anodya zvikuru kudya kwekutsanya. Vakadzi, vachivhiringidza kuti vangashamisika sei murume wavo anodikanwa, edza kumubata nechingwa chake chakagadzirwa kumba. Kuti kuve nekutenda hakuna kukwevera mudzimai anokosha "kune rumwe rutivi", kureva kuti, mutende rine mazai "asina kufungidzirwa," pamper it ne pizza yakagadzirirwa kana chebureki pachake kugadzirira .
Kuyevedza zvinotapira hazvigoni kuva chikafu chakaoma, chinoda unyanzvi. Pane mamiriro ezvinhu apo, somuenzaniso, iwe wakadzokera kumba pamwe chete, uye sehova ingadai yaive nayo, hapana chakagadzirira. Ungashamisika sei murume wake munyaya iyi? Kukurumidza! Kune mapeji, kushandiswa kwaro hakurevi nguva yakawanda, somuenzaniso, pasta ne nyama yakadyiwa .
Zviitiko zvakakosha
Kushamisa murume wake musi wekuzvarwa kwake kunogoneka kuburikidza nekubatanidzwa kwe "posh tafura pamwe nemukadzi akanaka". Nokudaro, nokuda kwezviitiko zvakadaro, sarudza mapeji akaedzwa (zvose pakuita kubika, uye pamurume). Zviri nani kuti "inopisa" haifaniri kuramba ichimhanya. Zvakanaka ndiro ndiro yakabikwa muchoto. Kunyange zvazvo dha, huku, gorosi kana imwe nyama inoshanduka kuva chokugadzira tafura, zvinobvira kuita bvudzi, kugadzira, kupfekedza maitiro akanaka.
Mutemo iwoyo unoshanda kune mamwe mazororo - mushure mezvose, kushamiswa kwemurume, somuenzaniso, pamusi wekuyeuka, kana mudzimai anonaka kwazvo asingasviki mukati-kati kunyange nemafuta anonaka?
Mukuwedzera pakudya, varume vazhinji vane imwe utera hushoma - chido chekumwa zvishoma pazororo. Zvakanaka, girazi rekunwa doro rakanaka haringakuvadzi, kunyanya sezvo pane chikonzero. Uye pane imwe nguva apo panguva yekugadzirira kwekudya kwemafesheni pane kunonoka kudarika kutambudza murume mukufungidzira, sanganidza pamwe nehokudya inonaka sezvakaita mojito , somuenzaniso.
Pane imwe nzira inozivikanwa kuti ungashamise sei murume wako anodikanwa pamusi wakakomba, kunyange zvazvo anodawo humwe unyanzvi. Bika keke uye uzvishongedze nenzira yepakutanga - haufaniri kuva mukuru wekubika kuti uite kunyora kwakanaka kune yako.
Tinonyatsovimba kuti ikozvino, nerubatsiro rwezano redu, iwe uchagara uine mhinduro kumubvunzo uyu: "Ndinofanira kuitei kuti ndikoke kushamisika murume wangu?"